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I was wondering if you have to put in a urine/drug sample for a regular job at a pizza place or somthing like that. to see if you're on drugs. thanks!
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Most places will tell you on the application that they drug test. If they do drug test, yes, it will be a urine sample.


Hi, I was wondering: I work at a pizza place, exactly how you tell your boss that you want to quit, that you've found another job, or just simply don't want to work. Should I make up an exceuse?
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Be professional. Don't lie. Simply give him your two week notice, and if he asks why say that a better opportunity has come up for you, and you appreciate the opportunity he has given to you that allowed you to work there for as long as you did.

If you do it in a respectable way, and your new job falls through - you can always go back there.


i want to go to this party but i'm not sure if my dad will let me. How do i ask if i can go? answer ASAP 2 hrs til the party! will make people favorite columist And give fives!!! (link)
Say, "Hey dad, there is this get together tonight. Can I go?"


my best friend and i like the same guy. she knew i liked him and still is going to the dance with him. he would have gone with me but my friend told him mean stuff about me. i tell him she is lying but he doesn't believe me. i want to dance with him but i don't know how to ask. how should i? and what should i do?

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First of all, your friend is a bitch and not a friend at all if she'll choose a guy over your friendship. Second of all, that guy is worth much if he'll believe anything he hears. He doesn't have a lot of integrity. Personally, I'd dump both of them and move on. Let them have each other. They both sound like losers and losers should stick together.


Is 13 two young to date?
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No. 13 is not too young to date, but remember this - when you're 21 and you look back at your life, you're not going to remember or even care about who you dated when you were thirteen. Have fun, enjoy your childhood. Don't worry about boys too much. Don't make them your life because when they leave [and they will at such an age] you'll have lost everything. Save actual relationships when the both of you are more mature to handle it.


ok so today my bf fingered me a little too hard and i thought that maybe he could have cut me but i didnt think anything about it till later on when i got my period and noticed that the blood was darker than usual...i dont if somehting wrong or not

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He probably didn't cut you. Most likely, he rubbed the skin in your genitals raw. Periods aren't always the exact same. I can't imagine that anything could be too wrong. As long as your blood isn't brown, black or anything like that - you should be fine. (:


I have long hair and im tired of the same old straight look so ive been trying to go for curly. Ive tried so many products. The shampoo doesnt work or anything ive tried. And curlers take for ever because my hairs so long. And ive been wanting a perm but i heard it damages your hair. Do you have any suggestions or good tips on how to get curly hair? thanks :) (link)
Perms do damage your hair, but so does everything else. Straightening, drying - everything will damage your hair in some way or other. I have naturally straight hair, and it's very long too. I curl it very easily with my hair straightener, but it's not ringlets.. just loose, pretty curls.

This is how I do it:

1- I take a small section of hair, [about an inch thick] and brush all the strays away. I put my flat iron on it starting at the top as I normally would, and I flip the section of hair [by hand] over the side of the flat iron. I think twist the flat iron so the end of the hair that is stick out of flat iron is facing away from my face.

2- I then bring my flat iron down my hair normally. Your hair should come out easily, you shouldn't have to tug much. It should come out a perfect little curl. Spray with hair spray, and continue.

There are MANY videos on YouTube on how to do this. It's so easy. (:


my question is when you're taking the driving test is it awkard? like are you supposed to talk? or will the instructor talk to you or what?
are you allowed to turn on the radio?
ect.
thanks a lot!
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I wouldn't be too chatty, but don't be mute either. Stay focused on the road at all times, and if he asks you a question, answer obviously. Tell him good morning/afternoon, whatever. Other than that, wait until you're spoken to.

Don't turn on the radio unless he tells you to.


Hello,
I want to start going to a tanning salon and I have a few questions: First, do have to make an appointment or can you just walk in? And second, do they sell the tanning goggles there? Thanks in advance for your help.:) (link)
1 - I HATE tanning salons, they're HORRIBLE for your skin and body and you end up looking orange if you go to often, but it's your choice and I'll respect that. (:

2 - Most tanning places do accept walkins, but if you're in a high-populated area, scheduling an appointment is better, that way you won't spend a lot of your time sitting there and waiting.

3 - They'll supply everything you need including the goggles, lotions, etc.


Hey! :] I got a question, well lately I've been feeling really weak and short of breath. I havn't even been exercising or anything that is activity sort like that, but everytime i get up after a long time of sitting or laying down I feel so weak and I start to get dizzy. I mean just reaching for something makes me gasp for air and my heart starts to beat extremely fast. I don't think it's my weight or anything because I'm 5'2, 15 years old, and 98 ibs, and my doctor at my last physical (2 years ago) said I was fine but my heart pump is irregular. My mom is anemic and she's been telling me it's where she doesn't have enough Iron. I don't know if I'm anemic or not, but do you think I am? Or could I have something else? I don't see the doctor for another year for my next physical, but I'm actually kind of worried. I get so tired and I'm turning really pale in the face. If you could help I would greatly appreciate it! ♥ (link)
All I can really say is to see a doctor if you're that concerned. Just go to your general practitioner and tell him/her would you're telling us. That is definitely not normal. If you can't go to the doctor right away, you can eat iron rich foods to see if that will alleviate your problems.

I found this list of iron rich foods for you on the web:

Foods that are a good source of iron include:

* liver
* lean red meats, including beef, pork, lamb
* seafood, such as oysters, clams, tuna, salmon, and shrimp, etc.
* beans, including kidney, lima, navy, black, pinto, soy beans, and lentils
* iron fortified whole grains, including cereals, breads, rice, and pasta
* greens, including collard greens, kale, mustard greens, spinach, and turnip greens
* tofu
* vegetables, including broccoli, swiss chard, asparagus, parsley, watercress, brussel sprouts
* chicken and turkey
* blackstrap molasses
* nuts
* egg yolks
* dried fruits, such as raisins, prunes, dates and apricots



SERIOUSLY; Don't overdue it though. Too much iron in your system can be potentially dangerous, especially if that's not the problem.


hey, i was wondering what are some good clothes to wear for senior pictures? like what colors? (link)
It really depends on your skin tone and hair color. Usually, I think girls [if you're a girl?] that wear super bright colors like hot pink, lime green and electric orange with a lot of 'matchy matcy' accessories look really tacky. I wouldn't do too earthy tones either like brown, black or gray because you don't want to look dowdy. I'd say pretty yellows paired with white tanks and jeans, nice sandals [not flip-flops] or cute boots. If you like to wear dresses, then a pretty sundress in a pastel color would be very pretty, sophisticated and flattering. Don't overdue it on the accessories, and go light on the makeup.

If you're a gentleman, then earthy tones are for you. Black, brown, blue, or gray polo with hip jeans and clean sneakers would be lovely. (:



my question is, im going on a diet, exercising and everything and i was wondering about those low fat frozen meals. I tried the healthy choice and those are so disgusting. no flavor or anything =P do you know any good healthy meal brands??! Thanks! (link)
I recently tried SmartOnes. They have these Spanish inspired dishes. One is a taco like thing that has chicken, corn and a spicy pepper sauce. They're VERY good. Try those! (:




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