it seems to be that either if i wear a bra or don't wear a bra that my boobs always look...well...pointy! it looks really weird and i don't think they are supposed to look like that...ummm...can anyone tell me why this would be?
uh thanks =D
14/f
well im guessing that you may be needing cups. If you are just wearing sports/training bras, ask your mom if you can go bra shopping (embarrissing, but you probably need too) and get an A cup. A cups arent that much bigger that sports/training bras, but they will bake you look less pointy. YOu may need another size, but most people start with A cups. hope this helps!
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i need to know, how can you become a pretty person outside? i dont think im pretty or anything,i want to be a girl some guy would like. but how? tips? gerneral stuff? im a kinda preppy person,i dont dress bad,i wear makeup,but i dont know how to be pretty. i have brown hair,big brown eyes,long eyelashes,dark eyebrows,kinda light skin,kinda circles under my eyes,oval face shape,4"9 13...please help i want to look nice and aprochable,and pretty.
Hey! I'd like to give you a NICE answer, unlike like some people *ahem*...
First off, you want make-up to make you pretty, but clothes can do alot too. If you have a good body, wear fitted clothes that show it off. Make sure the colors you wear match your skin tone and features (but you have brown eyes so its alot easier(i have kinda olive green).
People who have brown eyes sometimes find them boring, but honestly i think they are gorgeous, especially with the rest of your features. So to highlight them and make them look bigger, trace a thin layer of eyeliner on the top lid. Adding a tiny end that curves up can look very pretty, but very ugly if it is too obvious. For eyeshadow try and use browns and golds, because they can be very sublte and pretty. especially at your age you'dlook rediculous with bright obvious eyeshadow.
Wear a shear but shiny or slightly tinted lip gloss to add beauty to your lips.
I would also recommend side bangs. I have them, and I also have an oval face and brown hair, and everyone says they look really good. But make sure you have a good hairdresser, they can turn out really bad. Also, when I got them I thought they looked horrible, but i put them on the other side and they looked like side bangs should, so keep that in mind.
Being a model is often more about staying thin and takingcare of yhourself than starting out "pretty". youd be surprised what some models are like with out make-up. Make sure you dont over expose yourself to sun without sunscreen to get a tan, because the sun will damage your skin and later in life you will haveto get expensive treaments to fix the wrinkles it creates. I also am NOT encouraging you to stop eating or anything, im just saying what I know.
I hope I helped. Also, dont despair cuz you never know, you might blossom into an incredible beauty in highschool.
If you want you can send me a pic and i will give an honest opinion, but i totally understand if you aren't comfortable with sharing you pic over the internet.
~*Bridgitte*~
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I'm really into acting, and I just got an audition for TV and I told her that. Since then, she's been extra nice and invited me to go shopping and stuff. How do I know if she's using me to become popular or something like that? Also she REALLY wants to be a model and she's not doing anything about it and I'm telling her how hard it is to get into and that she needs to get involved, and i tell her how, but all she says is "but i REALLY want to!" How can I describe how hard it is to get into?
Most likely, your freind is, indeed, being nice to you because of the audition. You can do two different things, depending on how close you two are.
Not that close: Finding a new friend might be good if you aren't that great of friends. Also, you could try confronting her, although i understand that you might be afraid of that.
Close: Chances are, if you are very close, this fase will wear off. She will come to terms with the fact that you may become a movie star, and she won't be so obsessed with being your friend. You might want to take a little break from her for a while, to let her calm down. Don't be mean or anything, just don't do too much with her. However, if you talk to other people in front of her or ignore her, she may try harder.
Unfortunately, you will probably have a lot of this sort of problem if you get into the biz. You may have to sacrifice your social life for your career.
Just one question for you: how do you audition??! Sorry if I'm bugging you.
Hope I helped! Good luck on your audition,what is it for?? And good luck with the friend issue!
~*Bridgitte*~
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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin.
Bulimia, just like leukimia or the flu is a type of disease. Does God hate people who get sick? If you really think that God does, may God needs to think about that some more. The fact that you became bulimic was a cruel twist of fate, just the same as if you were diagnosed with some other disease.
God will definately like it if you get better though! Talk to your parents or a doctor, and think about getting a counselar. Bulimia is very serious, and can be FATAL.
