Member Since: December 23, 2007
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Last Update: December 23, 2007
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im female....18 years old.
i am SO tired! constantly. when i wake up, all day, and im ready for bed at like 8 pm. what is wrong with me? i was thinking anemia? is it something to worry about? its been going on for a few months and its interferring with everything i do. any help would be so appreciated! (link)
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get your thyroids glands checked and keep me posted as well as diabeties and watchout for depression and stress will do it to (GOD BLESS YOU)
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I don't have many friends at all, I'm an attractive 15 year old female. I'm involved at school to try to make new friends but most of the time people won't get to know me because they've heard rumors that I'm a bitch. I used to be involved with the popular crowd but I got out of that so people would get to know the real me. I'm friendly, I compliment people, I make them laugh, I try to be sweet. Nothing ever works, no one makes me a priority in life. If I hang out with people, I'm the one who makes all the plans.
I have two friends that hang out with me.
The rest are history. I want to have friends,
I want to belong. Help. (link)
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let your lifestyle speak if you have changed people will notice and ask yourself ,was I really that way and if you were that's in the past and remember to treat people the way you want them to treat you just lay back relax stop trying to please people all the time that's what happen in the first place and just because people laugh with you that don't mean that they agree with you ,pay attention to what you say an it's great that you've changed I'm proud ofya be who the good lord created you to be yourself ,GOB BLESS (let peace find you) friends will come.
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i met this guy back in october. right when we met, we clicked. the first
few days we met, we told each other a lot about ourselves. and a week or
two after that, he asked me out and i said yes. he was so sweet. he always
wanted to be the first one i talked to in the morning and he made sure i
knew he loved me. and i thought he meant it. i was his first girlfriend and
i thought we'd last for a long time. then all the sudden he started acting
weird. so i kept asking what was wrong and he finally told me. he met this
girl on here, and got to meet her in real. they live like 3 or 4 hours
away. he said they kissed and he was sorry and didnt like her. i didnt
break up with him because i thought we could make it through this. but then
he kept talking to her and she posted one of these things sayin that "he
said he loved me more than his girlfriend and didnt know how to break up
with her nicely" so i asked him about it and he said he didnt know what she
was talking about. so, i told him to set her sraight (he said he wanted to
be with me, not her) and he said he did. and she was all sad and whatnot
for a few days then they started talkin again. i called him and said if he
was going to break up with me then do it now. and he didnt, so that gave me
hope. but then a few hours later, he sent me a text saying he wanted to be
friends. then like 5 minutes later he was going out with the other girl.
and it totaly hurt me. he knew i cried and all he says anymore is that he
is sorry. we dont talk like we used to, and im still in love with him. it
kills me to see her with him. especially her. everytime we talk, he thinks
something is wrong and he thinks im sad (which.. i sorta am, since i dont
want him to be with her.. but i dont want to break them up or anything) and
i wouldnt tell him what. he said to tell him everything that was on my mind
and i wouldnt. he said it would change stuff if i would. so i did, i told
him ABSOLUTLY everything. and it didnt change a thing. all he said was "is
there a way for both of you to be happy?" and i said he shouldnt have
gotten me into this, cause if he loved her whyd he have to make my life
horrible and ask me out? he asked how he could make me happy and i said the
only way i would truely be happy would him not being with her anymore and
nothing has changed. i feel real selfish and stuff, but i just cant help
it. i really do love this kid, and i miss talking to him like we used to
more than anything.
what do i dooo? i still love him. :/ (link)
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ask yourself do I really want to be with a guy who chose another women over me ask yourself ,and if he decides to deal with you again, he is going to get comfortable with you and treat you badly you might not agree with me now, but when a women chase a man it really boost their ego , stop forcing yourself on him move on he is trying to let you down easy and not only that, he lied to you ,and what you goin to do everytime he don't answer his phone or call you ,your going to be hurt all over again,the bible says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing ,you have not known him that long ,maybe you never had someone to treat you that nice before ,or could it be ,you laid with him,and gotten all of your emotions tied up on him ,shake yourself ,clear your thoughts,breathe,your young ,fall in love not in lust! you know everytime you try to throw yourself on him or trying to get him to be with you your only hurting yourself and do you really like hurting yourself, ha I bet your a pretty little girl have fun and live ,love will come( God Bless You Sweetie)
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I'm 18.. and a virgin..
I've been going out with a guy for a year now...we love eachother alot...
I want to have sex after marriage..
due to religious reasons and also because i think it will be of more value when you have sex for the first time on your first night...
But he wants to have sex before that....
the 1st time i explained my reasons to him he said he understood.. but now he seems to be changing..
a few days ago he bought that conversation up again
and when i explained it to him all over again he was pissed with me
"aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?"
etc
why is he in such a hurry? doesnt he value me or respect me???
what can be wrong
I just dont know what to do now..
please help me:(
please dont tell me to dump him... I love him alot and i cant live without him...
is anything wrong with me??? if so please explain ...
Please help me...
