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I feel unwanted
Hey I'm 14 years old female. And I go to middle school. So I've always been very shy and it's very hard for me to warm up to people. I go to a different school as my best friend and my other friends(it took a while to find the right people), so ever since year 7 I've been pretty lost. This year in year 8 I have a close group of friends, and some others, they've been very nice and stuff, but they've made other friends as well and it seems like they get close so easily, like they're all nice to me in school and hangout and stuff but seldom ask me to hang out out side of school. I have friends, but it seems like our friendships just stay there and we don't seem to get any closer. I don't know if it's my fault or maybe it's just life. Advice is appreciated thank you
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Hey sweets so i know exactly how you feel. Im 16 and my best friends arent in my school and my schools tiny so i dont have much of a choice -in my friendship group they are all best friends and im just kind of there.
Its not your fault. Some people just take more time than others to open up and thats sometimes a good thung because you cant trust anyone, especially in high school and you'll learn that as you get older as well. You could always try talk to others i know its difficult but what you could do is find someone who is a tiny bit shyer than you - i always find it easier for me to talk then because im kind of the more confident one and i find it easier to talk because im not intemidated. Or someone who is easy to talk to and outgoing -then you will be able to talk easily with them. Also the best way to make new and good friends is to make friends through hobbies. For example i started dancing recently and i have bevome so close with the girls at my dance studio. Yoh just need to get into a hobbie or go to someone uou know has the same interests as you ( or even if you dont know, you can always find someone) and talk about those things, the more you talk the easier it becomes for you to talk about other things. I know its hard being shy but you must try get over your fears and worries and put yourself out there.
Goodluck.
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