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i love my sister so much its unbelievable... its just that she is sooo mean to me. But when ever i try to be mean back shes just laughs and i feel really bad. Im so nice to her, like i respect her and do whatever she asks... but then she uses me and rats me out for everything! She even makes fun of me in public and i get really embarrased!!! I dont know what to do or the say but it really hurts me to be pushed around like this. She is older than me and is going to college next year. Im gonna miss her soo much.
i just need sum advice to not feel guilty and not be hurt by everything she says. (link)
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My sister has this same exact problem with my older sister. I've told her over and over to just ignore her and then my older sister will feel stupid about it and wont do it anymore. Ignoring her would really be the best thing to do. If you give into it you're just feeding the fire, you're making it bigger. When people like that like to fight they want you to fight back so that they can keep being mean to them. If you don't give her what she wants she'll stop doing it to you. Or when she's being mean to you just say three words, "That was rude" and walk away. She'll realize it was stupid and feel retarded for doing it and will stop. It may not seem like she feels stupid for saying it, but she does. Good luck, tell her how you feel before she leaves, unless you'll regret not telling her. You want to have a truthful relationship before she lives or else you'll be full of regret and it'll change your personality for sometime until she returns.
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okay, so me and this guy that i really like were kind of a thing and he really cared about me but we werent going out or anything. but then he got in a fight with another guy that liked me becasue the other guy told him he wanted me so the guy i was with blew up at him. and then i didnt think he would get realllly mad at me.. but i went out on a date with the guy that wants me. and the guy i was with got really upset and now he isnt talking to me. idk what to do. ive said i was sorry a million times. i didnt even do anything with the guy but hes still really upset about it and isnt talking im so confused (link)
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I think if you are "with" this one guy, then you shouldn't of gone on a date with the other guy. I would be very upset as well. You need to realize which guy you like and stick with him. Unless you just want to be single then you can go on as many dates as you'd like. The guy you're with is probably really jealous and thinks you're just using him. Which would make guys really upset, he'll thinks he's just the rebound. You need to decide on who you like and who you'd rather spend your life with, if you don't know and can't decide then i'd recommend being single until you can decide and know what you want out of life.
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im getting spacers in a little less than a month and i have a low pain tolerance...what do you think i should do? (link)
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Potatoes. Potatoes will be your best friend, it doesn't hurt to eat them and if you eat them hott it makes the pain go down. Eat a lot of sugar free gum, it'll help the pain go away a lot faster, it might hurt at first but it'll be worth it, I promise. Take a lot of ibuprofen as well. It really does help, and find a lot of ways to intertain yourself so you're not thinking about it constantly. :)
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today, i was hanging out with my new friend, we get along real well and i was telling her my life story and all the pain and struggles that i went through and my friend starts crying and telling me that i dont deserve any of this, i dont know about that but i am really insecure person and i have a low self esteem i really dont know why she cried because she didnt go through any of this, any clue on why? (link)
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She's a very sympathetic person. Some people cry easily when they are touched. She probably felt like you deserve a lot better then what you are getting treated with and was thinking of ways to help you but couldn't, so she showed tears instead.
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