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x hey yall its Chloe. Hope yall like my site. Im from TN! so IM me xEvery girl wants prince charming... and while he may be nice and all..i want guy who will come up from behind & put his arms around me..and whisper in my ear that he loves me... & he lays awake at night, just thinking about me... a guy who will call at like 3 a.m. just to tell me how much he misses me... he'd come over just after we get off the phone because he wants to know how i'm really doing because i said i was fine but we both know i was lying.. he'd kiss me on my forehead & tell me everythings gonna be alright..he may not be prince charming to anyone else but in my eyes.. he'd fit the part!!
x0x- Chloe =]
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this will be very long..sorry! well me and my boyfriend have been going through a lot lately..and hes been wanting to me to prove to him how much i love him cause sometimes he wonders! so i went out of my way and paid my friends sister to take me to the mall so i could get him a bracelet he wanted carved with our names on it! so i spent like $74 on that and then i found the cutest card ever! well then since last night he has been acting kinda distant..like we couldnt really talk or anything! well then today he had to go help his grandpa so i thought no big deal ill talk to him when he gets home! well i looked at his buddypic thing and he took my name off and just put he had a girlfriend and added some other girl on there too which scared me! so i texted him and said something..no response! so then i called his house and he talked to me and said hed get online in a minute! well then he tells me hes going on vacation, he just got a job, and hes doing modeling so we wont really talk anymore so he thinks its best for now if we go on a break and i prove to him how much i love him! and he said after i send him his stuff he will read it all and think about it! and he said he cant talk on his cell cause his aunt wont let him and now he cant get on the computer either for like a week! it kills me so much cause ive never felt this way in my life..hes supposably bought me a promise ring and everything else! well i IMed that girl that was on his buddypic and seen what was up and i guess shes in love with him or something! and he was talking to her with me and i found out another girl says she loves him too and im so scared that he will move on although he keeps telling me he wont and those girls are too good of friends! i wanna believe him but its so hard! well i have his password for everything n he has mine too..well then he decides hes gonna change his AIM password and now i dont know what to think..im so scared something might be going on! i just dont know what to do! i have done nothing but cry since i found out! he told me after i send his stuff he will write me a letter back and i guess thats how we have to talk for now! i really dont know what to do cause im use to talking to him all day..it kills me so much! and i dunno what to do! do you have any cute ideas i could do with his card and bracelet that i can send through the mail? thanks so much!
hmm i dont know what to tell you. But if you have to PROVE you love him then doesnt that mean he doesnt believe you? I mean that might not be the case but im just saying. If he trully loved you he would believe you. And 2nd. you have to give him his space. Even if he starts dating other people he might come back to you. You just have to realize that its for the best! Just find cute little ways to show you love him. like make a collage of pictures that describe you and him! I think thats cute. but just follow your heart. it'll never be wrong!
okay omg im scared somethings wrong with me i havent started my red bunny this month does that mean anything i havent done anything or anything just tell me or if u kno im!! thanx
its normal for your red bunny to be irregular for alittle while. mine arent always on time but eventually she comes back. so dont worry and make the most of it because the red bunny is evil!
hey girl !!you will probably know who this is by the ? but i really like this guy or i used to and i went out with him but then when we broke up KK went out with him and they were all over each other when i saw them even thow they broke up and i dint know how to handle it then my friends brought up the guy i am so in love with and i got really upset and the guy i used to like brought the guy i like up just so i would talk to him !!grrrr!! lol and i started crying and right now i am listening to music and i am really turning into a bad girl and i have been getting into alot of trouble and its because i cant handle life this much no more and i really am thinkeng of pulling the plug you know wwhat i mean !! and i dont want to!! people are always calling me fat and i used to wear a rubber band around my wrist and when i got upset i would pop my wrist with it truthfully!! and now i am scared i am gonna go back to that and guys turn me down and i feel there is no place 4 me in life and the guy i like wouldnt care if i walked out of life or if i started popin myself with a rubber band because he dont talk to me but ne wayz i g2g bye bye i love you so much !!Chlo Bo!!!!!!!!!
aww girl! You deserve so much better! Trust me you are so pretty and not fat gah boys are gay! They cant except the fact that not all girls weigh 100 pounds and have long blonde hair! Gah I swear! Boys arent everything trust me! I used to think that and now Im just like well whatever if you dont like me then its not my fault! I know what you are talking about though. You just want someone there for you and I understand that! Girl dont pop yourself with rubberbands.. but if it helps you then okay.. but dont do anything else PLEASE! Just know Im always here for you and you can always talk to me.. I love you! bye darlin!
again-I LOVE YOU WEST!!-and again-now to get on with matters. Well, i went for the one my age. I like him a lot. I still the other dude, but my mother dearest said that I could go out with him when I'm in highschool.The problem is, I think I really hurt the other dude by sorta telling him I just wanted to be freinds. I really am mad at myself for hurting his feelings.