God bless you, and get well soon!
~*Bridgitte*~
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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?
f/13
Your doctor was doing his job. Unfortunately, he was not thinking of what it would be like to be in your position, and i guess it came out harshly. It was totally legal, although you could talk to him about it, or someone else in the hospital staff.
Never lose hope. Numbers don't tell story, and they certainly dont end them. Just keep faith. Pray even if you aren't religious. And dont let your disease rule your life. have fun. But just be careful, eat well and stay healthy (i mean other than the leukimia) and who knows, in 8 months you might be in remission.
you might want to look into a support group:
http://www.thewellnesscommunity.org//virtual_wc/support.asp
or
http://www.cancerindex.org/ccw/guide2sg.htm
You might also want to think about getting a psychologist to help you through the mental part of this illness.
One more thing: MAKE SURE YOU LOOK AT ALL THE OPTIONS. Who knows, there might be some little-known treatment in some rural citythat will save you.
If you need to talk just respond to this and ill give you my email (so im not giving it out to everyone).
God bless you, good luck and much love.
Hope i helped.
~*Bridgitte*~
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well im 16 years old...and for over a year i have been having problems with my breats...very bad sharp pains..not like those that happen when they grow and everything..but really painfully sharp pains...and i have a couple big lumps in my breasts...and they keep gettin bigger and bigger not real fast but slowly..im scared to talk to my mom about it..and im scared to make an appointment to find out..wat do i do!!
TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR!!!! Too many people die because disease get to advanced before they are treated.
Please do it!
Tell me what happens, and good luck. If you need any advice just ask.
GOOD LUCK!!!
~*Bridgitte*~
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Ok, in school, I don't have many friends, because I'm shy. I don't talk to anyone. I'm just scared to. What should I do? I barely talk to teachers, either. ):
-Way Too Shy.
The only way to get friends is to stop being shy. And the only way to do that is to speak up.
Whenever you get a chance, speak up. Say hito people in the hall. This will be hard at first, but the more you do it, the easier it will get. I've been through this too, and if you start talking to people you can get more comfortable around them.
Another suggestion: is talking on the computer easier? I have a couple VERY shy friends who totally open up when they get on the computer. If so, try asking people for their email addresses or screen names, and get to know them online.
And one more thing: maybe you could get a penpal? They might be alot easier to talk to, because you wont see them. And talking to them, even just in letters might help you become less shy.
Good luck! Hope this helps.
~*Bridgitte*~
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First off dont judge me or say anything rude because i hate talking about this to (anyone). And this may be a little long.
I have this disease Alopecia. Its where you lose your hair. Im not losing it right now but i have a few bald spots. And no its not any form of cancer and its not life threatning so i cannot die from it.
But every day i wear my hair up in a messy bun. Its getting kind of old really. Once in a while ill wear my hair down and put a little bit up. But once i get to school or work i put it up because i either get really hot. Or i just dont feel comforatable wearing it down because i hate when people question me about it.
The other day decided i want to have side bangs. I kind of had some but the bangs werent all the same leangth so i cut them the same length and it doesnt look right. i tried pinning them back but they wont stay.
Is there any cute hair styles i can wear with either my hair up or half down and half up? How can i make these side bangs look right?
---Also im 17 and i have had Alopecia for 9 years. So dont tell me to go to doctor and make sure its really Alopecia. ive have taken meds for it and nothing works.
thank you
also if you need a picture ill send you one just leave your Screenname in the answer.
Hey! Im kinda nervous about this...its my first answer. But I do have some ideas for hairstyle that might help.
For the side bangs: Have you tried blow drying them? My friend got side bangs and they looked awful and she hated them, but then she started bkow drying them, and they look great!
You could try pulling your ahirback into a half ponytail (start by gathering your hair like a regualar pony, but then drop the bottom half) and you could also do a half ponytail with either a messy bun in back or a neat one.
I dont know where you bald spots are, and if this would cover them up, but you could do the hairsyle where you take a section of hair from the very front in the middle (1 or two inches wide and not very thick) brush it up war (to smooth it) and pin it back.
Finally, you could try doing a ponytail instead of a bun, or mixing it up by doing a neater bun or adding chopsticks.
Hope this helps, and good luck!
~*Bridgitte*~
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