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probly the wrong category sorry.
i have asked question before dating back along time ago but im not getting better.
I had sex with "a friend" back in january and it was my first time so i gave him my virginity. He swore to me that we would have a friendship but i he did not want a relationship with me. Well the friendship never happened. Not happened between us he never texted me, talked to me, called me etc. I thought i was pregnant for 3 months but i wasn't. After that he blocked me out of his life. He tells me im obessesed with him because i was just a booty call theres no way i could love him.
He ruined my life he lied to me he claims he told me i was just a booty call. He told me the next day. i REGRET EVERYTHING i have done with him from the first time we kissed to having sex with him. He has told me he hates me and he wants me leave him alone. I never talk to him ever... i havent talked to him in a good 2 months or so.
i have tried everything to get over this guy for a month straight i have cried myself to sleep. I have started drinking cause it makes me feel better and i cry when im drunk cause i miss him. I saw him the other night and it pissed me off so bad. He hates me, he should have seen me there and turned around and left.
I don't have many friends only one really good friend that i tell everything to but the guy and her are good friends also and she doesnt know what to tell me.
i know i don't really have a good question but do you guys have any ideas on what i can do to get over this guy, stop crying over him, possibly not regret it Because i don't want to regret something that big.
anything would probly help me
thank you
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There's a saying that I try to live by and it really helps me out. Never have regrets. You will make bad decisions in your lifetime, you will make mistakes... but there is something good to be said about the negative experiences: you can take them and learn & grow from them and use them as the feul to make you stronger. That guy was a jerk. He used you plain & simple, and you're not the only girl to get duped this way. Don't regret it, use it. When you get sad, get dolled up and take a look in the mirror. Remind yourself that 1. you are beautiful. 2. He's a scumbag who does not deserve you, and Karma will definitely come to bitehim in the a$$. When you think you miss him remind yourself of all the horrible things he has said and done. And remember that Karma is real. It might take a while to happen, but he will get what's coming to him and you will savor every moment of it. It's what I call the "lazy revenge". You don't have to do a thing, he'll be miserable, and you can grab a soda, a bag of popcorn and a camera and enjoy the show.
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I just got out of a 2 year relationship where i was cheated on the whole entire time, so i really do not trust anyone and feel like i can ever be in love again or be in a relationship. It's been 2 months after we have broken up and i am sleeping with two different guys that i like. Sometimes it doesnt bother me because I assume the worst and that their doing the same thing, but sometimes I feel bad because they really like me and both want to be in a relationship with me, but im the worst person to be in a relationship right now, because my ex has turned me into a horrible person. I could have never seen me doing this to someone before, but it's like i dont give a shit anymore. I feel like theres no point being in a relationship because you can like more than one person. The relationship may seem perfect at first and thats all you wanna do is be around that person, but everything gets old after a while and people change. Nothing lasts forever. And that is the reason why I dont believe in love, because you can always find someone else that tempts you and makes you curious about them and then you become unfaithful. Everyone cheats and everyone lies. So right now I feel like im playing a game and part of me feels bad about doing that to those 2 guys, but the other part of me thinks...hey...im single and were not together so it doesnt matter if im sleeping with someone else. I want to know other people's opinions on this....has anyone else been in the same situation? If so...what do u think is the best thing I should do? Because I never was a trashy whore and Im still not. I just really like both these guys and I cant choose between them, and Im not even sure I want to be committed.... (link)
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Honey, I was with my ex for SIX years, and he cheated on me pretty much the whole time we were together. Not everyone cheats and not everyone lies. I did like once to my ex about not smoking cigarettes, but that was the only thing I ever lied to him about, and in 6 years I never cheated on him once. It's normal to feel the way you do, it's called being bitter, and you have every right to feel that after the way you were treated. But you don't have to feel guilty about playing the field. You're not ready for a new relationship, so don't jump into one with either of these guys until you are. Don't let them pressure you just because they really like you. I would suggest not actually sleeping with more than one person at the same time, but that's me. If you are using protection and being tested than I don't see that as a big deal. I played the field while I was single. But I am seeing someone new now and couldn't be happier.
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I'm a 19 year old female who is getting married soon and I am meeting my new soon to be inlaws now and things aren't going so great. My problem is that we were all outside smoking and I had my fiance's and mine cigarettes and he came over and told me to give him a cigarette. I told him that I would if he would ask me, so he said give me a fuckin cigareete. I kept saying that if he said please and asked me I would so he got mad and walked away. His aunt is over protected and he's a mommas boy. She got mad at me and I feel like I did something wrong when I think I didn't do anything. I don't know how to handle this cause I know he will not stand up to her. I want us to handle our disagreements in private. Don't know what to do please help me....!!!! (link)
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First of all, it is not wrong of you to expect your fiance to ask you politely for something instead of demanding it from you. In my opinion, in this case, I think you may have overreacted, unless it was said in a demeaning tone of voice. You said you wanted to keep your disputes private, right? You should have given him the cigarette, and later, in private, explained to him that you did not appreciate him barking orders at you in front of his family. Correcting him in front of his family is only going to make him defensive, and in turn make his family wonder what he's getting himself into.
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