You cant help the fact that you just cant be in a relationship right now with him. Tell him how you feel. I mean of course he isnt gonna blow it off like its nothing (well some guys do). But just remember that boys arent everything! He might get upset but he will get over it! TRUST ME Been there done that! Just tell him your sorry!
hey chloe i love ya shortie u know me but i dont know if you will know me from tha question neways to tha thing well ive been doin pretty good for a long while but for tha past couple of weeks ive been tempted to go back to my old lifstlye of drugs and acohol and i really dont want to because i know that i will loose alot of my friends that way but i need advice on how not to go back or somethin to do besides that thatnks alot i love you chloe
okay well... just remember all the good things you have gotten out of your new/better lifestyle! And just think of the things that can happen if you go back to your old one! All you have to do is be strong and know that you are gonna hold your ground. Say no when someone asks you to drink or do drugs. because you know you can do better than that! Good Luck!
okaayy! we dont talk no more but u give lyk tha best advice. lol anyway
my friend - lacey - use to go out with this 12th grader..Justin
they broke up and he HATES her. like literally.. i didnt know anyone could ever hate someone that much..lol
but yeh..when im over at her house or when she is over here, shes ALWAYS tryin to talk to him and everytime she says somethin to him, he cusses her out and she makes a NEW sn.. so she has like 300 sn's..and he like, blocks her on everyone..lol quite funny but shes my friend
but yeahh..one time i was over there and he said somethin REALLY rude and so she admitted that she hated him and ALWAYS would and that she didnt care if ne*1 went out with him or nuthin
weLL..justin lyks me and me and him are startin to talk alot more and now shes tellin all her friends that shes scared that me and him are gonna go out.. im not sayin we are, but it might happen.. shes settin herself up for heartbreak right??
i dont see what the big deal is cause i BET she wouldnt hate anyone else who liked him and she liked my bf last yr and sed all this crap to him about me that wasnt true?
so like on thursday she came over and she sed she LOVES my brother and that she was completley OVER justin
so last nite she asked me if i lykd him and i had to be honest
and i like, sorta - not enough to go out with him though
and now shes mad @ me ..she was tellin mi other fried how bad of a friend i was and how i always turn on her when she has problem
but i was always there for her cause i would always try to get him to lyk her again and he would hate me for it
then she put in her profile that she was over him
but
why would she care if i liked him if she was over him??
but the thing is.. she saw him yesterday and she said she fell back in LOVE with him since she saw him but after i told her i sorta liked him she said she HATED him
what should i do... =/
Wow this is hard.. umm you have to talk to the both of them. Tell her that she said she was over him and you felt like it was okay for you to like him. Just tell her how you feel.. and tell him too. You have to find a way to make it work I guess. idk i've been in this situation before and like my friend said if being with him is what is gonna make you happy then go for it! Trust me she loved me-she went out with him for 11 months. But if she was really your friend she would want you to be happy. Sure you cant make her feelings go away but you can put them into consideration. Good Luck! Tell me how everything goes! LOVE U GiRL!
me and my bf have been goin out 4 ova a month and everything is just great i mean really its wonderful except for hes not into phsyical stuff like one time he put his arm around me n all but hes never held my hand or even come close to kissing me whats the deal? how do i make him not so shy. it was cute (the shyness) at first but now its plain annoyin. how can we become closer if he cant even kiss me
Well sometimes shyness isnt always a bad thing. You dont have to have all the physical stuff.. But i understand that you want it! You cant always wait on them to make the first move... sometimes you have to. Just do what you wanna do!Chloe
hey Chloe!!! first, i love you!!! lol and second, u'll kno who this is soon.... but anyway... i really seem to be slippin off the edge of life... it seemed for awhile that i had finally found that filler-of-all-holes in Jesus a couple of months ago and i kno that truly, i did... but after the smoky facades and fake lives settle, the emptiness remains... now it's almost unbearable.. i'ma true warrior and i always push thru but lately the silence has grown truly deafening, considering the fact that i'm cooped up all day with no outside connections and no way to get any... plus, i don't know who i am any more... over the past 9 months i've gone from one facade to the other and i haven't found one that fits yet... whether it be black or light hanging on me, anytime i look in the mirror, darkness seems to be enveloping and engulfing my image, even my words... u've prolly already sensed it just in reading this... and i lost my 3rd girlfriend about... umm, 2-ish months ago and recently i've finally begun to appreciate the gap that she once filled... with no one to talk to or to love, including myself, and nothing to free myself, i now know not what to do... please help me mah lil sis...