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there is nothing wrong with you it's something wrong with him and if he cannot respect that, maybe he is not the one, i know thats hard to here, but baby if you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything and if he can't put a ring on your finger maybe he is not the one the lord sent,, baby dating is just that dating not sex! it is getting to know someone, there likes and dislikes, there character and to se if you have the same beliefs it better to cry now and get it over with, than to have children and a morgage with this individual and to realalize later that he is not the one, make it light on yourself maybe you guys should seperate for a while and then see later where things take you both later, and remember never put a man's opinion over the Lords (stay Obeidient) God Bless you PEACE
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This is going to be a very odd question, hard to answer, and it technically has nothing to with "Spirituality" other than that I would appreciate some answers from a christian point of view. What excatly am I being taught here? All advice is welcome, though.
Well, I've always been low in confidence, but it's the past week that it's gotten extreme, I've literatly spent hours crying for beauty, praying for it, and envying those who have it. All my diary entries have been about it - and how life is without it. Today I woke up, and while looking at my reflection said "Please, make me feel beautyful today".
I went out on the town and was introduced to a french guy (a friend of a friend) who paused in the middle of a conversation at dinner, looked me in the eyes and randomly said "It's a blessing" it was weird, and I didnt know what he was talking about,, until he said "..you're eyes, you look like a princess" I said "thank you!that's so sweet" and that was it.
On my way home from the dinner.. Literally 30 seconds after I said bye to them, and stepped out of the restaurant.. an old-ish man comes up to me and said "please, miss, wait".. I thought he would ask for directions or something so I stopped. And he said "you have amazing eyes, so sweet, so pretty, where are you from?" (I've been dying for attention, to feel beautiful again.. to get stopped in the street like I did a few years ago.. so I was happy, and not creeped out at all) I said "aww thanks!" and gave a friendly smile. He asked me if I wanted to go get a drink somewhere, and that's when I got scared - "no thank you, I'm just 17 years old.." he pressured me a bit, so I started walking and he said "No, dont be scared, I promise I'm a good man, do you have pierced ears?" then he brought out earrings and almost forced me to accept them as a gift (they're still in my jacket) we talked for about 5 more minutes until I got really creeped out and made an excuse and ran. 2 minutes later I recieve a voicemail (I did not give this man my phone number!) BUT yet, it was from him. It had to had been. It was the conversation we had just had RECORDED somehow and sent to my phone, I ran as I cried, and now I got home just 20 minutes ago.
It was scary, might not sound like it, but I'm really really scared. I can not tell my parents, jut this morning they told me not to go out, and I said "you're so freaking scared of everything, how can you live life like that??" I will never be allowed out again. I already have to be home at 6 pm, and cant go out unless they've talked to the firned, know her parents and are assured there wont be any guys, if I tell them.. my very vague definiteion of a social life will be over.
So what is this? Someone's trying to tell me that its good that I'm not beautiful cause when I am creepy men come up to me? That I should appreciate not being pretty cause it might lead to rape someday? That I should never go out ever (this is the first time I've been out in forever, it was in broad day-light for gosh sakes!) why me? howcome others can be pretty and go out, and the once I do it.. this happens?
I DONT UNDERSTAND ANYTHING, can you please help me understand what's going on here? Is it all just coincedences??
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yes there are perverts out there, who knows that man might have been around while you where talking to your friends and may have over heard your number who knows, but don't live in fear ,but be aware of your surroundings,and as for beauty I bet you are and you just wont acknowledge it, what is it,is someone putting you down ,and if they are I hope you know that you are not suppose to listen to everything people say but I hope that's not the case,and please never let other people problems become your burdens ,and if this man is giving you problems foreal inform the police,and don't be so quick to stop and conversate with strangers,if they pay you a compliment walk and talk at the same time just say thanks and keep going ,and remember to keep the lord first and always pray (pease ,joy,and happiness belongs to you ,use it! and be strong and pray for more boldness ,and pray for your parents and ask the Lord to bless them to understand you more and open up a little cause I have a 17 year old and guess what I can be like that to .but i have lighten up because she just now learning to speakup for herself and not to be lead of people but make her own decisions,that was my concern at first that people could talk her into doing anything your parents love you they may not know how to explain that to you and if its not love , pray for it and don't settle for anything okay God Bless you baby.
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I recently went to the doctor for an ultrasound, and they saw that there isn't much fluid around the baby. The baby needs fluid to live and develop correctly so I am very scared. The doctor referred me to a specialist, and he told me that the reason could be one of three things: the baby has no kidneys to produce fluids, my water broke, or something else that happens at the end of pregnancy. I am just now 5 months, so the third one is not a possibility. My baby has kidneys, so it isn't that. They asked if I had had any fluid gushes and I said no. He said that it isn't always noticeable if you have a leak in your amniotic sack. He told me to come back in two weeks and to hope that there is some fluid made. This morning when I woke up, I had a lot of fluid in my pants... I am very worried that it is all leaking out and my baby won't be healthy... Does anyone have information on this? Or perhaps even gone through it? I don't want my baby to die, and I am so very scared for it to be healthy. Any information is appreciated. (link)
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it seems to me that your dr.doesn't have a lot of knowledge on this type of situation, and one thing that you should remember is that doctors doesnt know everything, if your water continue to leak, I think that, That is very dangerous for the baby, your baby has a better chance surviving and being healthy born early than just sitting in the birthing canal where all types of bacteria could develop and where infections could occur,and if you are still unsure pray and seek an specalist who has handled these types of situations relax don't continue to put any more stress on yourself or your baby and if there is any extra added stress coming from anywhere put it to the side and deal with that after the baby is born and okay( God bless you and continue to seek peace)
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