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Only reply if you have experience with these piercings or know a lot about them, please. I got my industrial pierced about 3 days ago. Since then it hasn't stopped bleeding. What should I do? (link)
to make sure it is not infected make a doctors appointmentor go back to the place you got it peirced at so they can double check.
also, i recently got my cartilage peirced and had the same problem. i put neosporin or basatrasen on it to help heal it and block the bleeding temporarily.


15/f
And lately I've realized that've been crying a lot lately. And over the stupidest things and sometimes for nothing at all. I don't know if it could be my period. I had that a week ago and I'm done. So could there be something wrong with me? I dont know I'm just scared about it. I've been really moody around my friends and family lately. I've been bashing myself and I want it all to stop. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
you guessed it. it's your period. my friend is the same way. we were walking and out of no where she started hysterically crying because we saw a really big bug. then she got pissed at us becasue she wanted to go home. we said ok but we just wanted to say good bye to everyone first (two people) and she cryed more and more. she said she was sorry and her mom told us it was because of her period. your hormones are just up high and racing.


Hello there.
I was just wondering... what are some fun ways to kiss? Like one example would be to put an ice cube or gum in your mouth and pass it back and forth. BUt i was wondering what are some OTHER fun ways to kiss someone else? I am trying to get some new ways to make kissing more exciting for me and my boyfriend, just so we can play around with it.
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Beth. (link)
a kiss that i love is the Hershey Kiss: Take a bite of your favorite chocolate treat and swap the pleasure with your partner.
some other favs of mine are-

Pop & Sizzle Kiss: Buy a bag of pop rocks and have a little fun with your tongues.

Nibble Kiss: While kissing take a few, soft and playful bites of your partner's lower lip.

Wizard Kiss: Say "abracadabra" and then use your tongue as your wand to make all your wishes come true.

Law & Order Kiss: Intimidate your partner first with a line of playful questioning, then move in for a surprise kiss that leaves them begging you to slap the handcuffs on.

Marshmallow Kiss: Pretend your partner's lips are spongy and sweet, then bounce a little off the texture while you are sampling the treat.

Giggle Kiss: Find each other's tickle zones while engaging in a playful round of tongue tangling.

Tongue Wars Kiss: Just like thumb wars, but use your tongues instead. Each partner tries to get their tongue in the other's mouth while blocking with your tongues. Warning- may cause hysterical fits of laughter during and after.


if that didnt help try this website:
http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/365.htm

theres 365 different fun ways to kiss


[16/f] I can’t seem to get any pleasure out of masturbating. I touch my clit in various ways but it doesn’t really feel like anything special. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
maybe getting turned on by someone else would be more pleasurable?
- masturbation isnt for everyone =) theres no shame in that.
you are not:
sick
weird
unusual
or anything else negative
maybe youd rather have sex than touch yourself.
it wont feel the same when you do it yourself.
its like trying to tickle under ur arm pits.
it only tickles when someone else does it.
As the person said before me “Without getting into any kind of details, I'd suggest taking a warm- hot bath prior to any stimulation. The warm water would allow more blood flow to the vital areas. That should help a bit with sensitivity. Plus while in there, you can use a showerhead (movable) to stimulate yourself. Many women do this, especially when younger. To be turned on the brain has to be involved as well. If you have a hard time of thinking up something sexy or appealing to you then consider reading some sexy scene from an erotic novel while in there. It should add to the experience. I'd also say to be patient and not rush things. If you go into it clenching your fists, stressed and expecting instant results, then you may just be putting too much pressure on yourself.”
being too pressured and stressed can take away from the enjoyment and make it harder to reach an orgasm.


i work at a daycare and i need some ideas of some stuff we can do with the kids like crafts and games and things like that any ideas anything will help any websites or anything (link)
here are some things i did in preschool:

-fish-
[get some clam shells and face the like this...


ok well this is embarassing and actually bothering me for a very long time....to start with i am a 27 year old female, before i got married i was a virgin...and guess what...i got married in august of 08...and still am a virgin! well as much as it sounds crazy and funny...this is driving my husband and my relationship downfall...i am basically scared to have sex...we have attempted several times...but everytime the poor man tries to put it in...i back off thinking its going to hurt...its been eight months now...and my husband's just a very understanding patient man...or else i feel if it were anyone else he would have cheated on his wife by now...my mom, my sister my close friends that i have shared it with...all have yelled at me about it...i am starting to hate the fact that i cant get this fear out of me...i mean come on i thought sex was suppose to be fun...and i also know it keeps a married relationship good...but thats missing in my married life..and i have to do something about it...please help! (link)
Don't worry... being afriad of sex is normal. especially the first time. the first time it might be pain ful especially if you hymen hasent broken yet. The hymen is a thin membrane not inside the vag but part of the external genitalia. However, the condition of the hymen after puberty is not a reliable indicator that sexy time has been had. Hymens can be ripped from athletics, masturbation, and even tampon use. It is possible for woman to be born without a Hymen. it is best to see a doctor. your doctor will tell you if you have a hymen, if it's torn, or if its 'popped' this information with be very helpfull.


So I've had problems with socializing over the past...eh...year?
The last time I hung out with friends outside of school was last year.
We hung out two Friday nights in a row & they never mentioned it to me again...keep in mind, these are still my friends.
Yeah.
Anyway, I'm trying to figure out how I can make friends outside of school because you know how highschool is. There are cliques that are already established by sophomore year & once you leave one, it's heard to really get in with another. Yeah, that's where I am.
I'm planning on getting a job this summer. This doesn't totally answer the question, though, because I'm the shyest person I've met...ever. So, recap...my questions are:
-Where can I meet people asap?
-How can I further develop social skills?
-I'm assuming you may mention small-talk when answering the question above...how do you do small-talk without sounding like you're so awkward that you must resort to small-talk?
Keep in mind, I'm 16. (link)
Iknow how you feel. i used to be the shiest person ever. my mom was too she helped the most. What was really helping me is when ever i went out, say to a restraunt, or a coffe shop, there would always be "cliques" there. If one of them got up i owuld 'accidently' bump into them if they gave me an attitude i would just leave. but if they seemed cool then i would make "small talk". for example:
start out"hey sorry i bumped into you."
"ohhh, its ok. im a clutz."
"HAHa. same... i'm....."
"cool! i'm sarah"

And so on. just satr chatting. sooner or later you'll be better and better at it. and dont worry bout making a fool of yourself. its ok to be a dork.




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