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hey people !well im nessa . i want to be a conselor when i grow up so i thought this would be a nice way to get sort of a feel of what it's like . my friends and people i recently meet tell me i give good advice . i am honest so if i say something rude to you i dont mean it in a bad way . tell me if i said something wrong . remember this is 100% annonymous (=
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Ok hey, me and my girlfriend just broke up the other day, and i love her, and she loves me.. we have been dating for almost 7 months... and im not ready to just let her go..She says she doesnt feel it any more.. but the thing is she does...
She doesnt want to just give it another try
But we were around each other just way to much..
And i told her all of this would change..
I just dont know what to do..
I need some advice..
I cant just let her go.
I love her..
and she loves me..
Pleas help.
1st I need t0 understand why y0u broke up . tht will clear things alot . I understand tht you may love each other but in order to give you proper advice I need to know why you broke up .
alot of people ask how they can lose weight but i wanna know how i can GAIN weight. im 17 years old and i weigh 98 pounds and i have a small frame. i used weight gain pills and those didnt seem to work. and i would like to gain atleast 10 pounds. any help wold work
well eating lots of protein would be a good start ; go to your local vitamin store and ask them what foods are est for weight gain (but dont buy any protein shakes] they are a waste of money bcuz your body can only consume a certain amount of protein && then it literally pisses it out .
okay from the begining, i went out with this kid for a year and a half, i love him. like i would do ANYTHING for him. for the past 6 months weve been broken up, i cant let go so i keep going back, he cheated on me and continually told me i wasnt good enough. Now hes trying to get back with me and hes also hooking up with a girl i know and she is blind to it. i know, and it bothers me but he claims hes going to ask me out soon. but hes still hooking up with her. i really love him and dont know what to do anymore.
wow i deff. know what you are going thru && its hard !
1st off you may love him but from what you told me he doesnt love you . he is treatin you like some toy . you deserve way better then tht && i know tht ppl tht you love are hard to let go but letting go would be the best thing to do .
&& tht girl tht he is hooking up with tht you said was blind (thts you as well] they say love is blind i guess sometimes love is an illusion .
ok. so my boyfriend and i have ALOT of sexual intercourse and it has always been good. But, the other day when we were in the midlle of it, i couldnt seem to get in the momment. Then i starded thinking of girls and i found myself wishing that it was girl that was under me instead of my boyfriend.
I dont think im a lesbian, im not attracted to women. Im attracted to men and i dont think i wanna do anythign wiht women. Ive done it before and i just think the whole time i want to be with a male. What exacly can you call that or can you explain why these thoughs pop into my head.
ooh i see .
well i dont think tht you are bi or lesbo . i just think tht you needed a new "adventure" in your sexual life && tht was different enough to get you excited . there is nothing wrong with tht [=
Well i've been hanging around this girl who i happen to have very strong feelings for, but i've been subjected 2 being her friend because she has a bf. she claims she loves him and they've been together for a little over a year. I've recently confronted her about how I felt and she stated she felt the same way about me however she obviously "loves" her bf. We flirt like its going out of style and I cant stand the fact that at the end of the day she goes back 2 her bf. She's always complaining about his bad habits and how he doesnt treat her right. HOnestly i it drives me krazy. I try 2 keep my kool around her but all i wanna do is be with her.....and I dont know what to do.
0hkay . Ive been in this situation before and it suxs big time. Sorry to tell you the truth you cant do much here. If this girl "loves" her b/f then let her be cuz she is playin with your heart (you're like chioce number 2 if something happens to her b/f) and Im sure you deserve way better then tht. I know tht it must be painful to be around them but just hang arond them less go places meet new ppl & chill with them for a while. distract yourself. you dont need tht negative energy when you are with them or her. lastly if she really did feeel the same she would be with you and not her current b/f .
hey so my boyfriend and i were in the hot tub together and he was wearing boxers and i was wearing cotton underwear but we were rubbing against each other and playfully teasing each other with me on top of him and having his penis between my legs but through both of our clothing. later we had sec for the first time and idk if he put the condem on correctly (it looked right) and he didnt cum because we didnt do it for very long but i was wondering with the hot tub thing and any chance of pre cum if the condem some how didnt work... if there was any possability of me being pregnant. i think this is near impossible but i cant get a pregnancy test because i dont want to tell anyone i had sex and i dont have a car to get one myself, and my period is very irregular so there is no way i could judge by that anyways.
