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ok this might sound kinda odd, but im a little confused about my orientation.
like. im homophobic, and my friends are always kidding around and saying that im just "scared of what i really am" but i know they are just kidding around.
but the other day i started thinking and my boyfriend and i have sex and stuff but we always keep the covers over us, and i dont really wanna see his penis. ive never seen one and it just gives me a weird gut feeling if i see one. like, you know the feeling you get when you're nervous? well, a little like that, with a side of nausea.
i hate being like this because i really dont wanna be gay and lesbians scare me and i love my boyfriend to death but im just so confused!!
HELP!!! (link)
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at first you are goin to be nervous but when you get used to the idea of seeing one it actually helps
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im 15 and my bf is 16 and he is a bit shy he deosnt talk to many people weve been together for almost 7 months and i want to take our relationship further but hes a bit shy about everytime i try to make move he holds back he has a small penis and he has a real hang up about it i tld him it doesnt matter i love hima lot and i want to take things further what can i do? (link)
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Make sure he know how much you care for him and love him. Show him how much you do care and he will actually understand and go further into the relationship
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well i liked this guy who's like 2 yrs older than me, i just found out he used to date a girl who used to hate me,well he's really cute and i know he;s single but i freak out when i see him around school how do i get him to like me?? what do i need to do?? plaese this is important! (link)
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Just walk up to him one day and say "whats up how you doin" but make sure its got some mood in it and just start talking to him.
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i get jelous when my boyfriend talks about other girls
is that normal? (link)
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Its completely normal everybody gets jealous from time to time especially when your boyfriend talks to other girls.
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Hi im 15/f and i trying to train over tha summer for track in the fall. So if you could give me links tips exercises or programs and eating i would appreciate it. Thankx (link)
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What I usually do is go to a local track and at high school or middle school and practice running the mile run and run for about 2 or 3 hours with breaks so you pass out and stay hydrated its very important.
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okay if youre like fifteen and not sexually active would it be like normal to i dunno wanna practice for pleasure with like...i dunno a pillow or something haaha idk random i know
and if you use something like a 'toy' or whatever are you still a virgin (link)
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It is totally normal to want to do that it just gets you ready for the real thing and when you finally do it....it will be special.
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ok how do i this but um my sister is sorta emo and stuff and im like preppy and always happy. so my parents/siblings think its ok to put me down because i have a lot of friends and a boy friend and stuff. and when i tell them its bothering me they say your life is to good you need someone to put you down. but it kills me to think that they might acually might be true.well what can i do to make them stop (link)
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I would tell them that I love my life the way it is and no one can change it.
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What is the song i the beginning of the funeral scene in the movie broken bridges? and who is it by. I know it's a country song preformed by a woman(s). (link)
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The song is called "The Battlefield" by Sonya Isaccs
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I have been crushing on my best friend for 7 years. She is the first girl crush I ever had. I didn’t understand it when I was young but now I do. I realized I am bi sexual and have feelings for my best friend Lara. When I came out to her and told her my feelings, she is fine with it but doesn’t feel the same way because she is sexual confused too. I have another best friend Mandy who hangs out with Lara and me. When I told Mandy that I like Lara and that her replys that she doesn’t like me in that way. Mandy said that Lara is in denial, she can tell that Lara likes me. Mandy notices that she flirts with me and leans on me and looks at me in a loving way. I thought that Lara was just a close person and nothing more because she told me she doesn’t like me. But Mandy believes that Lara has feelings for me but she is afraid to admit it. Lara says no but her body language says yes. How can I move on when Lara is in denial and just never stops her flirting with me?
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I would move on and start flirting with other people play the field a little bit and then look at the expression on her face then that should give you an answer.
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I am 19 an a guy. Ok so about a month ago i went out with two friends of mine, with one being a girl i really like.We sat in the her car waiting for our other friend to come out.As we waited, we had small talk an jokes going, but she kept putting chapstick on her lips like 4 times the entire time while we talked.I didn't say anything about it.I just thought, man is she trying to tell me something or does she really likes putting chapstick on her lips? Do you think she is interested in me? (link)
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Probably but sometimes people do use chapstick when their lips are really chapt but its according if her lips were really red and cracked then they were just chapt but if they weren't then she was trying to tell u something or hint around.
