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My sister makes me so mad and angry?
I never had any real siblings growing up but I always wanted one. I didn't connect the dits till later in life that I actually had a sister, since my dad married another woman, had a child, got a divorce, and then married my mom. I was a slow child and didn't really figure this out until later. I tried being around her and talking but she always seemed to hang around the adults and talk about stuff I didn't quite understand. I was ten at the time, fifteen now if that helps. I have recently met my best friends siblings, half siblings like mine, and all grown up, like mine. Whats makes my sister amd hers so different is that they actually treat her like a sister. Playing around with her, visiting her, and just loving each other like sibling would. It makes me sad that my sisee doesn't treat me like that. I would talk to her about it but she moved and told no one about it. Nobody has her number or her adress anymore. Since I was little I have always wanted a sibling, to this day I still do. It makes me so angry and sad that I could have had these things, but I couldn't. I just want to know why she would act this way, and why I never got the sibling I always wanted. I don't think it was anger from the divorve since that happened 4 or 5 years before I was born, when she was my current age.
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First of all whatever the problem was or is between you and your sister it is obvious to me from what you have written that none of it was you. We can't all have a Brady Bunch life when two families are merged into one. The fact that your step-sister moved out without notice or forwarding address tells me the problem was all hers and that she may have never accepted the marriage of her mother to your father. If that is true then she never saw you as a sister either.
IT is not for me to say why you never got the sibling you wanted. That is something that is really a matter for your parents. Think about this though; while it is unlikely that our dad and stepmom will have a child. How will you react to having a half sister who by your age you will be more of an Aunt then sister to.
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