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Age: 17
Member Since: February 24, 2007
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Last Update: April 5, 2007
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Im 14 years old and turning 15 soon. I'm going to high school next year.
I'm fully grown with big boobs and I got my period in 5th grade which made me want to question whether or not I was growing anymore because I heard that if you have had your period for more than 2 yrs, you basically stopped growing.
I went to the doctor and I found out that I'm not growing anymore. I'm not even 5 feet! I'm 4'11. "I was one inch away from being a legal midget? My "friends" make fun of me saying that.
There isnt a day that goes by that I dont hear that I'm short. I know it shouldnt bother and it doesnt all the time, but hearing it all the time can make me feel bad, you know? I tell them all the time to stop and that you know it hurts but maybe that wasnt a good idea since now they know that makes me feel bad?
I should start wearing heels right? One problem! No shoe store has my size because the regular size is 6 and that's too big for me :( So.. I dont know what to do. Isnt getting customized shoes is expensive? Do any places have size 5 for women?
What should I do? It's probably not that big of a deal but I just found out so I'm still sensitive about the subject and I already tried letting my friends and family know that it bothers me but nothing has changed! Please help! =)
P.s. I'm sorry for it being long but i would really appreciate anyone's help!
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Even though you have been fully develpoing since 5th grade you still have a chance of growing more. Your body stops growing at about age 18. Ignore what your family saysor Get a good pair of heels they always make me feel better, There are places that sell size 5, you just need to find them. Talk to your parents about your feelings and be honest about how it makes you feel when they call you short.
P.S. Im short too. ;)
Hope it helped.
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what is the chance of getting pregnant with condomz? (link)
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You are 98% protected..so there is about a 2% chance of getting pregnant. The pill as well as a condom is 99.9% safe but there is always a chance of becoming pregnant, no matter what.
hope it helped. :)
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hey..im in 10th grade regular global history i do really well in that class high 90's and im thinking of doing Ap u.s. history next year do you think I will be able to handle it I never took any advanced courses before. like do they expect you to know everything the first day. Because I dont have everything in my head. I am a fast learner and do well in school what do you think? thanks (link)
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AP courses prepare you for college. If you are a fast learner you will do well in this class, but it also depends on how comfortable you are with the information your learnig.
These classes prepare you for college so theyre going to go at a fast-rigorous pace. At the teachers may not expect you to knoww everything the first day, but they will expect you to be able to catch on to concepts at a very fast pace.
Also remember that there is usually a test to be accepted into AP classes.
Have fun in your classes next year!
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stupid question but i had a bf and he gave me this singing toy for valentines day.
i dumped him, and now i hate him and i never see him anymore (he moved). well whenever i look at the toy it reminds me of him. i really wanna get rid of it, but i dont wanna throw it away cause he spent his money on it, and i cant give it back to him cause i lost contact with him, and i cant give it to any of my friends cause i told them what he got me.
oh ya and i am not going to be in any relationship soon so i will not give it to my future bf. (anyways its ugly as hell and i hated it when i got it)
lol any ideas on what to do with it? (link)
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Keep it in the back of your closet untill you dont have a problem getting rid of it.
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Ok when I get to the gym I start sweating pretty bad and I get major B.O. what can I do to help get rid of this? (link)
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Well first, put on deodorant :)
Also wear more ventalated clothes to keep you cool. Take breaks and drink PLENTY of water.
Also dont over work yourself.
Have fun at the gym, Hope it helped.
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I go to the gym 5 times a week, i get on the eliptical for 45 mins then the stairmaster for 10 mins. What other excersises can I do to tone up my tummy area? (link)
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The Eliptical Trainer is going to burn your fat, but to get a better stomach you need to focus on getting definition in your muscles..you dont need to much, just some. I would suggest the oldest in the book. Crunches.......If your with a buddy, try using medball workouts, ask the people working at your gym about it. They can show you some really good workous.
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I'm on my period & I'm going to my boyfriends house in a few days. (I'm pretty sure I'll still be on it by that time.) I was wondering, what are the effects of having sex while you're on your period, other than it's messy & dosen't smell too nice? It's safe right? I didn't think it was bad, but my boyfriend is really worried about it, so I just had to ask. Are there any extra precautions I need to take?
