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hi! i just turn 17 on may 4... and my question is that me and my boyfriend been having sex the last time we had sex was after my birthday... and he said he came inside of me like three time.. i have my period...why im noy pregnant?

just because you have sex a numerous amount of times doesnt mean that you will get pregnant. to actually become pregnant one of your eggs needs to be fertilized by a sperm. then, that fertilized egg drops down and tries to attach itself to your the wall of your uterus, letting it grow and become a baby.

so yeah, basically you arent pregnant because your the egg didnt attach itself to your uterus.

hope i helped!

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my friend is a boy and i feel i can't live my life without him.I have told him how i feel,but yet he treats me like i'm only there for an escape route.we ave fell out now n all i want to do is cry,las time this happened i cried for weeks and yet he has done it again to me.
why do i feel this way,wen he treats me like this?

it would be easier for me to answer your question if i knew if you had feelings for him - like you want him to be your boyfriend.

if not, i think you need to realize that you are so much better than him. he makes you think that you need him in your life, then shoots you down when you explain your feelings. why would you want to be his friend when he treats you so bad? a situation like this happened to me in the beginning of the year, and i knew that i had to completely cut him off from my life to stop myself from thinking about him. i deleted him from my buddy list on AIM, i took him off my phone, and i stopped trying to hang out with him. its the one way where i felt like i was in control and that i could live without him.

hope i helped!

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Okay, I'm 16 years old and I've been getting my period for a really long time. Ever since I started getting my period, I've had a really, really heavy discharge between periods. It's really uncomfortable and I feel like it's abnormal. I literally have to wear a pad between periods because my discharge is so frequent. Is this normal, at my age, or is it something I should tell my gyno?

Thank you in advance.

if your discharge is that heavy between periods, wear panty liners. they're thinner and more comfortable than pads and they also protect your underwear from being stained.

i also think that you should see your gyno just to make sure nothing is wrong. there most likely isnt, but he might be able to give you something to control the amount of discharge you give off.

hope i helped!

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does anyone know how to delete songs and pictures... mostly i need to know how to delete pictures... ?? any advise will help !!

love k

when you hook your ipod up to the computer, itunes should come up and it should show your ipod in itunes.

click on the icon that shows your ipod and find the song you want to delete. right click on it and click on delete this song or something like that.

as far as pics, i dont know how to do that since i dont have any..sorry!

-pkb7300

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I've had contacts for over 4 years and I'm going to buy another year supply soon. I dont know which brand to get though. The one I have currently, sucks. I need something that stays in a long time and doesn't dry out. I've heard of Acuve Oasis, and I was wondering if anyone has tried it...what do you think of them? Oh and does anyone know any other different kinds of contacts that stay in for a long time and wont dry out? Thanks =)

Acuvue Oasis contact lenses have Hydraclear Plus which makes the lenses wetter and smoother so they dont dry out. They are also disposable so you dont have to worry about losing them. My friend has them and she says that you dont even feel them in.

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My friend went on the Depo shot sometime around the middle of March and lost her virginity (unprotected) maybe a couple weeks after that. Thing is, she hasn't started her period yet. It's now nearly 7 weeks later and she's scared. The only time she's bled on the shot is after having sex. She has only had PROTECTED sex once of twice but has had unprotected sex many times. She says she's not going to worry about it but I can tell she is and I don't know what to tell her. Is it normal for her not to spot or start her period or is this something she should see her doctor about or take a test for? Please help, I rate high! Thank you.

I definitely think that your friend should take a pregnancy test. If you can tell shes worried about it that most likely means she is. Tell her to buy a pregnancy test or go with her to buy it.

If she is pregnant, tell her to see a doctor or go to a local Planned Pregnancy.

If she isn't pregnant, she should still go see a doctor because she might have a hormone imbalance or something else thats causing her period to be very late. Also, remind her not to have unprotected sex again.

Hope this helps!


AFTER FEEDBACK:

the depo shot prevents eggs from leaving the ovaries, but like all birth control, its not 100% positive that it will prevent pregnancy.

another reason she may not have her period is that if its still within and year/2 years of having her period, it could just be that its irregular.

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Here is the deal.. Lately I've been thinking alot about if god is real or not.. I don't know if I should believe it.. I mostly think that life was created by mostly scientific reasons.. The bible could really be made up from along long time ago..Nobody really knows right? Has anybody ever been touched by god? If I do not believe in god what would I be?

heyy

if you dont believe in god, it means you're Atheist.

go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atheism to read up on Atheism and see if what they describe is what you think/feel. Also, if that site doesnt help you, just go to google and type "atheist" and you'll get alot of answers.

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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him

showing that you care about your boyfriend doesnt have to come from sexual actions. if youre not ready to get intimate, then you should let him know that, and if he truly respects you and likes you, he should understand.

also, if you didnt care about him, you wouldnt be with him, so that itself should show him that you like him.

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i had my 13 birthday 1 and a half months ago and my mom threw me a big party where me and my boyfriend slept together for the first time after being together nearly 2 years. after that we agreed not to do it again for a while 'cos i didnt felt ready, i missed my period so i took a pregnancy test and it was posative! i have told him (he is almost 15) and he says he will stand by me what ever i choose but i am so affraid. i feel helpless, please help me :(

i think that the first thing for you to do is to tell a trusted adult, like a close teacher or maybe even a relative.

if you're wondering whether or not to have the baby, you really need to follow whats in your heart. the options are:

an abortion

keep the baby

put your baby up for adoption

or you could pick the adoptive mother and father of your baby through the social services center in your community.

i think that you should think about each of the options and decide on at least two that you are the best options for you, and when you tell your parents, tell them what to do. this shows them that you have really thought about the situation.

my cousin got pregnant when she was young also and she kept her baby. although her parents were disappointed at first, they realized that theres nothing they could have done to change the situation, so they had to accept it and they see their grandson as a blessing.

also, you really want to keep your boyfriend in your baby's life if you decide to keep it.

everything will work out :)

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