hey! so all of us have love problems whether it be from crushes or people we're dating or whatever we all have them. and this column is to help on that now I can only answer problems that teens or a certain age group have about relationship but I know I can help you with relationship or love problems you have.
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iam 15yrs of age.i have a friend,my best friend.we went to thesame collage infact we do alot of thing together. But he never mentioned that he love me.yesterday he called me and ask me to meet him in motel which i did when i got there he told me that he loves me and will want me to be his girlfriend. i was speechless for 30 minute and i told him dat i will think about it.what should i tell him? (link)
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the answer depends on how you feel for him if you feel the same way then say yes. but if you don't turn him down but if you still want to be friends make sure to say you still want to keep the friendship but you just don't feel anything other then friendship for him. now if your confuse about your feelings here are some things to consider. have you ever seen him with other girls perhaps girls you don't know and they were having a good time if so how did it make you feel. can you see yourself introducing him to people as your boyfriend. if your not sure how you feel these are some things to consider. I wish you the best of luck
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Hi. Okay, so I have other friends too besides my bestie of besties. So, I have Jamie, my #1 sister, but I also have like 2 other best friends. But it's SOOOO hard for me to hang out with my other friends because Jamje always gets butt hurt and pissed off. Then she ignores me and says stuff like "maybe they should be your new best friend" or "you never hang out with me anymore" when I'm like, ALWAYS with her... it's been going on for quite a while and I just want to have fun with everyone without losing friends along the way... HELP!!! (link)
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it seems as if Jamie needs re assurance. it's never ok to treat your friend like you own them. maybe when you hang out with other people she feels as if you would forget about her. there is some thing you can do to fix this first is to re assure her. you don't want it to seem like your attacking her or anything so you can do something along the lines of telling her she is a great best friend and you know that even though you hang out with other people you two will always be best friend. or something like that. another option is to talk to her straight up again you don't want it to seem like your attacking her but you also want to get your point across. if you do any of this and she just gets mad at you or waves you off and continue to do these thing I'm sorry to tell you but she may not be as good of a friend as you thought but if you two are as close as you say you are hopefully she doesn't do this... best of luck to you
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