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No there will be nothing wrong with your health.
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Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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This is going to be really harsh, but Nate doesnt care for you and your hurting blake, probably MORE than you realize. You may think that you and Nate had a really good connection and maybe you did at one time but hes just using you for sex right now. If you have sex and he just leaves, there is no relationship or connection there, be honest with yourself, and your boyfriend. Theres an emotional tie with the person after you have had sex and that can make it harder to see reality, Blake seems to really care about you but if your not faithful enough to say No to nate then maybe you should break it off. Dont keep these problems spinning round and round, make a difficult decision( I know it is, believe me). Be faithful to Blake and stop messing around, or keep being used and emotionaly drained.
Sorry....hope it helped
Good luck with your decision
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im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks
This post has been in another catagory, but i just realised it was place in the wrong one,
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Im sorry but its an unfortunate truth to what the last person said....Im a girl..and its unfortunate but we flirt....whether realizing it or not...we do.. Shes going out with other guys but she knows that you like her, it doesnt sound like she has much interest. I dont really think that there is anyway that you can change her mind, you can keep trying, going around in circles, but it might never be of much use. My advice is to stay friends, but if you find that hard to do, move on....
Sorry, hope it helped.
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I have had feelings for my friend, we'll call him Rob, for a very long time. When I first met him, it seemed like he wasn't interested in me at all. He is a shy person in real life, and I haven't talked to him that much in person. Over Instant Messenger, he is completely different. We've talked for a long time, and we seem to flirt over it. Reccently, he went away on a skiing trip so I hadn't talked to him in a while. When he signed on, he was SO excited to talk to me.
Now the thing is, whenever I mention to him about other guys, he gets really defensive. I'll tell him, "This guy just commented my picture and said I was hot." And he'll say, "Well I commented one of your pictures before too." He does that all the time, and always seems to get really protective if other guys talk to me. Weird, because at the beginning of the year, I dropped hints to him, and I think he understood, but he would usually just brush it off. I think it was because he was very shy when he first met me, but now he actually starts conversations with me. He also has told me: "alot of other girls are annoying, so I blocked them."
Here's my other problem. I have a fake boyfriend. Weird, I know. But I didn't want people to think I was pathetic, so I got a picture of me and my guy cousin and told everyone it was my boyfriend. I am very miserable, having to constantly be an actress, with my fake boyfriend. I want to know if I should "break up" with my "boyfriend" in case my friend 'Rob' likes me that way. I don't want to "break up" with my fake boyfriend because, then I'll feel alone, and weird, and stupid if 'Rob' doesn't like me like that. I don't know if I want to lose my "boyfriend" quite yet.
Do you think 'Rob' likes me? What can I say to 'Rob' to let him know that I really like him? And what should I do about the whole fake boyfriend thing?
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I have been in the same situation.
Sticky huh??
My advice is to "break-up" with your "boyfriend". Its draining to try and keep a story straight and lie all the time. Its not fair for you to play actress and keep your guyfriend dangling on a string. Plus, Why would you want a fake boyriend if you could have a real one wo cares for you? To me it really does sound like "Rob" likes you, take a chance, tell him how you feel. Dont make up some cheesy movie line, just say something (this is going to sound cheesy :]) from your heart, it truly works. Even if it doesnt work out between you and "Rob" you dont need a boyfriend to make you happy. Believe me, I know from experience.
good luck, hope that helped.
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Ok, my best guy friend and I have been friends for about 4 years. Now I realize how much I really like him as more than a frind. But, now, it's too late, because he's pretty much dating the prettiest girl in school (big boobs,cheerleader, total package) And i'm just sitting there in the sidelines. He means the world to me, and now I have no idea what I should do, because i'm actn really weird around him. And I'm afraid to tell him how I feel, because he will prolly just tell me that we're only ever gonna be friends. Help! (link)
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I know that its difficult to sit and watch your best guy friend and this girl together, but step back and look at all the good things that you have to offer. Be confident and know that he isnt going to marry her. You sound like you really like him, and he doesnt dislike you because your friends, dont try and break them up or hurt their relationship becasue ultimately it will hurt yours. You will get your chance for him to see what a great girl you are, i would tell him how you feel.
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