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I am very much confuse me and are intermediate 4-5 times but now he leaved me what should I have to do if I got married with someone else one frst night he will easily know that I 'm already used and no will accept me plz help me I have no chance rather than suicide. (link)
There is no way for anyone to be able to know whether you were intimate with someone. Not even a doctor can tell whether you have been intimate with someone.

If you meet someone else that you want to marry, it is none of his or her business whether or not you were intimate before you met him or her!


So I was walking through a cvs pharmacy parking lot when a giant pit bull stuck its head out a window and bit up my elbow , I went inside and I seen that I was bleeding so I called the police they found the owner it was a old lady , she started crying and said she would pay for my tetanus shot so I didn't press charges , I recently got the bill it was about a thousand dollars , so I went to the police station and got the police report with her phone number on it , I called the lady numerous times but she doesn't answer , I went to her house her car was there I didn't want to knock on her door I figured she would say im harassing her so I called her from outside once again she did not answer , what should I do ? (link)
Go to your county clerk's office and they will tell you how to file a claim with small claims court.

Or contact a personal injury lawyer. I was bitten by a dog, and this is what I did. The lawyer helped me sue the dog owner. The dog owner's homeowner's insurance paid me $20,000 for the dog bite. $2,000 was for my medical expenses, I paid the lawyer 1/3 of the balance ($6,000) and I got $12,000. It didn't make up for the scar I'll have for the rest of my life, though.


I broke up with my boyfriend today and he seemed kinda sad about it. He's a mostly quiet person... But I didn't really know how to break up with him, but I kinda lied to him (Yes, I know it was bad, but I wasn't thinking and I was scared). I told him that I got in trouble for dating him and that we should just stay friends. He asked who got me in trouble and I just didn't answer. He also said "Wow I wanna shoot whoever did that" and that kinda got me scared... He asked if it was my parents then said "No I wouldn't do that"... But like I don't know if he was just upset or actually meant it. He's a sweet guy so I wouldn't think he would do that, but like I don't want there to be like a school shooting... I'm a VERY paranoid person so I could just be overthinking this, but what do you guys think?
Also, please don't tell me to tell like an adult about this because it could probably just be nothing but I don't want to be wrong either. (link)
I think you should just drop the subject with him. If he makes you nervous, don't go out of your way to talk to him and explain things. You broke up with him and that's that. Just move on.


My wife used to have very attractive breasts, about a DD-cup. After our second child, though, they just kind of... deflated. She wears a B-cup now and while there's nothing wrong with that, there is quite a bit of sag because they used to be larger.

I would like to suggest that she get implants - not to make them outlandishly large, just to restore them to something like they once were. I know that she doesn't have a problem with cosmetic medical procedures in general because she's had botox and she actually worked for a plastic surgeon once, but I'm afraid that if I suggest she get breast implants, she will think that I am repelled by her body. I am not - I just think that her breasts could use a little help at this point, and I'm not interested in changing her, just in restoring this part of her to what it once was. If she said she wanted me to take steps to try and restore my thinning hair, I would be fine with that (in fact, I would be eager to do something which would make me more attractive to her); but I don't know if she will see this in the same way.

Does anyone have a suggestion insofar as how I might approach the topic? From the women out there, how would you feel if your husband suggested that you get cosmetic surgery? (link)
Surgery is not not something to be taken lightly. It has risks, and it is painful. There is the risk of infection, there is a risk of the implants hardening, etc.

If your wife decides to have surgery, it should only be because SHE wants it, not because YOU want her to have it.

She sacrificed her youthful breasts to have your children. You should cherish her for that.



My friend got pregnant, she is only 15. Her boyfriend left her. She's still freshman in highschool and her mom is very sick while her dad can't sustain them financially coz of her mom's situation. If she will tell it to her family that she's pregnant, she'll be exiled or outcast. She alson doesn't want to ruin her studies coz her family wants her to succeed but if she'll raise the kid, she'll ruin her life coz her family will get angry and they are in extreme state of neediness. What should we do to abort her baby? (link)
Is giving the child up for adoption an option in your country? If so, that might be something for your friend to consider.




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