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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?
Please Help Me.
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Ummm No offense but ewww... umm well try to forget about...your brother. Don't tell anyone they might thinks its a little strange. Sorry about the ew but u don't hear that very often.
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Hey, srry I didn't kno wat to put this under. Anyway, well first of all Im 14/f and Im a mexican.Well this guy that I used to go out with called me a wetback another name for a mexican, but before that we used to be friends and he is goin out with one of my bestfriends and she isn't doin anythin about it. And today I was walkin with my boyfriend and my friend from lunch and my b/f and my ex r friends,and when I was walkin with them to class my ex says "look at u and ur wetbak girlfriend" u kno but in a really really mean way. And for like 2 weeks now alot of my so-called friends have been insulting me and sayin mean stuff about mexicans or just say to my face "u need to go bak to ur country" and "mexicans are taken over Virginia, we might as well kill them all so they won't take over" stuff like that. I try to make it seem like it don't bother me , but it really does. Everytime that they say sumthin like that I just want to kick their asses, and thats everyday. I want to say sumthin to the counslor but I kno that she just won't say anything to them, she will only say to ignore it, but u can't ignore sumthin like that. Please help me, I don't kno wat to do anymore. (link)
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Ok i dn't wanna be like say anything about ure friends but their bad friends if their gunna go make those type of gay ignorant comments. Just tell them something back. Even though 2 wrongs dpm't make a right u'll stil feel better. he he
Hope my advice helped : )
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How can you tell if your depressed or going crazy is there any signs of it ? (link)
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Yup, some signs of depression are u REALLY don't feel like doing anything anymore. You also feel so hopeless and useles. You cry a lot and stuff. Also u can look online for for more syptoms. By the way don't go around saying ohh i am in depression bvecause my this hot kid in school doesn't like me, or some other stupid thing like that. It takesmuch more then just a little crush.
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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks! (link)
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Ya, u can go to Michael's. They have really really cute stuff for decorating. i recommend it.
Hope my advice helped! : )
P.S. U should put a lot of regular stars and shooting stars and stuff they look cute when u put them in the right places.
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I kinda like this guy but he likes one of my two best friends. Everyone likes my best friend and it kinda makes me feel bad about myself and have no confidence. Anyways im friends with this guy and he's always talking about how he thinks my friends hott and how he wants to go out with her. He kinda thinks she's something she's not but i dont wanna tell him that because she's my friend. Today i realized that i do like him cuz all day in school i felt depressed and lyk i had no energy.I'm afraid to tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure that he doesnt feel the same way about me and if i did things would feel akward afterwords if he doesnt like me. what should i do? (link)
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OH MY GOSH! I've sOoOoOoOOooOo been there before! And i reallyt don't know what to tell ya. The only way i got over him was when he left to high school and i haven't seen him for a while now. I even still miss him! (not like him, miss him) soooo but i do like this other kid now so don't worry bout it ull find another sweet guy to like. But for right now good luck i feel ure pain!
Good Luck Chica! : )
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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE (link)
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Deff. tell ure mom or any adult! if u go there next week something worse then him just grabbing u may happen! SOoOo don't go there next week! If u have ot tell a little lie to the woman then tell her it's for ure safety anywa. don't worry God won't get mad!
Hope my Advice helped : )
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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!! (link)
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Hmmmmm.....well maybe u should get him a nice shirt or something, or a nice outfit.(Depends how much income u have) and then to make it sweet make him a really nice card that says how much u care about him and how great this year has been. I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
Hope my advice helped : )
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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long) (link)
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Umm... welll in m opinion i don't think u should ask this guy out. Causeif he does all the crap then he might start getting u hooked on it. And u're too good for that kinds stuff. Believe me everyne is. And well no one says u can't talk to him but watch out.
Hope my advice helped : )
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Hi my name is Jess i have this really really close guy friend who has been my friend since 1st grade now he has a g/f and i dont like him but for some reason i feel jealous. Could anyone tell me y im jealous? (link)
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well... what i supposse it is is that maybe you do like him but you just haven't realiuzed it yet.
