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Okay, I have been told over and over again that boys like to chase the girl. I know this boy likes me... But I don't know any techniques that would get him to chase me... Any help please?
PS I am 13/F
yes its true boys do like to chase the girl. a few good tips to get him to chase you is to flirt with him, give him a little taste and show that you like him but in a way where you trick him sort of. like flirt but then back away almost, and that will make him want you more. if you need anything else just ask:]
13/F - he is 14/M
Okay here are just some questions for boys only (or girls if you think you can answer them) that protain to a problem I am having now: (please answer them like you would if you were 14)
1. Do boys ever play around with girls' emotions for the heck of it? Like do they ever just get a laugh out of messing around with a girl's feelings? If so, WHY??
2. What are boys' reactions when a girl starts crying?
3. What would a boy do if he likes a girl but doesn't want a girlfriend? What should the girl do in this situation?
4. I've heard a lot of diferent girls' opinions, but in you opinion do you prefer to chase a girl or have her come to you?
5. What ( in your boy opinion haha ) should a girl do if the boy she likes (and he says he likes her too) is ignoring her? If he likes her why would he ignore her??
Please help me out guys, this boy is really confusing me... And you say girls are confusing... Ha.
I am a girl but i have been the victim in most of these questions and i feel like i understand these kinds of guys well enough to try and help you understand them too.
1.) yes. guys are inconsiderate like that and some, not all, but some do it because it makes them feel better about themselves. i would know this because i have recently been a victim in that type of situation and the guys that do this are usually cocky, insecure, or trying to boost their ego in a way.
2.)when a girl starts crying guys are usually thinking, please make her stop crying. they do not know what to do or how to handle something like that. i have also been in that situation. when my boyfriend broke up with me i started crying really hard and he felt awkward and tried to hug me and say dont cry but i dont think he knew what to do.
3.)yet another question where i have expirienced this. haha well in some cases when a guy likes a girl but doesnt want a girlfriend, he will flirt with her. but REMEMBER- try not to get too attatched to this guy. because clearly if he doesnt want a girlfriend this cant be good. i hate to keep using myself as an example for you but its the only way for me to make myself more understandable as to why this is not such a good idea. well, i liked this guy and he liked me but he told me he did not want to go out with me or have a gf. a week later he started talking to me again and told me he liked someone else. then as time went on and we kept talking i realized he talked to other girls too the same way he talked to me. it hurt. so usually when a guy does not want a girlfriend it could mean he either likes someone else, feels there isnt enough time for her, or only wants to get ass but from other girls too. all of those being bad reasons which is a good enough reason for you to try not to get too involved in a guy like that.
4.) again, i am a girl but i feel that i can help you understand this. well usually guys tend to like it betetr if they chase after you. it makes it more exciting and sure some guys would like it if a girl went after them, in the begining. but if she does it too many times as in, more than once, then chances are he will not really enjoy it as much as him going after you. guys are just like that. they want what they cant have and feel that they should be the ones chasing instead. also, guys may like girls who are easy IN THE BEGINING but after a while they get bored of it because it isnt exciting for them since they are not chasing and are just getting what they want too easily. yep. ive been in this too. i was too easy and even chased after him once or twice [not litterally] and now he does not talk to them anymore. i think he got bored with me. so just a tip, make the guy chase after you. trust me
5.)well, if he says he likes you and is ignoring you, chances are he is confused. [ive been in this too. all of these questions, except one, refer to the same guy. yeah uh guys like this are not someone you wanna be with haha trust me on this] so basically he is probobly very confused about what he wants, he likes someone else or multiple girls, or is just plain confused about if he even still likes you. guys can be very confused people. especially ones like these where they dont know what they want. ALSO- if a guy treats you like an object/choice, he is not worth anything. i would know. haha
i really hope i helped you(: if you ever wanna talk just inbox mee
