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Q: I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do

I really can not answer this question. I'm not sure how old you are how ever it does show great responsibility that you are wanting to ask their permission

Q: Hey. I've been sort of depressed lately because I'm in high school and I'm about 6 or 7 months younger than a lot of my friends. I'm really jealous of them because I volunteer at two hospitals. I'm a greeter at one, and I do filing at the other. I volunteer Mondays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays which totals 16 hours. A lot of my friends turned 15 halfway through this past school year (I'm a rising sophomore) and I'm just turning 15 on August 3rd. One of my friends in particular really really bugs me, because sometimes we hang out and she tells me how all of her coworkers and higher ups at work just love her, and literally tell her that she's a ray of sunshine. She also tells me about her perfect grades. I feel like asking her, "Why not just move to Stepford?" It just bugs me that some of my friends have jobs (this friend tells me about how other mutual friends have jobs too) while I volunteer doing slave jobs for no pay. It also bugs me that she's so perfect. I can't find any flaws but bragging without knowing about it. If flaws were little dots from markers, I would be completely covered in ink and she would have one little dot that probably nobody would notice because she would probably NOT WEAR MAKEUP AND STILL HAVE IT NOT SHOW AND BE FLAWLESS. Last year I volunteered at a Bible camp, and I got the little kids -_- who I really don't care for because idk they just annoy me sometimes.

I hate to say your not being a very good friend. Your friends are excited and you should be excited for them. You are volunteering that's awesome at least your not sitting on your butt playing video games. Who do you help at work. You help families sick people. Your not a doctor but greeting people are just as important especially in a hospital you are there showing them some one cares saying hello to someone who maybe never gets a hello from anyone. Don't grownup so fast slow down take a step back and look at your life. Focus on your family support your friends. I hope things get a little better for you

Q: this is odd but i need someone who knows a little something about when it comes to hiring plumbers.

I rent a two bed, two bath place and we continually have plumbing issues. we have the standard low flush/low consumption toilets which clog ALL THE TIME, even to the point to where even a standard plunger cannot unclog it. Well ive had a leaking tub faucet for the past month and called my management company to fix the leaking THAT, but also asked to have the plumber check out one of my toilets as well (just a quick look to make sure theres nothing legitimately wrong with that toilet ) my question is, it is normal or fair for the property management to charge ME for the plumber to come out to fix the faucet?

last time i called to have management send a plumber to unclog my toilet, (cause my son flushed the toilet paper spinner down it) i got charge 400 bucks! just for that! and he did the same thing i just asked this guy to do. i soooo dont wanna get charged 400 bucks because i also asked him to check out my toilet while he was here fixing the leaky faucet. = / i cant afford that.

can they do that?? i know that theres certain things that THEY have to cover, but idk if they can try to pin the toilet thing on me, there was nothing wrong with the toilet, he said he would let them know that. The toilet just has a small throat and clogs easier then the better toilets.

You would have to read threw the renting contract you signed to see who is responsible. Normally no that is their job to pay for that. I don't from someone who doesn't do repairs because I'm renting because I don't want to own my home I don't want to have to worry about the fridge being broke etc I call my land lord tell him what's wrong he fixes it you could possibly take the management to civil court to pay you back for what you had to pay I would send the bill with my rent money to the management.

Q: I can't play any school sports until I'm thirteen,I can't get an email account until I'm thirteen,I can barely to anything on this website until I'm thirteen,a majority of the clubs I want to do I'm too young for, it seems like everything I'm too young for! I don't get why. I know how to be safe online, I'm very smart and athletic and talented so I doubt see why there is SO many clubs and after school activities I want to do, and I have great advice to give, but I have to wait for 3 years. I think this is stupid! I know that crazy people are online, but I understand not to fully trust them, and not to meet them in real life. Some say that 10 year olds are too immature. Not always true! Some kids are very intelligent, mature and adult like. She adults can be very dumb immature and childish. So why can't I participate in do many things. Someone asked me a question I can give a perfect answer to, but I have to wait soooooooooooo long. I'm sick of adults thinking that we are all young idiots. I'm tired of being held back because of my age. I'm tired of people saying “you're too young" I want to be treated like I'm old. A teenager. Not a 2 year old.

I hope you got your rant out. One reason is because your brain isnt fully developed. Two because adults don't want you to grow up to fast. There are city activities and sports you can participate in. A lot have scholarships if you can not afford them. I have two children my 7 year old son has played baseball 4 years going on his 5th this year, basketball, two years of soccer and more if he would like to. My daughter is 4 and does gymnastics and loves every moment of it. Look up programs in our community. Volunteer and a soup kitchen. Just because you think you are grown up enough to do something does not mean you are because when you get a little older you were going to wish you were younger and I am not some Grandma giving you advice. 23 I wasnted to grow up quick and I did and it isnt easy take life slow enjoy the things you can do and when you getto age to do the things you want to do it will make them that much more meaningful.Good Luck

Q: I have been broken up with 2 times now by the some Boy. Why does it hurt so much?

Break ups always hurt. Even when you are the one doing them. It makes you stronger and takes you a step closer into meeting the one. Surround yourself with good friends.

Q: So yeah, facebook won't let me log into my account. They are trying to make me enter a mobile number to get a verification code.... The problem is I don't have a mobile phone nor do I want to buy one so facebook can sell the number to third party sources.... How can I get around the securiy check? Thanks for the help, in advance. BTW I need this info ASAP so I can delete the account.

It doesnt sell your number. Its just security to make sure no one is hacking your account under your security settings you can have it so you dont have to do this. if you cant get to your security setting your may have to delete and create another one.

Q: Some parts of the following are kinda embarrasing so bare with me. So I am a 13 year old girl. I go through these weird two phases that are SO different! One of them is masterbation. I don't normally do it but if you averaged it, probably twice a month. The other phase is wearing diapers and watching baby shows. Nobody knows about either of these phases. And these phases come randomly. Right now I am going through both of them and it is really wierd!!! I have masterbated, made homemade diapers, and watched Baby Lonney Tunes today. Ugh, the one phaes that bothers me the most is the masterbating one. Because it is possibly a sin and I am Christian. There is nothing wrong with watching Baby Looney Tunes....

Your best best is to see a counselor if you are worried about the situation.

Q: So I am going on vacation this year to San Fran or San Diego... havent decided yet. Either way... there will be 4 of us but we cant afford a hotel for 4 of us. So I wanna know how easy or complicated it is to get a 2 person room and sneak 2 more people in. We were thinking we could get a blow up mattress and sneak it out every day... no big deal if we have to do that... but the maid might notice extra luggage... idk. Have any of you done this? Is it pretty easy to get away with?

NO negative comments...

I have done it before. We stayed at a cheap hotel to begin with and we were just having a party in it when i was younger. we had a bunch of people in the room. but we snuck them all in.

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.