Member Since: December 19, 2009
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Last Update: December 19, 2009
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okay so theres this boy jacob.. who is honestly my best friend him and i are like always around eachother hanging out.. everyone knows that we are soooo close.. i guess we flirt some.. but its just like being best buds.. well jacob has a really close friend named zach who i totally have the hots for! but the more we all hang out the more and more zach becomes so close to me just like jacob.. and now its the three of us that are known school wide for being like bbf!... but id rather be zachs girlfriend.. than his best friend.. and im just lost on how to make that happen.. so please help! (link)
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First you should find out if Zach is interested in you more than a friend. If he is then you can both start talking about where your relationship is going and if your willing to risk your friendship. It might be awkward for Jacob because since all three of you were super close it's going to look as if he's the third wheel. Talk with him about it and remind him that he still is your bestfriend, but if you want your relationship to work with Zach the flirting has to stop! I hope everything works out[:
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so there is this boy i really like in the year above me in school he knows i like him, i really wont to tell him exactley how i feel but i dont know how to say it because i was thinking of saying it on msn so the next ime i seehim in school he might tell all his friends an they would just laugh at me thats what im scared off. what shall a say to him next time he cmes online?? (link)
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Don't tell him you like him. Give him hints by flirting and complimenting him. If he flirts back he's most likely interested in you. If he is ask him if he wants to hang out with you and friends sometime. If you ask him to hang out alone it might make him think your desperate. You can both hangout with your friends and get to know each other. Once you absolutely sure he likes you and you feel the same you can start asking him on dates.
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always be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are then he's not worth your time.
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this boy in the year aove me in school an i really really like him so much that im kinda obsessed with him and i cant stop thinking about him. (he has a girlfriend by the way ) when ever i see him around school i always ignor him and block him out and i really dont know why, but my friend always says to me '' he just looked at you then'' so it made me think does he like me ? or is he thinking that i dont like him anymore, i really dont know. i really wont to get to know him abit better and have the guts to go up to him an say hi.
can someone help me please (: thanks
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Take it from someone with experience. I had a boyfriend and he left me for someone else, I still haven't moved on. If something does happen between this boy and you, imagine what pain his girlfriend will go through. If you truly love him approach him and talk to him, maybe he's not the guy you thought you liked. If he is don't tell him you like him, wait till he breaks up with her on his own. Don't be the reason she's hurting.
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