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Neosporin Ointment on vagina
Posted Saturday November 18 2017, 4:30 am
I caught her putting Neosporin on her vagina a few
Times she doesn't know I know.we haven't had sex for weeks is she cheating
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Finding a dildo in my moms cabinet
Posted Tuesday November 14 2017, 9:18 pm
is It normal for your mom to have a dildo
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Is this punishment over the top?
Posted Tuesday November 7 2017, 9:47 pm
I'm currently a junior in high school. Back during the summer, I got into trouble after my parents found out I'd been to a party where there was drinking and that I'd been over at my boyfriend's house while his parents weren't home on several occasions (neither of which is allowed). How did they react? They're making me wear an ankle monitor.
Seriously, they searched online and found a company that leases them. So now they can track me 24 hours a day, every day. They've even programmed it so they'll receive alerts if I'm late getting to school, if I try to leave school early, or if I try to leave the house after curfew.
I know I violated their trust, but this seems crazy to me. One of my friends told me I shoul...
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Want to move out
Posted Monday November 6 2017, 4:33 am
Hi 18/F
I want to move out of my mom's house asap. She keeps calling me names and making life unbearable for me. I hate going home. I don't have a job yet but I'm really almost there. I considered staying 5 more months but I can't take it anymore. My bf said i can move in with him but we've only been togheter for 2 monthes and my mom would flip because "what's the family and town going to say". I'm to scared to talk to her because she'll fiscally harm me. Please help?
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CREATING BOUNDARIES BETWEEN PARENTS
Posted Thursday November 2 2017, 1:36 pm
My parents call me all the time! They sometimes call me 6-10 times a day and some of those calls last 60mins +. I am 26 yrs old and my parents are in their mid 50's. My dad has a habit of calling me and complaining about how much he hates his job and its the same conversation over and over again.
Everything he tells me is seriously toxic and wears me down. He talks about death, money, and how much his job and life sucks. I told him once to find a therapist and talk it out with them like I do.
I am having a hard time blocking him and distancing myself because I feel guilty. He puts this guilt trip on me that when he passes away I would of wished I answered more etc. things like this. I do not have many friends...
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Don't know what to do anymore
Posted Monday October 30 2017, 10:07 pm
i was studying engineering for about an year and then i slowly started to loose interest in the subject so i started to bunk classes and eventually didn't attend the second semester exams and i quit the college because i had no interest at all .
i always wanted to become a pilot but , as you know the course is very expensive so i had to settle for studying Aircraft Maintenance Engineering basically it's job is an Airplane Mechanic with an engineering title and it's not even an engineering course . and this i found out after joining this course (yeah i was kinda sweet talked into it and i didn't have any other choice )
i didn't even wanna do this in the first place but i had to do it as my mom was putting a lot of pressure on ...
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My parents get mad whenever i go out?
Posted Sunday October 15 2017, 6:03 pm
So im going to be 19 soon and everytime i go out with my friends my parents get so angry. They say "how come whenever your friends ask you to go out you always go cant you say no?" even though my parents would make me cancel on them all the time but the one time i do go they get mad. Then when i do go out, none of my friends have a curfew they just go home when they feel its late which is around 2am, but for me when the clock reaches 11pm my parents start calling me like crazy to come home then when its midnight they get mad till i get home. My one friend said anytime you hangout with maise (my name) her parents call her constantly which is true. What kind i do to get my parents to loosen up? Im an 18 year old female, when i go ou...
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My sister makes me so mad and angry?
Posted Tuesday October 10 2017, 7:02 pm
I never had any real siblings growing up but I always wanted one. I didn't connect the dits till later in life that I actually had a sister, since my dad married another woman, had a child, got a divorce, and then married my mom. I was a slow child and didn't really figure this out until later. I tried being around her and talking but she always seemed to hang around the adults and talk about stuff I didn't quite understand. I was ten at the time, fifteen now if that helps. I have recently met my best friends siblings, half siblings like mine, and all grown up, like mine. Whats makes my sister amd hers so different is that they actually treat her like a sister. Playing around with her, visiting her, and just loving each other like sibling w...
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ungrateful toward my parents
Posted Thursday October 5 2017, 9:29 pm
So recently I have started to feel rather ungrateful toward my parents and I'm feeling a bit guilty about that.
I really love my parents, I do. They've done a great job raising me and are quite supportive. They want the best for me, and I know they love me a lot.
But recently I keep thinking about things they've done wrong. Rules from my childhood that may have been detrimental to my development. Things they have said and done recently that are harmful to my mental health. I keep thinking that they have hurt me, they have left permanent scars on me.
I don't know why I'm feeling this way, and I don't like it, but I can't get these thoughts out of my head. They are in no way abusive, I have no reas...
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Mom gets really jealous
Posted Tuesday October 3 2017, 8:32 am
Hi 18 F.. My mom tends to get jealous of my relationships. I have been dating a guy for about a month now. He is 9 years older than me and she was fine with it. She told me recently that she doesn't know what it is but he is a bad person and now she won't let me see him. I feel I'm old enough to make my own dicisions. I'm to afraid to talk to he because she is really aggressive. Please help me?
