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I know people get sad, its going to happen, but for at least a month, ive been feeling really sad. I thought about cutting myself, and did it once but not too deep, not enough to kill me, but deep enough. And people at school have just been so...mean and guys have been rude and arrogant, and my parents are fighting and may be getting a divorce and my sister verbally abuses me,i've been doing worse in school and idk, im just DONE. How do i get out of this sadness? I just cant have fun or be happy anymore, and what can i do? I need help and dont want to ask my parents for a therapist, and i try to talk to my friends, but gossip makes it too hard in my school, so i just need some advice on how to get happy again! Thanks (link)
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Hi,
the same exact thing is happening to me. a couple times i wanted to hang myself, and i had a knife to my throat. but you just have to tell yourself. "it will all be well someday" and every time you say that, it makes you feel better. or at least t made me.
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So, my boyfriend and I have been through some really rough times and he screwed up a lot. I really do love him and for awhile lately he doesnt believe that I truly do love him. Maybe I hold a deep down grudge and he gets that vibe but bottom line is I really do care about him. Question is--how can I show him I love him (we are not teenagers) without writing it in a card or letter or getting him a gift. It doesn't seem like enough when I just say it. thank you very much. (link)
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When you dont think that when you say I Love You, it dosnt come out of no where. it comes out of the heart. so your boyfriend knows he screwed up and you should tell him you really mean it, from the heart.
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I've been with my boyfriend 3 years in June. We recently even won the "Cutest Couple" category in Senior Superlatives. A while back, maybe January, we had quite a large fight. It started when we were planning our senior trip to the beach, and I asked if he minded that we slept together in a bed (because we don't have sex, but we do everything else). He said he'd rather not, which was fine, so I simply asked why. He said it didn't "feel right" and that he wasn't ready to share a bed with my overnight, even though we take naps on our couches sometimes. So I said that, and it eventually lead to "I've had a confusing week, I don't want to hurt you", even "I'm not in love with you anymore". We both cried, almost broke up, etc. But I told him to give me another chance, and for a week, we were weird. But after that, things kept getting back to normal, and now, we're happier than we've ever been.
Now, here's the thing.. a few couples that have been dating around the same amount of years we have have been breaking up because they've gotten "bored", and so I tell him often that I don't want that to happen. His answer most of the time is "Yeah, a lot of people don't". Yeah, what the heck? I would think his answer would be "Me either, it won't happen to us" or something along those lines. When I tell him this, he says that should be "implied." Many of his answers to other questions are long these lines, and he tells me they are "implied" too. And another thing- I feel like I always have to say "i love you" first so he will say it back.
I need reassurance a lot, because of the fight we had. I love him more than anything, and he feels the same. Just the way he says those things makes me feel like he doesn't want to say what I think he should at this point in our relationship. Don't get me wrong- we are very much in love and we even talk about getting married every now and then. I just need to be reassured every now and then. I'm sorry if this is confusing. I just need advice- am I worrying way too much, or should these things be something to worry about? (link)
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Hello Anonymous,
the same exact thing happend tome. except i`m i guy. when i told her that would never happen to us she just said "yea, whatever" so gave her alot of time. so, in a while we got closer together. now were still together after a long time.
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Well me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago and its been 8 months. And we were soo happy and we never fought once. I love him soo much and he told me he loves me and he'll never forget about me and im an amazing girl and any guys would be lucky to have me and so on.so we hung out for a couple of hours and it was the hardest thing ever. but we didnt break up because we cheated, or fought too much, or anything like that. we still love eachother very much, and have these strong feelings for eachother. its just we went to fast. and im thinking, like is it too late to fix. we can start from the start and go slow.He tells me he tries so hard to keep me off his mind, and when we see eachother and look in eachother's eyes, we get emotional. i just need to know, is it over? does he just want space, and then he'll realise what he did? do i move on? i'm so hurt here, i love him soo much, and he told me he loves me and he always will. And he wants s to be friends and still talk when we can?. but Will he realise his mistake? (link)
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Well Anonymous,
It is never to late to fix things. maybe your boyfriend just needs more time to think. You and your boyfriend should date other people, and if that dosn't work, then ask him if he wants to get back together. Give him his time and space. If you have any Q's come back and ask.
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