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Member Since: July 24, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: July 26, 2006
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alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.
now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.
but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.
after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.
then literally 2 days later, he told me he thought
he was making the right decision by asking me back.
but he just realised he doesnt feel the same.
and i felt stupid for taking him back.
now, weve been good friends for about 4
months now.and the other day i went to his
house andhe told me he liked me again, he
claims he never stopped. he ended things
with this girl for me. which must mean something.
he asked me back out when i went to his house.
and we didnt do anything sexual, he just held me
tight and said how much he missed holding me.
and he would kiss my forhead and such.
now,weve been pretty good these past days.
i just feel kindof paranoid ya know.
like when hes gone and i dont know where he is
i'll be all nervous and such. i hate this feeling.
i dont think he would do anything, but its still
a weight on my shoulders. i'd like to learn some
advice on how to not be so paranoid, and learn
to trust him. so our relationship will be stronger.
anyone know any REAL advice on how to do that?
thank you so much.
xxxoxoxo (link)
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Dear My Anonymous Friend,
I know that you feel worrited about your boyfriend sneaking around on you, and I'm here to tell you that it's fine for now. You obviously feel that he may try and break your heart again, so you still don't basically trust him. To be honest, that's normal as well. Trust is something hard to get back once you loose it! To make it go away, just spend more time with him and when you feel something is wrong, just talk with him and tell him why you feel the way you do! It takes time. Just be patient with the feeling and trust me... It will go away!
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My former best friend moved to a different town several months back and her parents have abused her verbally and physically since then. She can't live at home anymore and since she is 16 she's legally allowed to move out in our state. The problem is that her parents have made up so many lies and fed them to newspapers and everyone around, some saying that she's "brainwashed" or "mentally ill" just so she has to stay at home. They obviously do not care about her to make up such stories and she's deffinatly moving out. She doesn't really have anywhere to go for a month or so and I've been talking to my mom about it. Do you know ways to convince my parents that it will be safest if they just let her stay at our house for a little while? (link)
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Dear my anonymous friend,
First, I must say that I love the fact that you show concern for your friend, thats love. Well, to be honest with you, if you care for your friend just grab your parents and have a very mature convrsaton with them. Trust me, this gets you far. If you allow your parents to see the sincerity in your words they may consider you choice. But be patient thrugh it all. Your friends parents will get what they deserve. And when your friend gets older, and have kids of her own, she'll know not to treat her kid the same way. But, talk to your parents... Sit them down and talk to them.
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