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Member Since: April 6, 2006
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Last Update: May 8, 2006
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my friend told me to "pop a pill." is that a good thing? and what does it mean? (link)
hellooooooooooooo,dear what type of friend is he .......?welll watch ou dear for drugs ,dont do it cause it destroys.have fun ---one love---jay-pee


so yea, on AIM every1 has a cute profile w/ cute quotes and designs and i wanted to know if anybody knew any websites i can go to to gte cute stuff like that. some cute away messages too. i rate 5's for links =] (link)
hello ,dear you could try ---poetspassion.com or 123greetings.com


I've been dating this guy on and off since I've known him.We're best friends and spend all of our time together.

I love him ver much. He loves me too, and cares about me just as much as I care about him.

He lost his job in December because of a car wreck. Since then, I've been going out of my way to help him with just about everything. I buy him cigarettes,gas, beer and food. I've taken him to concerts, free of charge. I'm going to give him my drum set because he likes to play it and wants to really get good at the drums. I make him mixed cds. I e-mail him when he's down to help him cheer up. I buy him awesome Christmas and birthday presents. And actually, I really don't mind doing this for him. I love him and I want him to be happy.

The problem: He says "Thank you", but that's it. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of. And I just found out that he sent a girl that he used to date an E-card because he hasn't talked to her in a long time. Okay, so maybe that shouldn't really matter, but it does because all I want is to know that I matter to him. That's all. He'll go out of his way to do something for her and he hasn't seen her in about a year. I want him to appreciate me and want me around. He usually doesn't even call; I call him.

Should I talk to him about it?
Should I just stop being upset and forget it?
How can I make him see all that I do for him and make him appreciate me?

Please help me. I'll rate high.
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Hello My Dear,I want to start answering your question by letting you know that this world is a wicked one were anything is possible.you dont have to cry over someone who wont cry for you .if you do as much as you have said,and this guy does not show appreciations,then you have to stop doing them so that when he wakes up someday and you are not there to make him feel better ,he will deffinately come looking for you.you just have to make him feel jealous and wanting you .

From the way you sound ,i know you do love him.but the issue is "does he love you, or you are just there as a tool?"you must answer this question or you will one day be heart broken without knowing it .

call a spade a spade.



My problem is not depression. I have never been diagnosed with anything, and there is nothing "the matter" with me. My only problem is that I feel unhappy for 90% of my waking life. I am nearly 23 and I often feel ugly and unattractive, despite what boyfriends have said to the contrary. I feel that I will never have a decent partner, a loving man who i will be able to have children with. So far, all the men I have dated have just been out for what they can get. It is a side issue, but I wonder whether there are any MEN who get angry at the way a lot of men treat women. There must be some out there, I'm not saying all you guys are a**holes.
But I digress......

Basically, I just wonder if any of you out there have gone through or are going through the same thing. Share your thoughts. Thank you. (link)
Hello Dear,i just have this to say to you ."Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all"So my dear you just have to first appreciate yourself then others will.For you to keep your respect,you just have to first have confidence in yourself ,and you sturdy men before going into them .take care and hope you find love .one love

jay-pee




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