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alright, this doesn't happen EVERYTIME, but sometimes when i pee, i feel like i have to go again, so i do, but nothing comes out or needs to.
it's just a weird feeling cus i keep thinking i need to go, but i really don't.
so, is this a problem or just minor? (link)
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Ha I know what you mean! I have had this happen to me 4 or 5 times and it actually is very annoying. Once you finish you feel like you still need to go and it can actualy hurt so bad you want to keep trying to go. The only real thing you can do is just wait it out, it usually lasts about 10-30 minutes for me then I'm all good :D The mroe you try to worse it will feel even though it's very uncomfortable and can be painful. There isn't really a problem with you that you need to worry about. Hope I helped
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i have a huge problem...
and it's pretty long but i hope someone can help because i don't think i've ever hurt this bad in my life.
ok so here's the deal. two weeks ago, my best friend and two other girls went tanning. i was under the impression that i was supposed to go, but apparently they "didn't have room" but no one told me anything, i just assumed i was still going until it got too late to go. we kind of all got into some tension about that, and i felt like they just didnt want me to go. so i felt shut out.
then they accused me of stealing my best friends purse, which i would NEVER do. can you understand where i felt like they didnt want me around?
well when my boyfriend heard about the situation he made the suggestion of not eating with those girls at prom with the exception of one (one of them is dating his best friend, and they live two hours away so they have to ride together) so i texted that girl and said "hey maybe you and i and our boyfriends should just eat together at prom..." and she kinda got upset about it and i said "oh ok well it was just a suggestion from my boyfriend because i felt like you guys didnt want me there anyway. no big deal, we can still all eat together if you want me and my bf to" and it was fine and everything was settled by thursday. everything was perfectly fine.
well, the girl i was talking about (my boyfriends best friends girlfriend...lol) was supposed to borrow a prom dress from me. i guess my mom thought she said that she was going to buy it, because the girl texted my mom and asked how low we'd go on the cost. so we were under the assumption that she was going to buy it. mom needed to know if she was still interested because if not she was going to go sell it so that we'd finally have a little bit of money. so i texted her friday and said "hey my mom said if you're going to get the dress you gotta buy it because if not we gotta sell somewhere else it or i can't get a dress" and she got sooo pissed off because she thought i was demanding payment right then, when really i was just telling her the situation. we just needed to know if she was still interested. i apologized for the misunderstanding and thought everything was fine. until i tried texting the girls and no one answered. and when i drove by where my best friend and her boyfriend live, the girls were there. so once again i felt shut out.. i didnt know they all hated me.
so i texted my best guy friend (best friends boyfriend) and asked to talk to my bff. he said no. and i said why, and he said because i said no. i thought he was joking around, cuz he always says stupid stuff like that. so i just said please, and he said it depends on what its about. i didnt have anything to hide, so i said well i just need to know why everyone is ignoring me. and he said "because you're a stupid bitch and you think you're better than everyone and no one likes you" and i still thought he was kidding......
so i said whoa what did i do?! cuz i wasnt sure what to think. and he said "that was a stupid question" and i said no, its not because i have no idea what you're talking about.
and he said:
"i'm talking about the shit about you saying that only you and *alex* and *tory* and *Joe* could only eat together at prom and you demanding that *tory* pay you for that dress right then. you think youre better than everyone and we're all sick of you"
so i said "no, that was a suggestion from *alex* because he thought the girls didnt wanna be around me after the whole tanning thing and the purse incident. it was all settled by thursday though so what changed"
and he said "nothing was settled about you eating with us, but now it is and you and *alex* arent invited"
thats fine, i dont care, but now they all say they hate me except my best friend, but her boyfriend will not let her talk to me or my mom, so i lost her too.
and she let her boyfriend tell my mom that her daughter was a stupid bitch and that if she would pull her head out of her ass and look around she might see how worthless her kid is" my mother saved her from abuse and neglect! we let her live with us for six months, and paid for everything for her. even bought her a brand new cell phone!
so they left, and now everyone hates me...but i really didnt do anything wrong! i live in such a small town, and they were really my only friends...
and they have forgiven the girl who called us all sluts and hoes, and stole our boyfriends. (the same girl who is dating my boyfriends best friend and who told them the doctored and edited dress story) they gave her a thousand chances to prove herself, but yet no one bothered to ask me about any of this before they made up their mind to hate me.
these are friends i've had since i was three.... what do i do? (link)
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High school drama can be crazy and that's a terrible thing to go through. My sophomore I delt with a smilar situation and I realized I was better off without them. Now I'm a junior and I have an entire new group of friends I met and most are seniors and sophomores. Those people clearly are not your friends and no oen deserves to be treated like that. In order for soemone to call you names like they must be on soem high horse and they need a slap in the face.
It's not worth your time to try to get some witches with a b.. to be your friends when they aren't very nice people from the sounds of it. You should reach out to other people not just in your grade and you would be surprised what you can find. This year I was gonig in thinking I was going to have a horrible year but I decided to stand up for myself and ignor the people causing me trouble. I went otu and did different activities and trips for my school and met an amazing group of people who I hang otu with every week. There is better people out there for you to find and you need to put those jekrs in your past and not look back.
Make sure you are mature about this and don't stoop to their level of name calling and don't let them get to you. If they try to talk to you just ignor them and walk the other way. Don't answer and phone calls or texts from them and don't let them know they are getting to you. What they want is to see you miserable and you need to be strong. Go to that prom with a beautiful dress and show all them up and have the time of your life. Best of luck :D
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hi, well. my mom doesn't find webcamming so
safe bc i wanted to buy a webcam and use it
on oovoo. and shes just not listening to me,
in her words she thinks webcamming is " inviteing
people into your home " and she doesn't like it
yett i told her all my other friends have it.
she doesn't care and said so, use it when
you go over there house so i guess what
im trying to say is, is webbcamming
safe or not on oovoo? if so, what
are some way i can convience
my mom to get me one.
-torii x0o (link)
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If your webcamming with a friend or family member then yes it's safe. When camming with a random stranger it is a huge risk. I would not recommend going into a chat with someone you don't know because you don't know anything about them.
Web cams are great for teens going off to college to keep in touch though. That's one up side I see to them. You can keep in touch with friends across the country that went to different school and your family if they have a webcam. I personally like using it with skype and I find it much safer.
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Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. Tonight we had unprotected sex and he accidently cummed in me. Im on YAZ birth control and never miss any days. We are talking about getting the day after pill or plan B. But im not exactly sure how that works etc. Could i get pregnant even though i am on birth control? Thanks ALOT! (link)
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Yes there still is a slight chance you can get pregnant on birth control. The chances are not as great as if you were not on it but there is still a possibility. Also the Day After Pill is basically going to kill the zygote if you are pregnant and your body will discard it. The lining of the womb is altered so a fertilised egg can't embed itself there. Also this can work up to 3 days after un-protected sex but is best within 12 hours or 1 day. Also the Morning after pill is only about 90% effective. Check with a doctor to make sure you should be taking this because if you have certain conditions you should not take the pill.
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