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My boyfriend and I were talking about sex the other day. We both want to wait until we have a stronger relationship (we've only been dating a few weeks) and I'm glad we both agreed on that. He said he was interested in seeing my vagina though. He said that there wasn't anything bad about me showing him myself down there but I'm not sure if that's ok?
He told me he'd show me his penis if I wanted to see it and I kind of do want to see it. Obviously we haven't even touched each other sexually yet but I'm kind of thinking that we'll end up doing something if we get naked lol But I don't want to have sex yet...but I do want to make him happy and I am kind of curious about what his penis looks like (but what if it makes me horny or something and we end up having sex?!).
So, I sort-of want to show him but I'm scared. What do you all think? Should I show him my vagina or should I tell him that it's too early in the relationship and I'm too uncomfortable with it? :\ I really want to make the right move here...please help... (link)
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if i was you, it is way to early in the relationship to show anything. i mean give it some time. maybe a few months before you do anything. but i mean your not me. so if you wanna show it to him, then go ahead. if you get horny i say let him pleasure you, but its most definitely up to you to control your hormones. see when i showed mine to my ex, he pleasured me but i wasnt ready to have sex so i controlled my hormones and kept it moving. dont send any pictures cus guys like to show their friends shyt. (sorry for cursing].. if your not comfortable then dont do it. you should take things a step at a time. he should understand your position and if he really feeling you, he should be patient about it.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he really, really loves me a lot. We lost our virginities together, we went to his prom last year together, and I was with him when his mom and dad divorced. I understand that he loves me a whole lot. The problem is that I don't love him and I haven't for awhile now.
I use to love him just like he loved me. As time passes I notice I don't have much feelings toward him. It's not that I wouldn't care if he died or something but I don't have any emotional pull toward him. I don't have that bond like we use to share. I don't feel butterflies when I see him or when we kiss. To be honest, I don't even want to talk to him or see him so often. I would be happy and satisfied if we only talked once every two weeks and "went out" once a month tops.
I stopped having sex with him two months ago but I didn't tell him it was because I felt guilty about doing it with him and not being in love. I told him that we really couldn't have a kid right now and I had had this realization of it. He bought it but I feel bad for lying to him about that sort of thing.
How do I break up with him? I know it's time to get it over with and tell him that we aren't meant to be together and that our relationship is not working out. He is crazy about me though. I don't want to hurt his feelings. His parents love me and I'm sure they're going to be upset about this too. How do you break-up with somebody who loves you when you clearly don't love them back? (link)
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i def been in this type situation, sorta similar. i mean if he loves you then he needs to realize that some things has changed. tell him that your feelings are a lil different then before. i know its gonna be hard for you to tell him but you got to do what you got to do sometimes. if it was meant to be then ya would be back together, he just gonna have to deal with that fact that you dont wanna continue the relationship. its better to end it now then to keep lying bout it and hiding your feelings cus thats just gonna hurt him more in the end. he should rather see you happy then to see your suffering in the inside. just be friends with him, thats the least you can do. yall obvioulsy been through alot so i dont see why not. give each other space. i hope i helped answering the question.
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My boyfriend ended up cumming in me yesterday and I was really upset with him because we agreed that he wouldn't do that and risk me getting pregnant. He said he couldn't feel when he was about to cum though. I read on here something about a precum and guys not being able to feel that coming out but...really?
He didn't just precum in me either so I don't know if he's lying or what is going on. I tried to wash it all out of me but there was a lot and he was IN me so I'm kind of scared about getting pregnant now.
ANYWAY...I thought maybe he has some sort of problem down there and his sensations or nerves are messed up. But maybe he's a normal guy in this respect? What do you think? Can guys feel when they're about to cum? (link)
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okay idk if your boyfriend has problems w. his insides but boys most definitely know when they bout to cum. they can either pull out knowing how to control it or he can nut inside of you cus he doesnt know how to control it. if that was your 1st time doing it raw and his 1st time doing it raw, it wasnt much of a smart move cus he didnt know he couldnt control it. i been sorta in the same situation but my dude pulled out just in time. it feels way too good for a dude to pull out thats why sometimes accidents happen but if you dont wanna get the girl pregnant then they should know when to pull out. hope this answered your question.
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