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I need advice
Hey there.
I am nearly 14, and I have pretty decent friends at school. My group is pretty closely knitted and I always liked it.
My friends do invite me to events, and I've been to their houses and stuff a couple of times. But this weekend, I found out that they threw a party without me. I don't know what I've done wrong, and I don't know what to think of it. I thought they were my friends.
Please help.
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hmm sounds liek you need to talk to them about and get to bottom of why you were not invited if they are good friends. maybe they were only allowed a certain number of friends over. hope this helps and ty heal know nothing you did wrong.
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Hey so i dont know if my situations would be similar to you, but i think some of my friends are close ish, i have been to their house but they dont invite me to stuff. so i can tell u your pretty lucky...... Really the best thing you can do is ask them straight up, are you mad at me, are you frustrated, did i do anything wrong or anything. If they say no no its nothing, dont be a biotch about it but just be like, so why did i not get invited, and you have to know the difference between a truth and a lie. You know these people and you probably know when they are being fake so you know if their lying and if they lie to you maybe they arent the best set of friends to have, and i know that its hard getting "rid" of friends but really you always always have to know what is best for you personally,friends isnt whats gonna make you successful and shoot if u need a friend just send me a direct question and i can talk to you :) i hoped this helped
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Hi there,
I'm sorry that that happened to you. It's never fun to feel left out. Instead of feeling mad or sad about it, I would suggest asking those friends to hang out with you. If they want to hang out, 1.) they probably aren't mad at you, and 2.) you can ask them how the party was and if there was a reason you weren't invited. There might be an innocent reason. I know it's tough, but try to not let your emotions get the best of you. Self care is extremely important. The best possible thing to do is to talk it out with them to get the issue out there and resolved so you don't have to dwell on it. Best of luck, and feel free to follow up with me if anything else happens!
-Hollywood
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