please help
0OHKAY SO0 i HAVE READ MANY THiNGS ON THiS && SO0 FAR DOCTORS HAVE SAiD THT HAViNG SEX iN THE PO0L , BEACH , H0T TUB , ETC . THERE iS MORE OF A CHANCE THT YOU WiLL GET PREG. iF Y0U WANNA KNOW FOR A FACT iF Y0UR PREG. GET A TEST FR0M A H0SPiTAL WHiCH L0TS OF THEM ARE ANNONYMOUS && FREE JUST GOOGLE iT . TELL SOMEBODY TO TAKE YOU , SOMEONE WHO YOU TRUST . MAYBE EVEN YOUR B/F .
ive been dating this girl for about 3 years now and im truly in love with her but...over the time shegained some weight. At first i didnt mind she was looking good but now its a little scary. I want totell her to lose weight but thats a little rude. So i try in other ways like "you wanna jog with me?" youknow stuff like that, but she never seems to want to. Again i love her but i need something nice to look at when we are making love
WELL WHAT Y0U WERE D0iNG ASKiNG HER iF SHE WANTED T0 J0G WiTH Y0U WAS GREAT ....MAYBE SOMETHiNG iS B0THERiNG HER ? SiT D0WN WiTH HER, L0OK iNT0 HER EYES && ASK HER iF THERE iS ANYTHiNG WRONG OR SOMETHiNG THT'S ON HER MiND .
iF SHE HAS NOTHiNG TO SAY AT LEAST YOU TRiED . ANYHOW MAYBE TELL HER ONE DAY THT SHE HAS LOST A LiL BiT ON HER APPEARANCE . THT iS iF YOU WANT TO CONFRONT HER . i HAVE LEARNED THT THERE ARE 2 RULES TO CONFRONTATi0N WHiCH SOUND DUMB BUT ARE SO0 TRUE .
1. D0 Y0U L0VE THiS PERSON ENOUGH T0 CONFR0NT THEM ?
2. CAN THEY HANDLE THEY CONFRONTATi0N ?
GO0D LUCK !
I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?
LETS SEE HERE .
i KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL FROM EXPERiENCE !
iTS A H0RRiBLE FEELiNG TO THiNK THAT YOU ARE ALONE && WHY LiVE WHEN EVERYBODY YOU L0VE HAS G0NE ? i L0ST MY FATHER (WHiCH i WAS LiKE SUPER CLOSE WiTH) AS WELL AS MY BEST FRiEND LAST YEAR .
FEELiNG SUiCiDAL iS A NORMAL FEELiNG AFTER YOU HAVE LOST A L0VED ONE . GET SOME HELP . GO TO A CONSELOR . BUT iF YOU DONT LiKE THE CONSELOR SWiTCH . TRUST ME iVE G0NE THRU AB0UT 5 CONSELORS TiLL i FOUND THE ONE i GOT THAT UNDERSTO0D ME THE MOST .
i TiRED TO TAKE MY LiFE 3 TiMES . THE LAST TiME i OVER DOSED ONE PiLLS . i TO0K 23 PiLLS OF ALOMOST ANYTHiNG i COULD FiND . iNCLUDiNG PiLLS FOR CANCER WHiCH MY MOTHER TAKES . i WENT TO THE E.R && THE DOCTOR SAiD iF i HADNT GONE WiTHiN THE TiME i WENT MAYBE AN HOUR LATER i WOULD HAVE DiED . THEY PUT ME iN A MENTAL PLACE FOR 7 DAYS && i HAVE NEVER FELT SO0 0UT OF PLACE . i FiNALLY FOUND A CONSELOR THAT UNDERST0OD ME && EVEN THOUGH SOMETiMES SHE WOULD SAY THiNGS THAT PiSSED ME 0FF i WENT HOME && THOUGHT iT OVER && SHE WAS RiGHT . KiLLiNG YOURSELF iSNT THE ANSWER . MY FATHER WAS 42 WHEN HE DiED OF CANCER . BUT HE WAS G0iNG THRU SO MUCH PAiN iM HAPPY HE iS iN HEAVEN WATCHiNG OVER ME . YOUR L0VED ONES WHO HAVE PASSED AWAY WANT YOU TO SEE THERE PASSiNG AWAY AS A OBSTiCALE YOU MUST OVER COME . iT WONT BE EASY BUT THEY ARE THERE TO TALK TO SPiRTUALLY . iF Y0U EVER FEEL LiKE DYiNG AGAiN MSG ME .
