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ok so the other night me and one of my guy friends were cuddling and then he kissed me. we made out that night but then when i woke in the morning i had a killer headache. i got up and my stomach was aching and i felt a little sick. but i couldnt get sick anytime i tryed. i had a fever and felt like i was going to pass out. my throat kills and those lymphno (i think thats how you spell it) things are swollen. my mom thinks i might have mono but she doesnt want to take me to the doctors. we kissed on a friday and today is monday and i still feel like this. when he called me he said he didnt feel well ethier. could i have mono? or am i just sick. and if i do how long will it last and if i dont get treated will that be bad? please answer i rate high. (link)
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So sorry to hear you haven't been feeling well. Whilst you do have all the symptoms, I think mono is unlikely as it usually delvelops 4-7 weeks after you've been exposed to the virus, and as you both have the symptoms at the same time it's probably just flu. But if you are worried, insist that your mum brings you to the doctor who can confirm what it is (mono can be diagnosed with a simple blood test). In the meantime get plenty of rest, drink lots of fluids and let your family spoil you! Hope you're feeling better soon!
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This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp! (link)
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Don't worry!! There is no particular age for a girl to get her period Some girls start theresas young as 8 or as old as 17. Each person goes at their own pace so don't think you're weird if you start your periods a little later than your friends because your NOT! You should try talking to your mother an older sister/girl friend, school nurse or doctor if you are really concerned. And one last thing - once you have it you'll probably be crying for it to go away again...BELIEVE ME!! lol
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Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks (link)
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awah you're so sweet! I don't think you can go far wrong with a teddy bear - it's cute and girly and shows you care, but not too expensive. Make sure you get her a card too but I wouldn't worry you sound lovely and I'm sure she'll just be thrilled to have you back in town!
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I dont know why but I have zits on my butt. What can I do to get rid of them. (link)
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Awh poor you!! This might sound wierd put try putting toothpaste on the zits - this will dry them out and hopefully make them disapear! Good Luck
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your boyfriend goes away for 2 1/2 months and cheats on you with 3 other people ... what would you do if you where 5 hours away from each other that long and you found out? (link)
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Hi there - so sorry to hear your boyfriend has been cheating on you. Cheating is a selfish act and a betrayel of trust and in a relationship these factors are crucial. At the end of the day this has to be YOUR choice but I can offer my opinion.
I would think long and hard before taking back an unfaithful boyfriend - he has acted selfishly and has been disrespectful to you. Life is too short and you are worth far more. You deserve a relationship where you are the only woman in the world and you shoudnt settle for less.
Good Luck!!
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my daughter(19) has a abusive boyfriend (16).
He is at this point only verbally abusive, but i fear it could turn physical . Tonight they went out with her brother (who is twice the boyfriends size) and her cousin and friends. My son came home very angry telling me how this boy was rude, mean , and hateful to his sister. My daughter begged her brother not to say or do anything. His comment(my sons) to me and my husband was "If the boy behaved this way in front or her 6' 5" 230 lb brother, how did he treat her when they were alone? " This is a great point and scarey thought. My husband is ready to step in . What should we do? I discussed this with her and she admitted he is verbally abusive. I am afraid it will turn into physical abuse. Remember she is 19. She is of age to do what she wants, but has never exercised (or even spoke) of that right. She has always been a good easy child. How can we get her away from this boy? Should we demand she not see him. I have a parental gut feeling he could hurt her. We are also friends of his parents . They are very nice people who would never think their son did any wrong.
My husband wants to talk to them and
end it. What should we do? HELP!!!!!
the relationship is 9 months old and I am positive they are not sexually active. If it turns into a sexual relationship, it could REALLY get bad, and since they are both virgins he will never want to let her go. We Must Act Now! (link)
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Hi there firstly I really feel for you at what must be a really difficult time for you. You have described a controlling and angry man. Please do not feel guilty about protecting your daughter - if her botfriend does hurt her you will feel devestated and guilty for not having tried to stop the relationship. Talk to her and spend some quality time with her - tell her that you are concerned about her relationship. Maybe you could buy her a book about abusive relationships? Check your local library or bookshop. Have you ever seen the film Sleeping with the enemy with Julia Roberts? You could rent it and watch it together. Encourage her to talk to you and other relatives and friend, and always let her know that she is loved. Trust your intution about this boyfriend. Good Luck - I sincerly hope everything works out ok for you and your family.
Laurza
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okay, i like this guy, and whenever i post new pictures, and i tell him, hes like "when you are done, show me" then hes like "i like the third one bottom row" and stuff like that. i was onat midnight the other night and he came back home from canada. and this is the convo without our sn's
him: hey
me: hey, the power just came on.
him: really? all of my clocks are messed up because i got back from canada, i probally missed it.
me: yeah maybe
him: im so hyper, in canada its 9 but here at home its 12!
me: l o l thats cool
him: yeah
him: got to go, TV's calling me
me: l o l okay
me: ttul x Oo bye
was he like flirting with me or something? i want to ask him out, but i d k what to say.
polease help me and tell me if the convo ment something to him... and next itme we talk (maybe later today) ill posta new one... x Oo PEACE (link)
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Sorry pet - it doesn't sound like he was flirting to me, but maybe it's because he doesn't know that you like him, or he could be just shy. Let him know that you are attracted to him - flirt with him, compliment him etc and if he still hasn't asked youout - then you should just ask him! What's the worst that could happen? Good Luck!!
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hey
can someone please tell me what some signs of a misscarage are? (link)
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Hi there - Bleeding is an obvious sign, when miscarrying it's usually a lot of heavy blood, which may have some tissue that looks like blood clots, however most pregnant women who bleed are ok - just because you're bleeding does not mean you are deinately losing a baby. Another sign is painful cramps in your tummy - like period pains but only slighly worse. To be sure you will need to speak to your doctor and may need medical treatment as well. Hope everything goes ok!
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