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I dont think my parents love me
Posted Saturday September 23 2017, 11:13 pm
I don't think my parents love me rather my mom I'm always getting bashed for doing something "wrong" for example I'm on the computer when she says I cant be playing computer games but what I'm doing is I'm reading an article online I GET BASHED FOR NOTHING!!! and it really gets on my nerves what do I do?
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my mom keeps taking money out of my account?what should i do
Posted Thursday September 7 2017, 11:56 pm
I started working at my job in may and to this day i dont know the total amount of what ive earned because my mom has been taking money out of my bank account. When i was 17 i made a bank account and my mom made it joint, of course i had no say cause i was a minor but im 18 now and i think i may remove her because every time i try to save up for something i go into my bank account and the money i dont spend is gone. Ive always asked her to stop taking my money cause whats the point of me working if i dont even get the reward which is the money and she gets mad and starts saying things like "fine ill stop but dont ask me to buy you anything ever again" basically trying to guilt me for even getting mad at her for taking my money wit...
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My dad acts like a teenager with no rules, how can I make him be an adult?
Posted Sunday August 27 2017, 1:30 pm
I'm 23 and I'm so sick of my dad living his life like he's a teenager. He's so irresponsible about everything and it infuriates me.
For example, he took an extra key I had for my apartment without asking. I found out when he started just walking into my home without knocking. I told him the extra key is for my roommate's fiance, but he doesn't care and won't give it back. They're also not normal keys so I can't just have to locks changed.
When he does come over he acts like he's coming over to help me with something, but he just lays on the couch and sleeps all day. Yesterday he woke me up barging into my apartment at 11am so he could sleep on my couch until 6pm. It's so incredibly rude, but he thinks because ...
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Fiancé has his mother on his checking account
Posted Friday August 18 2017, 11:15 pm
My fiancé asked me to marry him 2 yrs ago & we were planning to marry this September but I'm having doubts about it because we live together & his bank stmts have his mothers name on the acct with him! I've been divorced 24 yrs & he & I have been a couple for 7 yrs. The house he refers to as ours is in only his name on the deed & we filed a joint tax return last yr together. If something happens to him, His mother benefits. He also has a safe that I don't have access to either. I live 600 miles from my family but I'm in the same town as his mother, (he is an only child) 41 yrs old! We already have a trip planned to Hawaii but my feelings for him have changed. I told him that it would be him & me not him, his mother...
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i want to know if i should have sex?
Posted Monday August 14 2017, 7:34 pm
i am a 13 year old girl and i ahve been fingered many of times but not given HJ or BJ but i want to know and i want to have sex but i dont know what to do? could you give me some advice x
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I dont know know what to do!
Posted Thursday August 10 2017, 7:42 pm
28 female
I rent even know where to begin I guess I will start from the very beginning. My parents got divorced when I was 3 so I only got supervised visits with my dad every other weekend and then my dad died when I was 12 ,so I barely remember him. Well the other day I got a message from a man on facebook that said that he was my dad's cousin, until then I didn't even know that my dad had cousins. I thought the only family he had was my aunt and uncle which is his brother and sister. He said that he wants to come see me in October, but I don't even know this man that claims he is family. I don't know whether I should meet him or not. I talked to my mom and she said she didn't know if he was family or not, but my aunt says he was my dad's cousin. What should i do ?
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Having Trouble Moving and Scared of My Family
Posted Tuesday July 18 2017, 4:17 am
I’m 19 years old and when I turned 18, I decided I wanted to move in with my friend and her brother, who are very nice and reliable and I’ve known them for years. Even though I’d be moving, it’d only be an hour or two away from my family’s house. My family is a different story. I have been fighting to move for a year and a half and I just keep continuing to get screamed at by all members of my family. I have money to pay for things, as I saved up a lot, and I tried to get a job but when I wasn’t hired I was continually told by my mom that it was my fault I didn’t get the job and I can’t do anything right. I can’t drive, but my friend’s family said they’re willing to teach me (My own family won’t let me because they d...
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Mother cares about a video game more than me?
Posted Saturday July 15 2017, 4:13 pm
About 2 months ago I introduced my mother to a game called Subnautica. She was reluctant at first but soon came around and started to really like it. I was happy that we had something to bond over. After about a week of playing it she became obsessed. She started playing it a lot more than she had before. I was fine with it until a few incidents happened. I once asked her to get out of her submerine to check on something, she did and got killed, resulting in her losing a lot of her in game items. She then through what I can only call a tantrum, yelling and screaming about how I planned this on purpose, when I did no such thing. Another incident was when I was playing a hirror game and she starts asking me if she can play her game. I told he...
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Books
Posted Friday July 14 2017, 10:55 pm
Are there any novels or plays that feature a girl or young woman's attachment to a mother figure who is loving in way that their own mothers cannot be? If not, movies?
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Dies he think of me more than a friend?
Posted Wednesday July 12 2017, 5:12 pm
He wants to stay friends forever. Confessed if he hadn't had his fiance, if would have asked me out but we will stay friends ok he says. Now I'm thinking, does he want to stay friends because there's a chance of something happening in the future somewhere between us or is he just testing me? Known each other for a year and we get on well. Become good friends. Flirty or joking time to time. Please help! Thanks for the input.
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