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sex between more than 4 people in the same place with each other


I'm in high school and in June there's going to be a graduation dinner. At first I was looking forward to going but now I'm not so sure because the kids in my grade had to vote for stuff like "most likely to be successful", "most funniest", "class clown", etc and I got voted most quiet for the girls section. A lot of people put my name down, even those that don't even know me, so I think that I might be the one to win it. It's not like I purposely try to be quiet, it's because I have very low self esteem and now that they put my name down, I feel like it just made my self esteem worse. Being "most quiet" isn't even something to be proud about or get an award for. Why would they even have that category. I never even wanted to win, and plus there's other people that are quiet that they could have put down but of course it's always me. This happened yesterday and I was starting to get over it but then today one of my friends told me that she heard what "people were doing to me" and that it's "messed up". That just made me feel even more stupid and pathetic. One of my friends put my name down for "most adorable" and she told her friends to do it and not to put me for "most quiet". So doesn't that mean everyone sees "most quiet" as a bad thing. Atleast that friend didn't put my name down for it, even my best friend didn't say anything even though she knew about it. It's not like I never talk, I do talk to people and ask questions if I don't understand something or need help with something and I'm always nice to everyone. At the dinner that's where they give out awards for attendance and high exam grades and I wanted to be there for those, but when they announce the winner for most quiet its gonna be so embarrassing and just ruin the whole celebration for me. I don't think I'm going to be attending, I don't know what to say when my mom asks me why i don't wanna go. She already gave me the money to pay for it. (link)
Short and easy, go and embrace it if you win!! There is nothing wrong with being quiet, and if you win you can have some fun with it, like if someone congratulates you say "shh". Go you will have fun




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