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okay, so whenever i bend my leg or something, it makes this cracking sound. Like, when i sit in a "criss cross apple sauce" position, or i sit on my knees it cracks. And..when i just bend my knee a lot, it cracks. What's wrong with it? What can i do to help my knee/leg? (link)
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HI,
I have a co-worker at my office that has a similar problem. Whenver he walks u know its him becaus of the way he walks his knees and legs always cracks. He told me that it was because he lacks in Calcium. Meaning he doesn't have enough dairy products ie: milk, yogurt, and cheese. Try having more milk if nothing else and maybe that just do the trick.
Hope it all works out
Cheers
-ss
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okay ill start out by saying that im an 8th grade girl.anyway,i have abf of 7 months who i like very much.but i also like someone else.he`s one of my best friends cousin.he`s soooooo cute and funny an d i think he likes me back.but i have one problem---he`s in 5th grade.but i like him so much!
and his parents hate me because his dad saw me kiss my boyfriend and hes really strict so he would never let him go out with me.but this kid is soo nice & funny and if you saw him u would think he was in 8th grade.i dont know what to do? should you just forget about him and continue being friends with him? (link)
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Hi,
I know how you must be feeling. You are torn apart. But don't let his dad get in the way of your feelings. He doesn't control you and so what if he sees you kissing your bf. This is your life and if you want to be with him then go for it and prove to his dad that you are worthy enough to be with him, but on the other hand if you think he is much better than your current bf then you need to let him down gentlty. If all else fails, come to me and i'll help you out.
Take Care & Hang in there
-ss
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is it bad to go out with your ex boyfriends friend? if your still good friends with your ex? thanks (link)
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I think there shouldn't be any problem. I have been in a situation similar to that. I went out with my ex Bf's cousin. He wasn't all that great but I don't regret it.. nor do I feel bad about it. My ex didn't think anything of it and we are still really good friends.. If you like someone then go for it, and if your ex is cool with it, or is in good terms with you then, by all means. Have fun. Don't fret about the little stuff. Take it one day at at a time.. Hope things work out for you.
Cheers
-ss
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Dear Ruth,
Hi I got a problem and I was wondering if you could give me some advice.
I'm in a relationship for 2 years now with a married guy. I never asked him to do anything and to be honest I always had the hope that he will leave his wife one day. Well 6 weeks ago the army send him back to the states. Suddenly 2 weeks before he left he told his wife all about me and that he don’t want to be with her no more. So he ended up to go to Colorado to his next duty station by him self.
Well after he got the states we talked on the phone and talked every day on the Computer. He was different he rubbed old stuff in my face like 6 month ago I talked to people on the internet. The reason I did that was cause I really needed the attention what he couldn’t gave me because he still was living with his family in the same house and also made me believe for a while that he will never leave her. So I thought the only way to get over it is to keep my self busy or find someone who helps me get over it. I don’t know why I did that because I love him a lot and I would do anything to make this work me and him. Well like I said he rubbed in my face all the time and said he don’t need a girl who talked to other guys cause if I would love him I would never done that. I don’t know why he brought this up cause we talked about it and I told him why I did it and everything was alright again. I mean I even told him everything.
Anyways 2 weeks ago I went to the states to visit him and it shocked me that was not the guy I met and knew for 2 years. He was distance sometimes really quiet and it seamed he was thinking a lot. I was planning to stay 3 weeks there after 2 weeks he wanted me to go back home cause he said he needed time to think. I did understood it cause I know he never been by himself after he left her. There still lived at the same house for 2 weeks and she was yelling at him all the time. So I thought he needs to be by himself to start working at the stuff what happened the last few weeks.
I got back to Germany did not hear a week from him. Yesterday we talked on the phone again. He said he don’t care about anyone no more, he got no feelings for no one and he just want to be left alone. I was like ok if you telling me you don’t care about me no more I guess I wont care no more neither and hanged up. I was really said and hurt that he said this after all we went threw. I also was mad that I went to the states for a jack ass like that. Today I called him again I know it was wrong but I couldn’t believe what he told me the day before. Well the talked normal until he started the internet thing again. We pushed each other that
far that I told him everything I felt. I said that he is a liar for telling me 2 years that he loves me and never want to lose me. That I cant believe he told me before he left that he loves me and then 4 weeks later he don’t have any feelings for me anymore. You can’t stop loving someone in a short time like that. He said that I should start to understand that we will never be like we used to be and there is NO us in the further I can be his friend and if I cant respect that then we should stop talking and break it off all the way. I should get the prcture out of my heat that me and Him are married and have a life together. I denied that I had a picture like he thinks made up. He wants to be single the rest of his life and he doesn’t need that shit no more. He DID love that’s how he ended it.
