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Hi there and welcome to my advice column! I'm Morganne and I'm 13 years old. I don't have that much experience with advice, but I'm willing to try my best. I was thinking I might as well do something useful with all this time I spend on the computer! haha. I'll try my best to answer your questions, but I'm not too sure how great I am at this stuff. So please rate me so I know how I'm doing! Thxs! =)
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Ok, i have this friend, lets call her Jane. Jane used to be really friendly last year, and we were REALLY good friends. Now, we're still friends, but shes not very friendly anymore, she lies all the time, she steals away the guys i like, and shes just not the same Jane she used to be. What do i do? Do i tell her?
-Concerned Chick
DEFINTELY. The most important thing in a friendship is communication. Who knows, your friend might not realize that she's been bugging you lately. In fact, you might even be bothering her. So I say you definitely talk to her. Just call her or talk to her at school one day and tell her that she's been acting different lately, and it's bugging you. Whatever you do, try not to yell or point out all her faults. Stay calm and hopefully she will too. And if she gets mad, look at it from her point of view.
After working things out, be sure to hang out more and have a special day just for you two, like old times. And if she can't accept the fact that she's changed a little and won't try to make your friendship better, then she wasn't a very good friend in the first place. Hope all goes well! Post me back.
i like this kid but idk if he likes me we flirt sumtimes but he seems like he flirts w. alot of people and i dont kno wut 2 do ne suggestions?
Tell him you like him. Or start flirting more. Just try to make it obvious you like him if you can't stand telling him straight up. You could also try having your friends talk to him. Also, try calling him sometime or maybe go to a movie with your friends and his friends. Hope this helps.
guys are confusing but hottt. I like this guy in my calss and my friends want to know who it is, but everytime i tell someone who i like it gets to them, but i think they matured now cause last time i told them who i like was when we were 10 or something like that. do you think i should tell them who i like? and o well if it gets to them. or should i keep it a safe secret?
Well, this all depends on how you feel if the guy you like finds out you like him. If you don't really care, then by all means go ahead and tell your friends. Sometimes telling your friends can work well, they might be able to drop a hint to your crush or something. But if you really don't want the guy to find out, like if he knew you liked him and you would die of total embarassment... in that case I suggest not telling your friends, either that or only telling a couple very close, trustworthy friends. Hope this helps!!! And remember - it's better to risk it and tell your crush you like him than to regret not telling him later on.
I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin
Wow, it's good to know that you respect your boyfriend so much and would never wanna cheat on him! That's definitely a good thing. =) Now with the whole kiss on the cheek thing... well as long as it didn't mean anything to you, I don't really see it as that big of a deal. But I would tell your bf about it to prevent any future problems. Just tell him once and don't talk about it again cuz then he might think you enjoyed it. Good luck!