Psalm 6:1-3/6-7 O Lord, do not rebuke me in your anger or discipline me in your wrath. Be merciful to me, Lord, for I am faint; O Lord, heal me, for my bones are in agony. My soul is in anguish. How long, O Lord, how long? / I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes.
Gah this is really hard.. Im gunna pray for you.. I've been praying for you for awhile though. I was at church Wednesday and the speaker at West Jackson told us that you need someone praying for you at all times. Whether you are in a time of need or not. I think you are just going through a challenge that God is putting you through. God will only put you through the struggles that you can handle. SO trust me you can handle this! I'll even help you and walk through all of it with you.. Just say the word and I'll be there.. you know it. Gah this is almost making me cry because I've been where you are.. Life can be so hard. I love you man! and I'll be helping you every inch of the way!
OK, to start..I LOVE YOU WEST!!! and now to get on with matters....okay i like this dude who is almost 3 years older than me and he is a GREAT guy and he likes me too (which is awsome!) BUT..this other dude i think is interested in me and hes quite cute. He's also a great guy, and hes closer to my age. My mom likes the second guy better. I like the older one though.
awww! I think you should go out with whoever you like...If you like the older guy then go for it! Just do what you think is right! YOU MUST BE A PiMP! haha Just do what you think is right like I said! Sorry I couldnt help much! GOOD LUCK!
Hey chloe, whut's up? well i go to TMS and im one of your friend's and i have this really big crush on your friend Lucy... I really dont know her that well but i think she is everything( sweet,funny,beautiful,and popular) i really truly like her alot but have no idea what to do , ive liked her since the beggining of the school year and being an 8th grader suxks because i wont see ehr next year will u mentiomn this to her? please because i want Lucy to know how i feel and that she is the prettiest girl ever to me! Thank you .
_dazed_
Umm of course I will. Aww this is a sweet lil question hehe! I gotta admit that Lucy is quite an awesome girl If i do say so myself haha! Well I will tell her. And good luck in high school! love ya!
hey babe, u know me i go to TMS and im a few of ur classes, but anyways k well i have alot of freidns but there is one that i lvoe soo much she is MY all time favorite bestest freidn but i dont think she feels the same way about me friendship wise she is the sweetes nicest funniest gurl in the 7th garde and i lvoe her to detah ive knonw her since 2nd and we have been reunited and close since 7th andshes my best freind but i dont think she thinks the same as me and i wish she did but she doesnt and it makes me sad and woinder if i should just go abck to some of my other freinds! and i get really mad sometimes and even jealous when she is haning around someone else like another freind and i ahet these feleings that make me jealous for the stupidest reasons pleas ehlpe me and tell me what to do please!
Aww.. Talk to your friend about it. I know how you feel though. I get those feelings too sometimes. But you have to realize that you have other friends and so does she. Its just a fact of life. I know you want a friend that will ALWAYS be there. But trust me if shes a good friend like you put her off to be then she'll be there ALL the time right when she needs you. So just talk to her about it and see how it goes. Im really sorry I cant help much. its just up to you and your friend. Good Luck!
i liked this one boy 4 as long as i can remember (at least a year) and he didnt like me but then he told me just a few weeks ago he did and i was so excited ...so lets call him Fred and then i met this other boy...we can call him Harry, and yeah he asked me out and i said yes b/c i NEVER EVER saw Fred who i actually thought i was in lust with. im happily with Harry but Fred and just gotten a girlfriend and i am soo jealous because they are having what i never had with fred. i like harry so much but i like fred soo much too. what can i do? i want to be with them both. i think i loved fred. but i dont love harry, not yet at least.
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just do what your heart tells you. I saw just stay with Harry and see how all that goes. If you feel like its not right then tell fred how you feel. Just do what you feel okay? thats all I can say. Good Luck!
Im sick and I really need to throw up. Somehow I just cant. I know I have to because I can feel it but I dont know why I cant. My mom says I will throw up but is there anything that I can drink that will make me throw up. I dont want to put my finger down my throat tho and please dont say I shouldnt. If I do I will feel a lot better. Thanks!