I don’t know what to think I'm really confused we really went threw a lot of problems in those 2 years and he also used to be my best friend all that is gone. I can’t believe he just can turn his feelings off like that. I don’t believe him that he wants me to find an other Boyfriend I just cant. Maybe I’m the dumb one here and just can’t take it that he dumped me, but I can’t understand why he is acting like this. He always was honest to me and never said he will leave his wife until he actually did and I think that surprised him too. He told me that he never thought he was able to tell her about me. He told me about his problems with her and that he doesn’t love her no more but ever made me any hopes. So I know he did not just played with me for 2 years. I don’t know what to do this is not the guy I used to know.
Please help and tell me what to too. Right now I feel like I’m falling and falling and cant never get up again. I’m so hurt that I can’t even walk or think about anything else. I don know what to do no more. Please help me.
If there is anything else you want to know let me know. Sorry about my English but I’m German and I’m really up sad and cant thing straight.
Thanks Jasmin
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Hi Jasmin,
I think that your so called bf is scared.. that is why he is pushing you away. I beleive he is scared that due to his bad break up with his ex wife, it ended badly.. and he didn't want the same thing to happend twice, when he is with you. He has negative thoughts in him right now. He just needs time to realize your worth and how much you mean to him.. He will get back to his old self once again.. You just have to be patient. Just needs to gain a little perspective.
If you need anymore help. I'm here for you
-SS
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my boyfriend knows i hate that he smokes i REFUSE to smoke weed and he knows that and respects that. the prob is is that hell smoke infront of me. like we only get to see eachother wednesdays, fridays n sat n sun (we go to diff skools) and tonite he was walking me to the place ig et picked up at from his house n he was fuckin smoking...i was like watever n started walking ahead of him i was like watever dont do it around me i dont lyke it and he was like plz tell me why u dont lyke it i was like i just dont..and then he kept sayin lik oh r u mad watch i wont inhale it all and i was like i dont care n he was like if u dont care then kiss me rite now i was like no and he sed oh so u do care n then i didnt give him a kiss goodbye or nothing and he was like ur mad at me huh? and he knows im mad what suhld i do? i dont want to dump him weve been going out for 13 months and i love him alot i just HATE that he smokes....it reallie bothers me...and he knows that... (link)
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He should realize that it bothers you and should find ways to make you happy.. He should take your advice and listen to you, if he cares alot about you. You two have been together for a long time now.. if he can't understand your concerns or doesnt do nething to fix it.. then he is not the one for you.. you need someone who will respects and understands you. I hope my advice helped. If u need more help.. I'm always a message away.
Whatever that other F***** Jerk said in the last response is a fuckin idiot who doesnt know how to respect anyone. Don't take his advice personally. I bet he is an immature kid.
-ss
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Ok, there's 2 people you'll have to know for this there's:
Steph: she's a sweet 9 year old girl, she lived next door to me, and she moved 4 months ago
Adam: He is Steph's big step brother, he's 14. he came every other weekend to Stephs house.
well, I had this biiig crush on Adam,a nd I was soo sad when they left. it all hit me as i watched the moving van drive off, that I loved him, I started crying remembering all the great memories. we've played spin the bottle he kissed me, that was my first kiss. and my last. it was just a kiss on the cheek, but it really ment a lot to me. well, a few weeks after Steph moved, I IMed Adam, and told him I Liked him. we hadn't talken ever since. or at least till yesterday, he e-mailed me. he told me that he really loved me back, and that he was going to tell me in real life, apperently he came over last Saturday, but I was at a biig choir performance. I couldn't belive it, i'm about ready to go nuts!!!I don't know what to do, he lives 3 hours away, I dont' have his phone number or anything. sombobdy please help me, I'll give out 5's!!! (link)
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HI,
I think since u both love eachother soo much you should try to find ways for you both to meet eachother more often.. regardless if he lives 3 hours away... I think you should ask him for his phone number so u two can keep in touch and arrange a day where u two can meet up and be alone together no interuptions and go from there.
I hope that helps.
-ss
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