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Here's the deal: I'm 17, almost 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me? I feel like guys NEVER like me as anything more than a friend, and I've been discouraged so many times I don't know what to do. It's not like I don't have any experience with guys, I've made out with and hooked up with guys before (never slept with anyone though), but whenever this happened both me and the guy were always really drunk or high at a party. It's like I'm not good enough to actually be dated, and because I've never gotten close to anyone before while sober, I get really awkward and never know what to do. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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You're pretty much quoting my life. I feel the same way all the time but for me it was just that I never met a guy that made me want to exclusively more that hook up with and talk to but when I finally got my first boyfriend I knew what I hadn't before because I could talk to him for hours and I could be sober and still have fun with him. I would take special notice of the guys that you can talk to and always have fun with sober and if there aren't any try and get to know some guys on a deeper level sober or not and really talk to them and then if you're still interested in what they have to say and they're interested in you even after you're sober the relationship will come naturally. Hope this helped.
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my friend keeps trying to make me drink but i dont want to. what do i do? (link)
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There's no easy answer for this one you're probably going to have this problem for a long time but I would tell your friend that you are fine with her drinking but you're just not interested. As long as you don't act like you're judging her for it she'll probably back off towards you and if she doesn't tell her she's making you uncomferable(magic words that almost always work) and if she still doesn't back off then she's not a good friend to have.
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my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (17) about 3 weeks ago. he did this because he had feelings for another girl..who was only 15. at the time he was talking to her he didnt know she was 15, he thought she was older. when he found out how young she was, he stopped talking to her.
i was pretty upset when he broke up with me, but he said he did it because he was confused, and the last thing he wanted to do was cheat on me, and in the end he ended up with nothing and regreted it all.
i snuck out tonight to see him and ended up having sex with him again. he said he was still confused but there might be a chance of us getting back together. i havent been able to concentrate on anything since he broke up with me, and i really want to be with him. i forgive him and want to take him back. should i be this forgiving?, or end it once and for all. i think he was using me tonight, which kills me, but i would do it again for sure..if i did break it off for good...i dont know how i would ever get over him... (link)
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This sounds like almost a repeat of my x boyfriend who I thought I was in love with and dumped me after doing a lot with me for someone younger and extremely trashy. He tried to get back with me later and regretted his choice and I gave him another chance because I was still in love with him and couldn't forget about him but it only made him go back to his old tricks and made me take even longer to get over him and end up even more hurt. I know it's hard but if he did it once he'll do it again. I would end it now before you get really badly hurt.
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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Don't worry I know so many people who have the same problem as you and they're the smartest prettiest girls at my school. There's nothing wrong with them they just aren't as forward or as comfortable going up to a guy and later that night or the next week making out. To be honest most guys think and not but almost all whos going to sleep with me and if you don't seem easy a lot don't try. Trust me it'll happen. A lot of the girls in the same position of you have recently had their first kiss as senior in high school. Nothing wrong with you.
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