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I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
Well anyway, back on topic, her father went to jail and everyone testified against him. So he'll be in there for a LONG time. My problem is, my girlfriend is still in shock over this. We tried to have sex a few weeks later but she was so scared and still thinks about the rape. I'm not frustrated about the no-sex part AT ALL believe me. But what I'm wondering is if there's anything I can do for her to make her get over this. I want her to be happy again. I love her with all my heart and hate seeing her like this.
Any girls who have been raped, you could probably help me most on this. How did you get over it? Thanks SO much! (link)
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First off I'm very sorry to hear this happened. Second, every on heals at a different pace. She may be over it in a few years, but she also may never move on,The best thing you can do for her right now is give her her space- physically, but support her emotionally. Dont ask her any questions about it, that's what a consular is for. But if she comes to you about it, listen to what she says, and be kind. The most important part of this though is the support. Let her know you are there to talk. Tell her you love her all the time. Hope that this helped, Grace
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Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f (link)
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Report this RIGHT NOW. That is considered sexual assault. You do NOT deserve to be treated that way, and it is wrong on a number of for him to have done that. I know it may feel like it would be betrayal to turn him in, but is it really worth the pain of being loyal to someone who Assaulted YOU? Depending on the state you live in that may also be considered rape. No matter what, report it.
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