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Member Since: April 6, 2006
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Last Update: April 7, 2006
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15/f ok i just read someones questions that she thought she was les because she dont get horny when she thinks of guys having sex with a girl but she gets horny when she thinks of a girl with a girl she gets horny...well my problem is like that to ...kindof...ok i do get horny when i think of a guy with a girl...but i get even hornier when it think of a guy on a guy....i dont know why...is that weird?what can i do to stop? is this normal?am i a freak?!? (link)
It's not weird. You may even be lucky enough to find a boyfriend who's willing to indulge your fantasies.

No-one can call you a freak for your sexual proclivities, as long as it's legal and consensual. So enjoy yourself!


If my prom is June 29th and i want to ask this guy i work with (whose younger then me) when do you think i should ask him? Wahts the best time to ask someone to prom? (link)
Right now. If you hang around, you risk losing out to someone else that he might not even like as much as you. If he's not interested, you've got plenty of time to keep looking.

Carpe Diem!


anybody know who originally unified the world numbering system into the arabic numbers? (link)
According to Wikipedia (it's an amazing thing, this interweb) Arabic numerals were first introduced to the west by the Arab mathematicians Al-Khwarizmiand Al-Kindi in the 9th century AD.

However, the system was really popularised in Europe by Fibonacci (of Fibonacci sequence fame) in 1202.

Have a look at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arabic_numerals if you want all the gory details.


Well, where to start?

Okay, I think I should mention I have Selective Mutism. If you don't know what it is, it is an inability to speak in certain social situations. So I pretty much don't talk to anyone but people in my family since I'm extremely shy. :\

I like this guy, but I don't think he'd ever like me. He calls me his mute pet/chick.

And he also probably thinks of me as a little girl, since he is one year older. (I am 15 and he is 16.)

I don't know what to do to make him think otherwise. I mean, he's a good friend and I don't want him to think I'm retarded.

We've become closer in the past days though, so that's some progress right? (link)
This is an unusual situation - I'll deal with the easy part first. One year's age difference is not a big deal, even at 16. It's pretty common for guys your age to go out with younger girls because girls mature earlier - I'm sure you've noticed this!

You say he's a friend, and a close one - he obviously doesn't have an issue with your mutism and certainly won't think you're 'retarded'. You're clearly articulate, and if texting/email is your main way of communicating with him then he'll know that.

It sounds to me like he is protective of you - this can lead to a really strong bond, and you say you have 'become closer'. I wouldn't be surprised if that protectiveness comes from or leads to deeper feelings for you - but only he can tell you that! You might find it hard to ask him, but it's the only way.

Good luck!


Hello I'm going to the beach and i have a question i want to skip my period and i don't know if thats possible i'm not on birthcontrol pills so i don't know if there is anyway can you help thanks (link)
There is one way to stop (or control) your periods, and that is the contaceptive Pill. It is not the intended use, but it is generally recognised as safe. (have a look at http://www.noperiod.com/FAQ.html#Is_it)

I suggest you talk about it with your doctor though just in case, as effects could vary depending on which type of pill you are using.

However, if you don't want to use the pill, then a tampon is your only option as the others say. Good luck!




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