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((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap
any suggestions on what i should do?
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I don't know your mother, so I don't know how reasonable she is or isn't. If it's possible to arrange a meeting, that could potentially be a good idea. This way it gives the boy a chance to present himself to her in a mature fashion and show that he has nothing to hide and his intentions are good. Your school should have nothing to do with your love life, so disregard anything coming from your schoolmates.
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hey
on monday i started packing my things for tuesday (for school)so i looked for a sports outfit for gym class. but mine was all swetty from last time and i forgot to wash it. so i looked in my moms closet...i opened a box and hoped she has something good to wear in there but instead i saw a fake penis..and a magazine with naked women and men in there. i was really shocked i mean i know that my parents are having sex sometimes but i never thought they take that so serious. and i feel really stupid in this house and i'm not talking to my mom anymore but it's really dump cause usually i could talk with her about everything but now i just dont trust her , cause she lies to me a lot lately! so what should i do?
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In such cases as these, it's best you don't bring up the subject at all. Do your best to clear those images from your mind. Even though you don't want to think of your parents in terms of them having sex, they are still regular people. They don't stop being that once they have kids. Your mother would probably be extremely embarassed if she found out what you saw, so it's best to never bring it up. Just because your parents don't tell you everything doesn't mean that they are lying to you and that you shouldn't trust them. It's simply that some things are personal and not something they want to talk about with their kids. Perhaps someday you'll be a parent in this situation reversed, so think about it that way. You saw nothing.
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hey, well my boyfreind sorta gets into alot of trouble in school and such. so his parents just kicked him out of his own home. so now hes living with his grandma. but before he left to go to his grandmas his parents took his cell phone. his grandma also doesnt have a computer .. so that means no AIM. so basically now the only time i see him is in school. he metioned to me that his grandma doesnt like him using her phone so theres really no way of communicating. this makes me quite upset and i dont know what to do. please help. cait♥ (link)
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It depends on how old you are and how long it's going to be before he can be independent enough to live on his own. If you really love him and are sure you want to be with him, wait it out and try to figure out ways to see him. It's a tough situation and something you're going to have to work out with him. Good luck; I know relationships where you don't get to see eachother often can be tough, but it's up to you to decide if he's worth it.
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Well, at school i think everyone seems to think of me as a bit quiet, a bit shy ...... etc.
Thing is, i dont want them to think of me that way.
Tonight theres a school disco and i love discos, i dance alot, chat, and have a great time, but im not sure what to wear, and i was wondering what type of hair/makeup/outfit would make me appear fun, exciting and confident.
If you have any ideas, please tell me some makeup looks, hairstyles and clothes that would give that image.
The discos tonight, so i would like some anwers before then, but if its after still tell me because it would be good to know for future.
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You need to start thinking for yourself. Dress how you feel comfortable, and be yourself. You don't need to dress a certain way to 'appear fun, exciting and confident.' If you are those things, they should shine through no matter what you wear. If not, then people would be bound to find out for themselves sooner or later anyhow.
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hey, this is a dumb question but im gonna ask it. why do people tend to eat when they are bored? caitt♥ (link)
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You are not asking for advice. You are asking for general information about human nature. Since this is an advice column, I will answer your question in the form of advice.
If you find yourself bored and wanting to munch something, try munching on something a little healthier. Instead of chips, try wheat thins; they're surprisingly good. You could also try chewing gum or doing more activity in general. Whatever keeps you busy.
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hey, well im 13/f and i recently just got a gift from my aunt. she bought me clothes from LIMITED TOO! EWW! well im not just going to ask her for the receipt so that i can get money back. so will the store let me return the items and get money back? also i just bought shorts from pacsun and decided that i dont like them anymore. i lost teh recipet. will i get money back? cait♥ (link)
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You need a receipt in order to get money back. If you don't have a receipt, it's tough luck. Make it known that next time your aunt gives you something, it should be money. If you want to try returning the clothes anyway, go for it. There's no guarantee that they will take them back and refund you, but I suppose it's worth a shot, especially if the tags are still on the clothes. As for the shorts from Pacsun, be more careful about misplacing receipts. You won't get your money's worth every time, but you'll learn for the future.
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