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Age: 127
Member Since: March 27, 2014
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Last Update: March 29, 2014
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I have imaginary friends since I was young. I've had no friends. i only play with my mom or just myself,read books, play games, so I started to have imaginary friends and world. i talk to them always and play with them. Whenever I get bored I just think about my imaginary world. i would just close my eyes for hours and imagine about the world. There are huge skyscapers of candies, cotton candy clouds, my friends houses and their mobile numbers, and we have dinosaur pets. i have my own family there where I go to school and live my own life. These things didn't bothered me at all but i'm just worried because other teens didn't experienced like this. I consulted a doctor and said that there were things that are lacking in me (grew up with no siblings) Am I still normal? (link)
I wouldn't go around telling everyone you meet that you still have imaginary friends. At your age, people are trying to figure themselves out and will jump at the chance to look down on someone to reassure themselves that they are 'cool'. That said, people mature at different rates so while you may grow out of it eventually, I say enjoy it while you still can. I never had imaginary friends but it sounds pretty awesome. With all your creativity maybe try writing out some of your adventures with them. I gurantee you that future you will enjoy reading them. And who knows, maybe you will become an awesome and successful writer. Just make sure to get out and interact with real people so you stay grounded in the real world. Best of luck, you sound pretty awesome, so keep it up.


15/f
I'm straight but I love masturbating with lesbian porn. Ive always wanted to do things with a girl but idk if its normal and idk if any girls my age feel.this way. (link)
Its fine. I had an ex girlfriend who dated a girl once but otherwise dated nothing but guys. She would still get turned on watching lesbian porn tho. You can be sexually attracted to both genders but only romanticly attracted to one gender and vice versa. I found a whole article talking about bisexuality that talked about stuff like that. I'll see if I can find the link but do whatever makes you happy.


Is it safe to play the starbound game? They are still working on it, and that makes me nervous! Will it hurt my computer? It looks really fun, but I don't want to get in trouble. :( What would you do? (link)
No, it won't hurt anything. If you are really concerned, create a restore point(google how to do it) Its simple to do and should be done periodically anyway. If anything should happen to your computer in the future, you can go back to the way you computer is now. I do computer repair and having a restore point makes my job 100 times easier. But anything you do to your computer can be undone.


22, female, UK living in a flat.

I cannot sleep in the same bed as my partner and he isn't happy about it. He doesn't want us to sleep separately and I have been using ear plugs for a long time but the noise manages to sneak through. I fear that if I do not find something that makes me practically deaf during the night my relationship is over. Any advice? (link)
All of the above advice, but one simple thing you can try is this: try having him sleep high up on a pillow above where your head lies. If he sleeps on two pillows and you sleep on one, it will help block the noise. You could also try having the radio playing during the night to help drown out his noise.


So there's this guy named Brandon whom I go to school with (we're 14 by the way). I think he likes me. We always hold hands, and hug and sit together at lunch but I don't know if he likes me. I don't want to ask him out, have him day no, and then ruin out friendship, or date, break up, and then still ruin our friendship. I think when we hold hands it might just be for the physical comfort because we are really good friends, like when you would hold hands with your parents when you were little. So do you think I should risk asking him out or what? (link)
Two things, girls mature faster than boys and when talking to boys you need to be blunt. Guys don't do that well with subtex.
I am sure that he likes you and thats why he does these things with you. I would talk to him and maybe tell him that you wanna talk about your relationship but no matter what the outcome, you want to continue being friends. This way he won't worry so much about saying the wrong thing and ruin the friendship. Then just tell him you like him and wanna go out with him. When I was his age I was in similar situations with girls but got nervous about defining the relationship cause I didnt know what it meant to be someones boyfriend.
I dunno maybe tell him what you want from him(I want things to stay like the are but just to know that you feel the same way towards me as I do towards you.)
If he only hold hands with you and does these things with you, I think its safe to assume that you are special to him.
I dunno, maybe not even ask him out but just ask if he likes you. Defining things can be scary when its ur first relationship. I would think knowing that he likes you is more important than a label.
Its been awhile since I was 14 and I was and am currently not the best with relationships. I just wanted to make sure you got at least one response. If you got any follow up questions let me know, and let me know how you make out. I am really hoping I am giving good advice here, but dont go on my opinion alone. Breakups can be rough but it doesnt mean you cant leave on good terms. I know a ton of people who are still friends with there exes. Yea its not the same as before but sometimes you end up better friends sometimes not so much. I am pretty tired and rambling. Best of luck.




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