Umm there is something you can drink that will make you throw up but i really dont remember what it is. Maybe you should just wait it out. I really dont know what to tell you. Sorry I cant help much. x0-->Chloe
wow hey chloe! havent tlkd to u that much but woo wee i think i got issues again! lol
okay, me n tyeler have been goin out for a month - 2 weeks - and 2 days!! lol.. and his best friend is CHRiS READHEAD! but chris is also one of my best friends .. & tyeler knows that but tyeler is always thinkin im flirtin with chris n stuff - but tyeler flirts with girls all the time.. right n front of me* but i think i lyk chris MORE than a friend.. i just cant resist!! lol - NO idea wut to do cause i LOVE tyeler more than anything - and me and chris are getting closer .. so omg?? ahh..
ilu!! - camry
haha girl its alright. Dont break up with Tyeler until your sure on how you feel and everything. Yeah about the flirting. EVERYONE FLiRTS iTS LiKE iNSTALLED iN OUR BLOOD! lol but some people dont realize they are flirting and some people just do it and feel bad later. There are alot of reasons. He shouldnt get mad at you. If he does just tell him to chill out. Then once you're sure if you like Chris or Tyeler talk to both of them about it. Good Luck! love yu girl!
hi chloe~u seem to give good advice so here i am askin u for advice~my bf will hug me n all but hes to shy to hold my hand durin a movie~hes definately to shy to kiss me~but mainly to shy to even hold my hand~im a little shy to, to just grab his hand as well~so how do i get him to hold my hand without askin him 2..how weird~also, i really like him but my parents wont let me date til im older~advice?
Just talk to him about it. I know you might seem retarded. but trust me .. me and my boyfriend talk about our kissing habbits haha yeah so about holding hands cant be too bad. If you like him dont let your parents get it your way. but you should still talk to them about it. HONOR THY MOTHER AND THY FATHER! Good luck
hey u dont know me but....ok there is this guy that i hav liked for awhile but he has a g/f....and he flirts with me alot but he has a g/f....his lil sis wants us to go tout lik real bad and i want to go out wit him and he knows that i liik him but he send mixed signals alot wut should i do
Just ask him straight up.. DO YOU LiKE ME OR ARE YOU JUST MESSiNG WiTH ME? you'll never know until you ask. good luck!
thanks for your advice it was really good i cant skate worth crap, ive tried before and i SUCK! that would be so embarrasing so knix that..and to tell you the truth none of my friends are really into dating i seirously fear they are lesbians (no haha jk) but really, none of them have dates ever!! lol..but your adive was good, ill see how it goes..thank you!
You cant have to skate. you can go just to hang out. Thats what alot of people do. So just do whatever you want to do. Good Luck!
hey chloe..ok so i have this boyfriend...he is sooo sweet and sooo cute..and i really like him..we've only been going out for like a wk. or so though..anyways im not allowed to go on dates like (just him and me) so last weekend i went to the movies and out to eat and it was (him, me, my bff) and it was fun and all and he was so sweet but i felt like i couldnt be all intimate or w/e with him w/ my best friend three feet away..so how am i ever going to get to kiss him or whatever if im never going to get to be alone with him...parents suck (and ive already tried sneaking out to be w/ a guy .. didn't go to well w/ the parentals)
Okay well here in jackson people go to the skating rink all the time. It's fun and there are alot of people that go. you can be alone with him there if you wanna and if you live in Jackson. if not then go on a date with like you and your boyfriend then one of his friends and a date or one of your friends and a date. Just dont all sit together that way you can have some alone time with him. Good Luck! I know have that problem too. Not wanting to be intimate around other people but eventually you'll get over it. You'll start thinking that nothing matters except you and the guy you're with! Good LUCK! x0-->Chloe
Is it ok to like someone thats younger than you?
HECK YES! my boyfriend is 14 and about to turn 15 and I just turned 13 so there is nothing wrong with it.
ok u kno me but we are not like best friends or ne thang.. ne way... i am goin out with this guy and i really love him soo much with all my heart... but i find myself thinkin a/b this other guy... his best friend!! i went w/ his best friend b/4 but it didn't really work out! i wish that i knew wat to do!! i can't tell his friend b/c he would tell my b/f!! but i really do like this guy a lot!! but i love my boyfriend!! life and love is confusing!! HeLp!!! pleez!!!!
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Hmm this is hard. Just go with your heart. Thats all I can tell you. Just remember.. Always stick with the advice you give yourself not what someone else gives you cause in the end you are the one that has to deal with the results not them. GOOD LUCK! Sorry i didnt help much.