Q: i'm a girl and i'm 14, and i admit, i have a boyfriend. we've been going out for 9 months and he's usually NOT like this!
i'm keeping this brief, cuz i hate going into detail about it.
we were at a park alone recently, and he was sitting at the base of a slide and i was on his lap. i was kinda uncomfortable, but we were just talking and i didn't see any harm. but then he started....rubbing my thigh and getting closer to my butt...
i really didn't like it so i got up and pretended to look at something.
he asked me to sit next to him again. i didn't want to, really, but i thought maybe he just wanted to tell me something.
well he started touching me like that again. i was about to say something, but i was SO scared!
i hate myself for not doing anything!! you have no idea...
just then his phone alarm went off and we had to go. as we were standing up, i noticed a bulge in his pants and...it REALLY looked like he had a boner...
it was SO AKWARRRDD!!! he was trying to cover it up with his shirt and pretend nothing happened...
for two weeks i was totally hung up about it.
i hate anything sexual, my eye kept twitching, i was zoning out more than usual, i kept thinking about it and flinching when people touched me.
he's apologized, but now he doesn't seem affected.
he's usually such a good kid, though.
oh btw he's 15, just information i forgot to add.
am i overreacting? he's my first boyfriend, so i don't know how significant a boner is...
help pleeez.....
thanks...
