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DangerNerd
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im 16/f
hes 20/m
im 6 & 1/2 months pregnant.
(please dont start with the 'if hes such an asshole why are you having a kid with him?' or 'you brought this upon yourself'. obviously i know this)
im having my ex's baby. id really rather not have him around because hes manipulative, controlling, aggressive, & unpredictable. another reason is because hes been selling drugs lately, smoking weed all day everyday, & the people he hangs out with, i dont want my kid around them.
usually i wouldnt have a problem with smoking weed but if hes going to be handling my kid, plus with other people around it just sounds bad.
my parents & i have decided to make him fight to see the baby. based on what hes said, he thinks that hes going to have the baby half the time, so hes gonna get a house before she comes and etc... I DONT WANT THIS AT ALL. does anyone know anything that could help me have full custody over the baby, or he (if at all) has to be supervised by me when he visits her ?
he has assault & kidnapping charges, would this possibly keep him from seeing the child ?
thanks ! (link)
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honey im goin the same thing and yes his charges can stop him from seeing your baby if you want it to. its up to you if you want him to see the baby not him. take him to court and tell the judge what he does and why you feel you dint want him to see him and there you go. you will have full custody. or you can get social workers to supervise while he visits if you want. that is your baby and nobody can change that. its your decision ok honey
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so all my friends have already had sex, and me, well, i havent. im scared its gonna hurt and such. i have a very low pain tolerance. its beyond low. anyways, i feel like im uncomfortable with my body. im comfortable with it, i just dont know if im comfortable with anyone else seeing it. i really love my boyfriend and when its the right time, i wanna do it for the first time with him, but i wanna make sure im comfortable. is there anyway to do this? and is there any explanation for the way i feel? (link)
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when your ready you'll know dont give up your pride because you feel you need to. hold on to it and when its the right time you'll know. and i used to be like you about my body. i felt like if anybody else would see they would'nt like it. but when i got with my first guy he said he loved the way it looked. now we have a baby together and gonna have another one. he still says it looks great speacially with the nasty stretch marks from my first child. but if he really loves you than he wouldnt care what your body looks like he will still love it.
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I'm 17 years old and am currently a senior in high school. So, there's this guy that I've been talking to a lot lately but have known him for a long time now. We go to church together and have developed a pretty good friendship, but I want us to be more than friends so badly. The only thing keeping us apart is the age difference. He's 22 years old. But, I can't seem to get him off my mind no matter what I do. I'm pretty sure that the wanting a relationship feeling is mutual but I'm not legally able to be with him. He's told me that we'll have to wait until I'm 18 to get into anything serious, but I'm impatient and feel strongly enough about him to look past the age difference. I would like some advice on what I should do...wait or get the guy I've been wanting for a year now?? (link)
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if you are seventeen and he is 22 then it will be no problem for you ONLY with your parents concent. if you got your parents concent then there's nothing anybody can do and he wont get in trouble.
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