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lmao. okay so me and this guy have gotten really close in the past skool year. im 13/f by the way. anyway, my friend and i like sorta joined his little group of friends.
well today my friend wasn\'t in school and so in the afternoon we were all just sitting around so me, him ( his name is gunna be \'josh\'), and our friend, x (lol) decied to play \'would u rather\" we started off with gross ones like would you rather eat your bff\'s face or make out with a horse. haha.
anyway we got to really personal ones. i asked them who they would rather \'do\' (ya know.. have sex with...) , me or my friend. they both said me. they asked me the same question and i said josh.
next our other friend anthony joined in. we had to say who we would do in the eigth and in 6th grade. then we did our grade (7th). we had to pick someone. i go to a private school so there are only 10 boys and 6 girls in my class. when we were thinking josh said that it was easy to pick someone.
x said this other girl, then josh said me!, then anthony did too. i really like josh if you haven\'t noticed!! lmao!
he is always asking me stuff and like there are alot of signs he likes me-
he asks me alot of questions about myself.
he has called me hot before this year
sometimes he just wont shut up! like he keeps talking to me!
and he always wants me to watch his videos on utube
he is really nice to me
he does that whole touch your arm thing that everybody says is a sign a guy likes you...
how do i get him to ask me to hang out with him!??!?!?!?!? anyway do you think he likes me??! (link)
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I think he does like you because of the way you said he acts around you. To get him to ask you to hang out you should just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime and that might give him a hint that you would like to hang out with him sometime.
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I was suppose to get my period on the 4th. Its now the 6th. Can I be pregnant? I'm not on BC, so could my period just be out of wack since I'm not on BC (link)
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I wouldn't worry about it you might be stressed out or you maybe just nervous about something but if u don't have it in about two to three weeks I think you should take a test to make sure.
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iv never had an actual "bf" but many very close guy friends. but recently my best friend, the guy who i trusted my life with made my life a living hell and screwed up every possible thing, bc we liked eachother. hes afraid of me cause i get"to close" to guys. i just hug everyone and i like it when guys hold me, i just feel that no guy loves me at all. he ruined me and i can not trust anyone even if its a girl, i had all my trust in him. we hate eachother and fight so much somedays but others we like eachother we just forgive eachother way to easy. i need to get over him and iv been tryin for the past year but i just cant, its hard to explain, weve been best friends then he has the most retarded reason and then ruins me over and over again. i know ud say just try and get over him but iv done every possible thing, i just cant. i dont know what to do?
im soo love sick. iv always been better friends with guys but recently iv been suck an ass to guys i only have two close guy friends left. i just think any guy friends will hurt me again, so im a jerk to them and they did nothing im the biggest bitch there is :c so iv been falling for any guy i meet and talk to alot. then i never see them again and i get heartbroken. i hug and cuddle with them, but some i just talk to for hours. example> last guy i met at cousins party, we flirted from the very beginning then on and off i would be a jerk to him and then he asked me to dance and i said no bc i was texting the guy who hurt me at the moment and then he was sad and left for a while then at the end insteada sayin bye i said jackass and left crying, ive never been like this but i was hurt so bad and i hate hurting other guys for no reason im such a drama and jerkkk to guys, he is three years older than me and he didnt care hes liked me before he even knew :(. i love a guy, flirt talk for hours and cuddle then end up bein an ass what can i doo, i just cant get over it? i dont even know what love is anymore, and the thing i hate the most is their so nice to me and ima bitch backkk Dx. what do i do for either or both paragraphs??? fourteen by the wayy (link)
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I think you should take a break from guys for a while. Then get back out and play the field once you get into High School or maybe just a little older.
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Okay, I am friends with this amazing guy.He is everything a girl could wish for.I like him and he likes me, but we have never dated before.We both want to date each other, but he always has a girlfriend.He tells me he loves me but sometimes I think he is bluffing! I don't know if I should keep waiting for that day or just get over him. (link)
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Once before i was in the same situation. If you keep waiting around for him the right guy for you will pass you by. Also if he always has a girlfriend then you should just remain friends with him and look for Mr. Right.
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