ok so i get extremely turned on when i watch gay guys (or just 2 guys) makeout and stuff but im a straight female so i was wondering is this normal?? i know its hott for 2 girls to makeout to guys and when i see guys holding hands i think eww but when they makeout i think its so hott esp when they get into it. is this ok and/or normal? thanks so much! :]
YUP YOU ARE N0RMAL (;
THERE iSNT ANYTHiNG WR0NG WiTH THAT ....i MEAN iF Y0U HAVE A B/F OR HUSBAND HE MAY THiNKS iTS STRANGE BUT THAT iS SiNCE HE LiKES W0MAN HEHE ....
Hey all!! I'm a girl, 16 and I really want to make my hair look more cute, sexy, whatever. All my life I have been the cute girl, but never the one that guys wanted to be with. Mainly because I have had self issues. My teeth are/was bad, but I now just got braces and I feel so much more confident. I have been trying to dress more cute and girly, but I have no idea for my hair. I will be getting it cut next month after prom, until then can you guys give me some cute ideas for my hair now? I will still like to dress "comfy" but I want my hair looking cute still. So is there any way I can dress "bummy"
but still have cute hair? (pictures?)
here is my hair now.
if that one doesn't work, heres another link
http://i101.photobucket.com/albums/m63/Samantha_kay_42/l_9c660cbfeb6c7a56eb2a5cd82752755c.jpg
Ideas for now?
&& what do you think I should get my hair cut like next?(pictures)
I was thinking
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f319/jaygotera/01_linsay_Lohan-maxim.jpg
THANKS!!
1ST 0FF Y0U HAVE VERY PRETTY HAiR ;;
THE LENGTH OF iT iS VERY GO0D FOR YOUR FACE SO0 MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET A TRiM iNSTEAD OF A CUT && ADD SOME HiGHLiGHTS OR SOMETHiNG .
&& ALSO iF YOU HAVE NEVER HAD BANGS THEY ARE A HASSLE SO0 BE 100% SURE YOU CAN HANDLE THEM . TRY && GET SOME OF YOUR HAiR && SWEEP iT ON YOUR FACE TO SEE iF YOU LiKE THE FEEL OF BANGS OR TRY ON A WiG .
WELL HERE iS WHERE i GET MOST OF MY HAiR iDEAS !
http://www.seventeen.com/hair-skin-makeup/hair-ideas/
i know athesists believe in nothing but what else do they believe in?
ATHESiST ARENT JUST ONE TYPE OF GROUP PER SAY ...
i DiD MY RESEARCH ON THEM SiNCE i WAS THiNKiNG OF BECOMiNG ONE .....HERE iS A LiNK TO A ViDEO THAT EXPLAiNS ABOUT THEM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdVucvo-kDU
MY GOOD FRiEND iS AN ATHESiST AND SHE DOESN'T BELiEVE iN AN ELDER BROTHER OTHER WiSE KNOWN AS "GOD." SHE ALSO DOESN'T BELiEVE iN RELiGiON. THOUGH i BET SHE KNOWS MORE ABOUT CHRiSTiANiTY THEN THE AVERAGE CHRiSTiAN. SHE AS WELL AS i DiD OUR RESEARCH ON THiS BEFORE CONVERTiNG. YOU BASiCALLY LiVE YOUR LiFE WiTHOUT THE RULES OF THE BiBLE && WHAT NOT. (BUT BY THE LAWS). i AM AGNOSTiC WHiCH iS SORT OF LiKE AN ATHESiM AS PEOPLE SAY. WE HAVE OUR DOUBTS ABOUT GOD. WE BELiEVE THAT THERE iS A HiGHER POWER BUT WE DONT NESSASARiLY BELiEVE iN GOD 0R JESUS.