Member Since: December 18, 2009
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Last Update: June 4, 2010
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i love my ex but she gave me the impression the love betwwen us is over! (link)
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Stuck on your ex can be a real problemo! Its hard to fall out of love, u feel safe when your in love. Holding on will only make it worst to be honest. Take it slow and try to limit her as much as possible. Photos and gift (except if its nice) should be thrown away. Try not to hold on if she isnt for you.
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My Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and since early december he's been at his parents, so we've had even less time to talk than usual. (which isnt much)
Today is my birthday, and tomorrow is our 6 months. I told him I'd be busy today but would love to squeeze in a quick chat sometime during the day. He told me he won't be able to chat today, due to 'guy time' at the house.
So, alright. Then he tells me he can't chat tomorrow either (our 6 month). We don't celebrate every month anniversaries, but I'd like to at least talk to him on our 6th. :/ He can't talk for a little bit tmrw because it's his last day there, so he said he'll be busy packing?
I just feel like I'm the one trying to squeeze freaking 30 minutes out of him just to talk to me, and he won't even talk for that long. I feel like I'm making an effort, and he isn't. I really, have a 99.9% feeling that he doesn't even know/remember tomorrow is our anniversary. I understand he's maybe preoccupied with his parents and being there and such, but i KNOW for a fact he's on xbox at least half the day. And you're telling me you can't come talk to me for not even half an hour?
I haven't brought this up to him, because it's not a HUGE deal, and honestly we've been having more arguments since he's been gone, so I'd like to maintain the peace for now. But, he says we can talk all day monday (when hes back home), which sounds fine, but then when I really think about it..this is all whenever HE wants to chat. ugh, what about me?!
I don't know what I'm asking for, I just need some advice on how to not let this get to me. Please help. (link)
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Im sorry to say but long distance doesnt really work out for most relationships. If he really is on his xbox most of the day it shows how much he cares to hear or to speak to you. And most guys dont care about the anniversary just if they're STILL in a relationship. If your really serious about this relationship you would sit down and have a convo. whether its on the phone or not, but make sure he gets you feelings and what should change to make those bad feelings go away.
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