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alright so i'm a freshmen in high school now and i'm starting to like this kid whose a senior. i can tell that he likes me a little too but i don't know what to do. is it bad to date 3 years of age difference in high school? i know it doesn't matter later in life but i don't know about now. i know my parents would never approve but i like this kid a lot. what do i do?
For starters i have a couple of friends that are started dateing seniors when they were freshman like you. Some of them are with the same person (who is now in collage). I personally dont think it is a big deal for a guy as a senior to date a freshman girl. What you have to do is find out if he is a dirt bag. You need to find out if he will just do what he wants and leave you(like do stuff and leave) or if he really wants a relationship. Ask some of his girlfriends or ex's. I no that sounds weird to ask, but its for your own good becase we all no that it sucks to get hurt. You should probobly become friends first then move on from there. If you find out thought that he is a dirt bag to girls like he has cheated or done stuff with a gilr then just left her then he is no good. You will just get hurt in the end, and thats not a good thing. I hope i helped you.
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so i have this friend, we'll call her sally. well sally and i have been friends since 6th grade, we are now in 11th grade. in 8th grade we got into a huge fight that lasted like 6 months. we haven't really gotten into any huge fights since then, but lately she has been treating me like shit. she acts like im not even a friend to her. although i do nothing wrong to her. EVER. im never rude to her. im ALWAYS there for her. shes never there for me when i need someone the most. she gets mad at her "best friend" well call her suzie, well they've been friends for a while but suzie always ditches her and is rude. and she gets mad, complains to me about it. she has no idea how she acts to me but everytime i try to talk to her about it she gets mad at me and turns it all around on me. she is not mad at me, wont talk to me. yet we were fine this morning. i have NO idea what to do. please help me
Well to start things off i ca put myself in the same situation. I fight with my best friends to for nothing. Wat you have to do is sit down with her and mayb 1 other mutual friend or a guidence counsler or someone else. What you have to do it ask her how she feels about you. Then you need to tell how how u feel and how she is acting toward you, and how she is hurting you and how upset ur getting. I no that seems hard and it is but thats how you will know what is going on. I did that with my 2 best friends and now we have never been closer. If she is a real friend then she will tell you whats going on and she will also listen to what you have to say. It might take like a couple of talks to get everything solved. But its worth it to find out whats going on. Thank you for listening to my advice
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