Ask yourself this... Do you think about him REALLY often when your not with him? You want to hang out with him ALL the time? Do you feel like choking his girlfriend or something like that? Well if you answered yes to these questions then you oviously like him, but if you said no to these then that means your probably care about him as a brother ofcourse and just feeling protective. Which if absoulutely fine, but try not to feel jelous cause you never know it could get in the way of you relationship with him.
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do you know any good excericies (aerobic or w/e) for thighs? mine are huge and id like a routine to work on. (link)
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well i don't kdo them personally but my best friend does them ALL the time and what she does is stands on her tippy toes with her legs as straight as she can make them and puts her arms in front of her to help her balance what this does is make your inner thighs more muscley and make them seem smaller. It works her legs look much smaller now!
-hope my advice helped : )
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hello.. im 14, and i've been having a lot of problems lately.. my parents have been fighting a lot for a while now and its mostly about me and my sister.. i always get yelled at for nothing and my dad gets mad so easily.. most of their fights r my fault cuz i always seem to do things to make them mad.. they yell at me for being on here too much but when i go by them they start fighting over something i say or just about anything.. also my sister has won herself the reputation of a whore.. and it bothers me because, arent u supposed to look up to ur sister? how am i supposed to look up to mine if she makes all these bad choices and lies all the time.. on top of all that my best friend found out i said something about her and shes pissed, i'm so stressed out over all this and when i get stressed i cut my wrists (any of u that read this.. dont start, i have sucha bad habit of cutting and it makes u emotionally depressed and it just makes everything worse) i no cutting is wrong but its sucha bad habit now i cant stop.. my head says it makes everything better but inside i because more depressed.. i think about suicide a lot but luckily i'm too chicken right now, i hate my life and sometimes i think that it would be easier to just pay someone to kill me.. my friends help me out and this guy that really likes me and i like is so worried about me and he said next time i cut hes telling my parents so the puts a lot of stress on me too.. its hard to quit such bad habits
i guess my question for u is.. what do i do with myself.. i need ur help.. please (link)
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Well, about the sister thing been there. It's really hard when it's not a good thing to look up to your sister. But try to talk to her about it and tell her that she's giving you a bad example maybe it will work a little ( it sorta did for me.) and don't cut your wrists it's dangerous
(no offense but some people find it weird.) you could cut a major vain and then KABOOM!!! blood everywherer and you get rushed to the hospital. It must be hard to quit, idk never tried it but i bet it is. You have to be strong. Find something to do that will relieve you stress when your stressed. For example i have a passion for dancing and when i'm stressed i dance and it makes it all bettter. So find something of that sort it will help A LOT! Good luck!
-hope my advice helped
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okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help. (link)
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Ok, well i had the same situation and what i did was start hanging out with for example in your case the emily and strted hanging out with brittany and meghyn more because i just didnt't enjoy being with the emily as much. When she would tell me i was ditching her and asked me if we were still best friends i would answer her with the truth. I didn't start hanging out with the other two to be popular or anything it's just that i started changing and had a different taste in friends. There's nothng wrong with changing. Emily will probably have different taste in friends later on too. So just tell her the truth. She might take it a little hard and decide not to hang out with you anymore or she might still be friends with you but not be BEST BEST friends. Which will be sorta better for you since you enjoy chilling with Brittany and Meghynn more.
-hope this advice helped : )
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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OMG...believe me you don't want to be a size 00! Trust me. I used to be a little chubby not huge but chubby so i started losing weight and eating less so now i am down too 00. People noticed and started getting worried and now they won't leave me a lone about it. My mom is not letting me do dance now unless i gained weight, and for me its like the hardest thing to do... gain weight. believe me you don't want to try this. Maybe drop a couple of pounds in a healthy way (that's alright). And anyways guys HATE girls that have no meat on them, believe me i know from experience. And to answer your REAL question idk how much you could lose weight in two weeks it depends on a person but if youi starve yourself for two weeks the only thing your gunna get is people worrying about you to death and not leaving you alone. Maaybe even a visit to the hospital.
-Hope this advice helped : )
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