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Age: 18
Member Since: October 31, 2005
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me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that? (link)
i think it is sweet just dont read too much into it coz you might scare him off unless he has said things like he wants to marry you and have kids and every thing when i was going out with my ex he told me after 3 weeks he wanted to marry me i freaked out but if has not said anything then just leave it as it is


What if you do a really bad thing and you know you were wrong. but you dont ask for forgiveness right away. You wait. and.. its not good to wait and you start feeling guilty and decide to say sorry after 2 months. Its been long yes but you think its possiable that the other person will forgive? especially if the apology is sincer?! im not saying that they ll be bestfriends again but will she atleast forgive her? She was wrong too. and she should have said sorry too but will she forgive?? (link)
the longer you leave it the longer its gonna take her to forgive i fell out with my mate over a lad i was seeing coz she did not like him and i thought she was been childish so i left it then i thought i was wrong to argue with her over a lad coz we have been friends for over 10 years just say sorry and see what your friend says and take it a step at a time.


i realy dont even know y i am so freaked out i have so so much to be thankful for a great family great friends an awsoem bf but none of that helpes me i always just look in the mere and hate myslef the way i look the dumbest possible things i pick out everything that is wrong mayeb even not wrong i see it from i think i am realy fat, to i am ugly, to my smile is horrible and lamest of them all my butt is shaped weird im not depressed been there doen that i used to cut myself but i opened my eyes and relized how much it was hurting the pl areound em and myself so i will never go back to that or anything like that. hateing the way i look is one of the worst feelings i know ill think i look realy hot one minute but then it shadders ill ne at the mall with my friend and look awsoem but i see a pair of realy realy hott guys and automatically no there not staring at me but at my friend no possible way that they are staring at me i never get a hot hot hot guy. i need help hwo can i possibly not look down on myself so much thanx u so much and no mean answers pleezz thanxs (link)
i think you should look in the mirror and pick out the good things you like about yourself and think about all the good things peopl have said like about you you are getting your self down by picking out the things you dont like i am 18, small and so skinny people used to say to me i am anerxic and i let it get me and i used to look in the mirror and say what u do but i woke up one day and thought its me whos got to live with it not them and just remember not everyone is perfect even the popular ones the just dont show it you have gotto learn how to love your self i no it might sound big headed but no one will love you if you dont love your self hope i helped


I was in a realtionship for 4 1/2 years and was engaged to him for 6 months, when all of a sudden he wanted to end things. There was some things that happened in my childhood that I never told him, but I told him last night was happended, even though we are not together anymore. I was sexually abused as a child but it has stopped for almost 15 years. I am now 24. I still want this guy in my life, but I need help first. He did not leave me because I told him what happened. I just felt like he should know. Me and him have shared a lot of stuff, and even he agreed that some of the reasons he left me were because of how I acted, because of how I was treated as a child. I was wondering if there is anyway you can help me out. Any help would mean the world to me. Thank you for your time (link)
I think you are brave to tell him what happened to you i was sexually abused when i was a kid by 3 men and one of them was my grandad when i told my ex what happened he took it quiet good but had a bit of time to get used to it but he was ok with it. it took me a while to talk to anyone about it i did not think it was real and did not like to think my grandad couls do somethng like that to me just give him time he will come round and talk to him and assure him you will not let it get to you and you will get help hope i helped.


Hi. I'm 13/m and my sister is 14/f. Last night she was IMing a friend from another state who said he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. Then they got into a discussion on why it's right or wrong to have sex before age 16. My sister believes that she should wait until she is 16. I belief any pre-marital sex is wrong, and I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married.

Later in their conversation (I was being a little brother and looking over her shoulder) he said that my sister's boyfriend wants sex too. My sister said no, but the other guy was just like "ooooooo yes he does". Then I remembered that theory that all a guy ever wants is sex. Hence, the song Punk Rock 101 by Bowling For Soup: "She thinks that it's love, but to him, it's sex!"

I don't trust her boyfriend. I've transferred a call to my sister, and he really didn't sound all that great. Also, my sister refuses to let me meet him in any way. He can't come over, because I just can't meet him. I tried to IM him. My sister told him to block me. What the hell?

I'm afraid of two things: number one, does he want sex? Saying no is probably harder than it sounds... and number two, will this change her image of him? Will she be consious of the fact that he may or may not want sex? I know if I were in her shoes, I would. I don't know... I'm just worried for her... (link)
just let her make her own mind up i no u care for her but every one needs to make there own mistakes or they dont learn she might sayin no is hard to say when it comes to sex but if she has said it once then she will keep saying it till she i ready my brother is like u but i would not listen i like to learn from my mistakes not from everyone elses i wont lsten to anyone. dont worry too much




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