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Hi..... My name is Sydney and I got a question. I am 13 years old and I need to lay in the tanning bed. I go to this place called tanic tan and it's really cool... but I would really like it if you would tell me some good tanning lotion and stuff.... oh and can me laying in the tanning bed at this age effect my having children in the future... i lay about 10 minutes 4 times a week. THANKS!~!~! (link)
im about your age and i tried tanning but we had this talk about tanning at school and it really scared me.so i stop and now i use tanning lotion which i would recommend ur mom or someone puts it on you so its not streaking. it works about the same i have tanned once since i started using tanning lotion and it was for a big dance so just a little bit of tanning wont hurt to much. but i would stop


Hi, everyone. i'm 14/f (15 this june), and my boyfriend is going to be 16 this month.

First of all, I've never really had a boyfriend before, so I don't know all about "what to do" and everything, but my boyfriend and I have kind of just decided it'll be chill, you know..not too stressful or whatev. In other words, nothing that would make it awkward.

we've been seeing each other for about a month now, but i've known who he is/he's known me since jr. high school. I've always had a huge crush on him to be honest but he'd had a girlfriend for about 2 years, '0n-and-off' or whatever, I guess.

Sooo here's the thing!

He's really an amazing guy, and I, being a hopeless romantic at heart, fell in love with the fact that he plays the guitar (we play together often now), like's quirky movies/music, and likes being outdoors and all the same things about it that I do. Not to mention he's really into philosophy, as am I. (most of the stuff we talk about is pretty deep...somewhat random sometimes, but it's nice to have someone else I can talk to about "the meaning of life" or anything for that matter =P)

Buuuutt......

He told me recently that he smokes pot, and that he drinks. which I knowwwwwwwww isn't uncommon in high school....but he's only a sophomore, and I don't really dig that whole scene....as in, i guess i don't mind if he does it really, but I just don't want to be involved in any way, like having him trying to convince me to do it or anything. I don't think he would, but I'm not sure.

he was very mature about telling me, and he said he wanted to make sure I heard it from him and not from some vulgar rumors or anything like that. It kind of just caught me off guard. (even though I had heard rumors, it was unexpected to just have him tell me one night.)

So, I really don't know what to do...I feel uncomfortable with the whole idea of it, and I just can't stop thinking about it. You know, like randomly imagining "oh, he's probably out smoking pot or getting drunk right now..." and I don't think it's even that extreme, but I'm just not used to it (most would say i'm very innocent, or even naive in terms of this kind of stuff) but i kind of am more into the whole "getting naturally high off life" thing. It seems like pot-smoking and stuff is just a waste of time, and i'm sure it's fun and all, but it seems so depressing and it's sad to think of him like that..i reaaally don't see him that way around me, but I am always paranoid that the topic will come up, and he just jokes about it, so i laugh nervously while really i'm freaking out inside.

please give me some advice...i definitely don't want to break up with him, i'm really into having just a chill relationship with no drama or whatev...and this situation is making me worry, which is the opposite of what i want.
I just don't know how to bring it up to him, and tell him i'm not into all that.

thanks so much for taking the time to read/respond to this. :) (link)
well wat i would do is sit down and tell him you really love him. but if he does those things you might lose him so ussally he will relize that he loves you more than he like to smoke and drink


My name is Gina...Im 15 years old and im a female..During the past couple(2) months I have not gotten my period, its starting to worry me. About 4 months ago i became a vegetarian, i dont think that is the problem. im still a virgin. Please explain whats going on to me!
~~Gina (link)
well if your athletic then thats maybe why but if not i really dont no


the (gym) teachers @ my school begged my last year to join track, i went to a practice and almost died with the warm up (1/2 mile) and they are begging me again this year. they want to teach me to do the high-jump. i've been walking/jogging/running on my treadmill lately.

i would join track, but i don't like the fact of being with alot of other people && if i did high jump they would watch me (link)
ok track is always going to be hard the first week or so believe me i was sore all week but after that you only do the events that u will do in the meet like i cant sprint at all and the first week i sprint so much because im long distance. and as for high jump its not as scary of all the people watching you i don't do it but my friend said she was scared for the same reason and she said that its not that scary. and she wins all the time


track starts on march 6th

i can't even fun a quater mile with out geting out of breath!

i am 14(8th grade ) and i just bought a treadmill yesterday

what can i do so i can start track...( even though their are NO tryouts thanks alot babes ) (link)
well i cant really help w/ sprinting but i can help w/ long distance always remember in the nose out the mouth and pace ur self also put your tounge on the roof of ur mouth


i just joined track last friday, and to tell you the truth i'm not the best runner. i'm good at shot put, long jump, and hurdles, but we have to run a mile everyday and i'm a long distance runner. how can i be a better runner, because if i start running for like 10 seconds i get tired. thanks! (link)
well i run long distance and focus on your breathing in thorgh your nose out through mouth and also put your tounge on the roof of you mouth it help a a bunch believe me!!!!


If I am interested in running high school track as a freshman or a sophmore, how fast should my mile time be? And how fast should my 2 mile time be? (link)
well im in 8th grade and my mile time is on average 6 min 13 sec. and im the best in my school so i would guess around 6:20 but idk abot the 2mimle




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