ok. its me the problem with the mom medling in her business! i'm always scared that everywhere i go, people will take pictures of me and put them on their myspace and she will see them all! and it happends to me all the time! how can i get over this? i don't do anything bad, i just get nervous. i don't know! i can't just ask people not to put pictures and i can't just ask them not to comment because they'll think i'm a nerd. i already made other excuses. i can't just keep doing this. please please please help me and please don't just say "tell you're mother to stop" because it doesn't work like that. ty very much
You know you really can't do anything about it. Unless you talk to your mom about it. Its not gonna go away unless you do that. You can't keep living like that. It will become a paranoia(sp) like being paranoid..spelling sorry. Don't worry about what your friends think. If they think your a nerd then who cares. Your still you. Well but yeah. Talk to her is all I'm gonna say to you.
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I have been going out with this guy a few states away, he calls and we instant message. the fact is, i really do like him, just not how he wants me to. he is 2 years younger, and is uncumfortable with talking about love and stuff,i still want the freind ship, and i still like him sort of, but i want more, wht should i do!?!
Yeah he may just still be in that kind of fase(sp) you know. The younger they are the more there not as comfortable talking about that kind of stuff. You can either talk to him about it. Maybe hearing it from you can help me mature or something. All I can say is talk about it. If he's still not making the effort. I think it would be better you guys stayed friends. Then maybe if he matures in the course of time then maybe you can give it another shot. If you still like him of course. Well I hope I gave you something to think about.
Liz
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Hey there,
I like this kid. Hes on my swim team, only 2 years older than me, my friends older brother, and his best friend has already hooked up with me. We're good friends. We get along all right and we flirt a bit. he gives me rides to practice and we go out to eat afterwards all the time with friends and his sister. I want to make some sort of move but I dont know what. What kind of move would you want a girl who you're interested in to pull on you?
Hey there,
Well for me usually I just like give little hints. Here and there that he can understand. Usually the girls don't make the first move, but in some cases the girl does have to. Yeah I would just ask him " What if.." questions. You know. Well I know I wasn't that big of a help but yeah hope I at least gave you something to think about.
Liz
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