Member Since: December 28, 2014
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Last Update: December 28, 2014
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To make a long story short, I was dating this guy, but before we were officially together he slept with this other girl. Then when we got together he still tried to help her out, because she's homeless, no job, no education, no family etc. Then a few weeks later he finds out she's pregnant with his baby. He immediately tells me and says he needs to be single for the time being, because he needs to help her through the pregnancy, the other girl seeing him with any one else would make her angry at him. I took him for his word that I did nothing wrong, and he wanted to be single which was fine. Come to find out this girl posts that they are in a relationship, not even two weeks after he breaks up with me, and then she posts more that she is upset because he won't tell his mother, or any of his friends about her. At his request she takes the" in a relationship" post down, because he was worried about how i would feel. Then she has a miscarriage, and now he says he isn't with her. He says he wants to be single, but he also doesn't want to be alone. He also said the only reason he broke up with me was because of this girl. Since then we have made up and have started to become friends again, i.e. going out socially, hanging out etc. I still really like him, not just on a physical level, I like him as a person too. I would like to give a relationship a new try, but I'm unsure if he would want to or if its a good idea. So should I just ask him, or is he not worth my time? By the way I am a 22 year old girl, he is 23. (link)
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M view on this is that you deserve better because you are a QUEEN! Do want someone whose promising or someone not serious ! Its not my decision who you chose but just think about your worth and do you desrve better. And trust me there will be other guys , just focuss on being you completely and you dream man will come !
YOU are a QUEEN a GODESs of love !
Waste not your time on boys but intead seek men !
Love yoursel and he will come to you !
Kimmie
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My friend and I have been friends since elementary school, so this is someone I truly care for. Her boyfriend got arrested a month ago and this caused her to lose her mind practically. She is 21 and hanging out with her brother's 15 year old friends. It isn't that bad, until I realized she lets them drink alcohol, smoke weed (Her excuse is: they bring it themselves), AND co genders sleep in the same room. Her parents told her not to let her brother and his friends do that. She lives with her older brother who also stated not to let any of them in the house. When I went to visit her she snuck them in the back window. I asked her wth she was doing and she said that her family is just being assholes. I don't think she realises that if any of the KID'S (cause that what they are) parents find out what she is doing she could get into some serious trouble. I find this sad and pathetic, but I understand people go through problems. This is causing me to hate her. I don't want to be friends who supplies illegal substances to minors, because they boost her self-esteem, yet because of her state I am the only sane one she's got. (link)
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That is sad but its true she won't listen to her parents , why woould she you ?But you can be there to give your oppinions but dont force it on her or she'll shut you out completly . But letting kids do things that aren't thier ages is simply unacceptable , you should get thier parents involed if you really care for ths kids even if your friends get angry . Fight for whats right ! And if she was really your friend you wouldn't hate her because you do anythiing to hep a person you love ! Think about your freindship and most importantly help the kids who arent doing what they're suppossed to , because the kids are you and I future! Good luck and fight for what's right !
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My girlfriend of almost a year is the girl I want to and am planning to spend the rest of my life with.Shes perfect to me. But here's the thing, when we met she had a boyfriend, a fat, immature, poser(he's white and says the n word,wears a SnapBack,says eminem is the only good rapper alive,etc...).I convinced her to break up with him and we fell in love.Now I lost my virginity to her but she lost it to him.When I imagine that guy on top of her, I get insecure,mad,sad,jealous,etc..She says she regrets it,I believe her but still. Now the other day she told me this guy we both know was hitting on her and I laughed about it...then she told me "have you seen him in sweatpants ,looks like he has a 3rd leg or a really big water bottle in there.." Ever since then I haven't been able to look at her out of jealousy and insecurity, I mean why would she tell me that,was that really necessary,I'm confident with my size but it's not a damn 3rd leg.... So how do I get over it and just move on?plz help (link)
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ALRIGHT FIRST , IF your girlfriend doesnt like you for your personality and for who you are then she doesn't deserve your beautiful soul . And jealousy is normal but dont let that emotion overpower other emotions . And at the end of the day its she's your's and no anybody else's . And dont worry about how you look what should blow her mind is your soul and how you treay her
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I think I want to be a storm chaser, but are my parents going to flip out when I tell them. I know it's my decision, but I don't want to cause them a lot of stress and anxiety. I want to help protect people from bad weather, particularly tornadoes as much as possible. I think I'd be good at it. How would you feel if your kid told you that they wanted to be a storm chaser? (link)
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Alright , so I have to tell you that its your dream and if you feel like its the right career choice for you then go ahead and shoot for your dreams alright ! And your parents should be supportive of your dreams . And at the end of the day if you feel happy when you go to work and feel like its not just a job its what makes you smile then go ahead and shoot for the stars !!!
XoXo
Kimmie
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