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Im Jess i love softball and my friends and i like to do alot of other stuff and i give preety good advice so ask me anything..

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What amount of sperm is needed to be in a female in order for her to get pregnant?

well when the spem is released 500,000 seamen are released into you and they make there way and when they find the egg about 400,000 have died but then the seamen that are left fight for the egg kinda they headbut the egg until one of them gets it.

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this might seem a little gross but, i was wondering what is a discharge? and what is too much? if someoen was getting it for about 2 years shouldnt they get their period by now? arent you supposed to get it soon when you have that? -- thanks

yeah it is normal ive gotten discharge for as long as you have and i havent started mensturationg yet

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16/f--I have this friend whos mormon. She's really nice & everything, but she's always trying to get me to go to church with her. But the thing is, I'm a proud Christian. I love learning about new religions, cultures, lifestyles, etc. But going to church with her is something I don't really want to do. Also, I've talked to my mom about it, and she doesn't want me to go either. Part of my not wanting to go, is that I've talked with a few people who have gone to church with her (also friends of ours) and they've said that they take down your name, address, number and sometimes take your picture. And thats not something I feel comfortable with. My church on the other hand, won't do that. They'll treat you like a guest and they tell you, you aren't obligated to do anything. But for some reason, everyone has said that the mormons try to talk you into some things. And I'm not disagreeing and bashing on the mormon religion, but its not something I want to be a part of and I've pretty much kept my feelings to myself rather than spreading them or whatever. But I don't know what to tell my friend when she invites me places anymore. Usually I'll say "I'm doing something" or 'I can't wake up that early'. And I feel bad. And now, my other best friend just became mormon...so I'm not sure what to do. And I don't know if my friend's mom would want her to come to church with me, since she's really overprotective (I was thinking mabe we would both experience other churches, but it might be a bad idea).

Tell them that you're uncomfortable with it. They're your friends, they'll understand. Religion is something that's very personal, and they can't force you into anything. They probably just want to share something thats such a big part of their lives with you, but I'm sure if you told them how you feel about it, they would be okay they arent going to stop being you friend or anything just be like its a little weird to me and i dont htink im going to go shell understand.

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so yah.. if a guy "hides" your relationship does that mean he's embarrassed of you? i dunno. he's happy and everything but it's sort of awkward i guess. he doesn't deny it but he won't say yes..does that mean he doesn't really like me?

well he might be embaressed of you and you should go ask him and say are you embarrresed of me and just ask him a few questions and then if you want to you can break up with him

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After my dad died, I've been having problems with myself. For a while I was okay. but recently i keep getting mad and feeling so...weird. So i started cutting, but now I don't know what to do. I can't stop...it feels so addictive. We have a spring trip soon to a water park and I don't want everyone to see my cuts. What should I do?

It's ok, we all make mistakes and yes- I do agree that cutting gets addictive. I would advise that you cover up your cuts by wearing a light long sleeved t-shirt and just go swimming in it or just not go in the water at all. Try talking to your doctor about taking medication for your depressive mood swings. Also consider going to a church if you have the time. you can also mabey put some cover-up on it until it heals and you have to stop cutting..hope it works out

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what are some bands that aren't well known? like rock or metal bands. like how TBS used to be. but know a lot of people know who they are. know any good ones?thanks.

Lamb of God
My Chemical Romance
The Used
Accept
The Black League
Mortification
Agathodamaimon
SOD
Stratovarius
Destruction


hope i helped

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hey i have until early July to lose 15 pounds [i'm 5'3] but i have absolutly NO modivation. I keep thinking i'll start tomorrow every day but it never happens and i eat junk all the time. so sooner or later i'm only going to have like a month to lose 15 pounds which wouldnt be easy at all. what im saying is i need help and lots of it... does anyone have any pointers on modivation and what not to eat [that i could last without for 3 months :)] haha... thank you soo much.

well keep a chart that says like monday 104 then tuesday 102 like record your weight everyday and if you lose weight youll get more motivated if you gain a pound mabey youl get more motivated.

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