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My name is tina.. umm my friends mean everything to me.. and so do my family. i love joey.. he is amazing... my life involves alot of dramma.. just jr high crap but it will be over soon im in 8th grade and i go to mead im really outgoing soo feel free to ask me anything!

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You answered my question about the '100 things I love about you' and I wanted to see what you think about my finished product!

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I really think that is amazing! Im blown away!! haha

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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

Heyy! well first of all this is what i want to say.. don't turn this into suicide because i know this may sound impossible but in a couple of years your going to be soo glad u didnt turn it into suicide. Also what this boy did was pretty shadey no ofense. Don't worry about tell him you are in love with him because if he does care or is a good friend he would understand. Another thing is that you should try to talk to him next time you see him.. about how you feel and how he hurt you by what he did. If he can't understand he was never worth the pain. Don't worry there is someone better waiting for you, you sound like an amazinv person don't ever have a guy put you down!
I really hope i helped you with everything!
comment if u need anything else.

xo tina!

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how can i be more confident in myself?

Well, one way is to believe in yourself you've got to believe you can acheive anything in order to have some confidents.Also maybe a new look you could seem more confident. I hope I helped!

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K so I hung out with this kid today.. and we amidiatly hit it off (that I know of) and we hung out all day. and he held me and we kissed and everything.. But he always teases me by looking at me but not kissing me and just looking away in a teasing way. Well Im not sure if he likes me if he is playing me or what. I have really bad trust isues because I have been hurt by so many guys. I would really like to think he really likes me, because If so id like to go out with him maybe! What should I do? Im going to be seeing him tomorrow also!

Well, i think you should see how the next couple days go and if you keep getting mixed singals maybe ask perhaps who he likes. He might be playing hard to get.Ihope this helps

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For Christmas I thought it'd be cute to do a '100 things I like about you' for my boyfriend. First of all, is that a terrible idea? What do you think he'd think about it? He's pretty sentimental about gifts.
&& Do you have any ideas that I could put in there?
(IE: 17. I love when you say those cute little sayings you come up with out of nowhere.
23. I love how you write me notes when we both know you dislike it.
34. I love how you hug me from behind.)

Thanks!

I think that is a great idea.I think he would be happy it came from the heart!Maybe even get him a little gift to go along.Not something big.
Some things you can write in there maybe,
I love the way you make me smile.
I love the way you can tell me anything
I love the way you dont care how i look and still love me for me.
Sorry if those didn't help much

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Heyy everyone!

This is Lauren. I asked a few questions a while back. The most recent(besides this one) was about books. I didnt exactly get as many reponses as I was looking for. I took some of the advice. I took Shattering Glass, Cut, and A Child Called It from the library and read them. Does anyone know any other good books that deal with relashionships, dealing with abuse or rape, or any other REALLY dramatic books? I also LOVE a good mystery!

Thanks a Ton!
Lauren =)

heyy! if u didn't already read it, its called lovely bones.. its really great i enjoyed.. i hope this helped!

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