I keep breaking up with this guy name Josh on and off for years.I been friends with this girl Kathy on and off for years.I have not seen Josh in a year.I have not called Josh in a month.I have not been friends with Kathy in years.I been dealing with this ongoing situations for a long time.I need to stop dealing with it and move on from my life.
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I'm (almost) 21 f, he's 23. Long story as short as I can make it, we dated officially for about nine months in '05-'06. Our relationship kinda sucked, neither of us were ourselves (I was a scared creature in a new environment and he was medicated for depression), and he was emotionally abusive. I ended it after he basically pushed me to it. Somehow, we wound up in kind of an on-and-off friends with benefits relationship, and I was okay because I just wanted his attention. I tried to move on, dated someone else, and ran into my ex after 2 months. All the feelings were still there, and I pretty much ran back into his arms, but not into a relationship. (He's a recently admitted commitmentphobe (after I pointed it out, he said "...you're right.")) We had some problems. His family hates me for no reason, and he cared more about what they thought than about me. In light of that, I said I never wanted to see him again.
He contacted me a few hours later in tears. After talking for awhile, I agreed to be pen pals, so we weren't completely out of contact. We stayed out of touch for a week, until he called me, begging for another chance. I almost said no, but after he promised me his family would never get in the way of our friendship again, I decided to give him sort of a trial period. If he messed up even once in any way reminiscent of our past, he was gone for good. I didn't tell him about this plan. It's been a month and things are...really different.
He's taken me out, he's promising dinner, drinks, and some sort of impressive present for my birthday, which is coming up in three weeks, he makes a point to see me every day, even if it's just for an hour at the coffee shop between classes.
We're moving closer, and he's really turning back into my best friend. We're both much happier now that he's decided he needs me in his life. He's much more open, we're together all the time, and physically closer, too. We hug and cuddle and stuff again, and a few nights ago, he said "I love you." I responded in kind, but now I feel ultimately confused. I don't know where this leaves us now. Are we headed back towards a relationship? Do I even want to go that route?
I told him we couldn't be as close as we were, that too much had happened between us for me to be able to open up to him again, but at the same time I can feel myself doing it. I know I should have my guard up more than ever, but for some reason I don't, and I don't know what's going on. I just need an outside eye to analyze the situation, if someone can.
Thanks in advance. =) (link)
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I think you should stop talking to him all together.Talk to a counselor or a doctor about this guy.Forget about him.He is a control guy and that is a bad guy for you to be with.Trust me on this I know what I am talking about.
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Ok, I'm a girl and I masturbate everyday, but sometimes I masturbate soo much that bleed. but today I bleed and this white clear stuff came long with my blood and I'm afraid I damaged something (link)
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Try putting some lube on your hand before you finger yourself.
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so i bought the sex and the city dvd. but i didn't realize that it wasn't the extended version. it was the original version. whats the difference between the two? (link)
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The movie was based on the tv show.In the sex and the city movie it took place years after the tv show ended and they continue the show on the movie part.They continue the show telling us what happen to the cast after the tv show ended.
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