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I'm not really sure how to express myself right now I just want to vent to someone to listen. I come from a loving family and could get whatever I possibly wanted. But I sometimes feel so sad that I am going no where in life I always feel everything is my fault. I care about people before i care about myself. I would kill myself to save another person. Growing up I can remember this would happen and I think it is getting worse. Whenever I do something wrong and I make someone angry I start hurting myself when I get in a fight with my boyfriend I start punching myself and pinching my arm I slap myself across the face and I tell myself how useless I am and how my mother should have never had me. Is this normal? I don't know if I want to express my feelings to my family about this. I don't want to be put into a physc place and I feel like if I say something people are going to think I'm dramatic. I just needed someone to vent to about this. No one knows about these. I often think about cutting myself but I don't think I have the courage to take something and cut myself with it. What's wrong with me? (link)
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What you are feeling is guilt feelings and depression.The first solution for this mindset that you have is Pray to God and ask him for (peace in your life)now you have to have faith to believe what I'am telling you in order for this to work.You also have to be sincere in your heart to God for this matter.and don't kill yourself because there is no forgiveness from God for that and that usually means a possibility of going some where where you don't want to go for eternity.Now you need to talk to someone that you are close to and tell them your situation,locate and talk to a minister in a church right away,also a counseling agency because you might need medicine for the matter.The main thing is to tell someone your story right away and don't be afraid to do that. Keep the Faith.


Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills). (link)
The reason why you don't need to commit suicide is because there is no forgiveness from God how can God forgive you if u killed yourself he can't.So if you do it there is a possibility of going to hell, I'am not saying you r going there, I can't put you there, but it is possible.Your solution is to pray to God and (cry out to God to fix your situation)that's all you got to say, (God please help me)believe me if you ask him with a sincere heart he will answer and help you. God Bless don't give up.


Sometimes it seems like I'm not needed. Why should I stick around if I'm not needed? Apparently I'm annoying, why should I speak if I'm annoying? I don't see a reason to go on, maybe I don't need a reason. Maybe I just just go, a lot of people think I should go and maybe I should listen to them. I mean like, if someone loves me, they wouldn't tell me anything to hurt me. They told me to go and I think I should listen to them. (link)
The reason why you don't need to commit suicide is because there is no forgiveness from God how can God forgive you if you killed yourself he can't.So if you do it there is a possibility of going to hell, I'am not saying you r going there, I can't put you there, but it is possible.Your solution is to pray to God and (cry out to God to fix your situation)that's all u got to say, (God please help me)believe me if you ask him with a sincere heart he will answer and help you. God Bless don't give up




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