Member Since: April 30, 2016
Answers: 3
Last Update: June 23, 2016
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Well i am a very confused soul. I am at my mid 20s and still don't know what i really want from society. I am a chubby girl with polycystic ovarian syndrome and so i grow unwanted facial hair like men. I suffer from multi mental complexes. Everyday life is like a hell to me. When i go public people stop and ask what is wrong with me and give wierd look. Previously it used to feel so awkward and i used to avoid sunlight and go out only in the evening. But then i thought its me who i am, what god makes me and not the society. My femininity does not depend upon my look. So i cope with the problem created by my own mind. But then a guy proposed me over social media unknown of the fact of my hirsutism. I have not met him face to face yet. But today or tomorow i am sure that i am gonna meet him. He praise my beauty and personality and my feminine traits. But when he will see me face to face i think it will cause him a real shock. I am scared of my masculine flaws and have started to hate myself. I don't even have enough money to go under cosmetic procedures like laser treatment to get rid of it. What should be my approach now? (link)
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I once felt this way along my lifetime. I am insecure but trust me when I say that you should do anything to change yourself unless it is you. As for that guy you have met, well, I do not think that your looks will matter to him if he truly loves you. If he changes his mind about the proposal for that reason go up to him and give him a good slap or whatever to knock some sense into his brain. One last thing, I suggest you spend your money on something more important than cosmetic surgery. hope this helps.
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I'm 15, almost 16, female in 10th grade. I want to be in a relationship really bad, but I keep seeming to have problems with this. I had 1 boyfriend in the past but broke up with him in a week, I was scared to commit. Every time I get close to a guy (not physically) I suddenly freak out and avoid them. I always seem to find flaws in every guy as if it helps convince me why I shouldn't date them. I want to be in a relationship but I'm scared to commit and I think I'm scared to fall in love. How do I stop that? (link)
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Look, it is totally normal for you to feel this way. Once you get hurt, you feel like everybody is going to hurt you just like he did. My advice to you is to you is mainly to give them a chance because they might just surprise you. Everyone's different and you might get your heart a little broken before you find what your looking for.
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Mothers day is coming up, and as a 16 year old teenager with a severely emotionally abusive mother, i am not looking forward to it. At all. Especially since things are very high tension right now in the house. I know she's going to demand me to be there and be a "good kid" but i'm incapable of being in the same room as her without experiencing extreme depression, anxiety, and resentment. How do i survive mothers day this year? (link)
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Dear 16 year old,
I know it can be tough to face a situation such as yours but you have to understand something. Even though your mom is emotionally abusive, she only does that because she knows you are a child of greatness. Feeling depression, anxiety and etc. are normal but just do your best to be happy. Also, if you get a chance talk to your mom about it.
- LizMay48
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