So I'm 15, a freshman girl in high school, and despite the fact that's there's 1,000+ kids in my school, I don't have any friends. I don't get why. I talk to people who are my acquaintances, but I know I don't say too much because I'm afraid they'll think I'm annoying. I do raise my hand a lot in class, and I'm trying to stop, but is that annoying? Sometimes, I joke around with people that I talk to more, but is that annoying too? I get straight As, and I guess I'm somewhat decent looking. A girl in my Spanish class said I'm pretty, but I think she was saying that to make me feel better. Why doesn't anyone like me? I did drama and I'm on my track team and in a youth group. I met lots of new people, but no new friends. Everyone's just really clique-y and I don't fit in. The same girl who's in my Spanish class is in my art class, (which is after Spanish) and we walk together. We never say anything. I don't think she really likes me, she just doesn't want to walk alone. A lot of times, one of her friends will come up and talk to her, so I have to go ahead. It seems like people only talk to me when they want something, whether it's help with homework, to borrow something, etc. I always feel so awkward in gym because I just hang around these girls, but we're not friends, so I just stand there. Last year, I had friends. Over the summer, I did a camp, and there was a younger girl who was the sister of this guy I talked to. I found out from her that he thought I was really annoying and that another guy though I "stalked" him when I didn't even talk to him that much. This summer, I don't have anyone to hang out with, and I'm not doing the camp again because I'm not friends with anyone, and it's too late to join anyway. What am I do doing wrong?
i understand how you feel completely, im a freshman and switched into a highschool the begining of the year and only new a few people. i understand how you feel and how you think you are annoying others, i can relate to that. whenever im talking to people that i recently met, i act very bubbly and happy and i sometimes feel they think im annoying them. i still only have a few friends..its hard to make friends if you always feel you are doing something wrong. try to be yourself and dont care if others think your annoying, its their loss. forget about them, meet new people and try to be talkative. it is hard though, because sometimes you may not be sure of what to say to them. try asking them questions, the thing people love to talk about the most is the themsleves. and then hopefully theyll ask about you. hang in there, the year is almost over. and for the camp thing, i can relate to that too. im having this huge camp issue myself and i know how you feel. if you dont want to go back to that camp, try another camp. go in and be friendly and try to be talkative and be yourself. hope i helped:]good luck!
Does anyone know how?
It would be great if you could tell me.
why would you want to hack someone's myspace. thats horrible.
how do i get rid of it? its becoming easier for me to be myself and stuff but sometimes i feel akward and shy. especially around really outgoing people.. i mean normally im not shy and sometimes i wanna just be myself around people like that but then i get like stiff but i dont want them to think im a boring person its just.. idk like some friends i have they are outgoing and stuff but i met them in outgoing situations.. its hard to like get to know someone in the middle of class.. like im trying to concentrate at work and like "making new friends" while getting some info from a book then putting it on paper like.. its hard to do all that and socialize like im not stressed about my work and stuff. and its a bummer because some of those people seem like people who'd be great friends.. i want to ditch some of my not-so-good friends.. so how can a girl who a lot of people think is shy unless they met me in like a comfortable setting where i could act more like myself, and even people who are already my friends.. like some think im kinda shy.. like how can i just break out of that? it seems weird to suddenly stop acting like that.. i mean i try to stop but how can i actually do it? if you get what i mean.. and i never want to be thought of as a poser or anything.. not that i should really care what others think.. but yea. how can i get rid of this uncomfortableness and just be myself 24/7 and stop being so shy at times? 14/f thanks a lot btw!! :) know that your answer will change my life~
I know how you feel, a good way to to get rid of this feeling and be yourself is to not care what others think of you. this will help you to act like yourself because you wont be caring about what people think of you and youll be happier that way, trust me
good luck:]
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Hannah,
Hi, I don't know what to do with my time. I have no friends and I want to make more. HELP ME!
dont worry i know exactly how you feel. i sometimes feel the same way. its a terrible feeling but thing u have to do is go out there and be open to people and just be yourself and talk. it doesnt work all of the time but its worth a try