Hey i do the normal riding sex & oral sex & things what are some new ways to have sex.. i need something more to attract my partners... thanks so much
P.S. I rate high!!!
There's hundreds of different ways to have sex. Go to google and look up sex positions and it'll give you lots of results. Good Luck
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hey.
i am 13/f & i have this cousin that is 10 & she asked me if i have had sex before & i said no & she said that she could "show me" & gave me the choices of having sex with her, her giving me lessons, giving me oral or fingerfucking me! & i went with it just so she would leave me alone & now i am scared of what she might do & i dont know how to react to this & am so creeped out... What should i do? plz help!!! i rate high!!!!
thanks
Um...tell her EW! SHE'S YOUR COUSIN!! Tell her if you want advice on how to have sex you'll ask an expert..and tell her mother! Little girls shouldn't be knowing ANY of that..I don't know where this little girl's been or what she's been watching but I think that her parents need to be aware...
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Becca
-im 16 and im ready to hav sex... i think about having sex a lot like how it will happen and who it will be with and stuff but i just really wanna lose my virginity. i was gonna hav sex with one of my good friends but he got a girlfriend a while bak but he wants me to giv him head. i don't like his girlfriend at all and i would luv for him to cheat on her with me just to show her... i know that might sound completely awesome but she really is aweful... should i just hav sex with him or should i just wait...? i dunno wat to do but i don't wanna hav sex with a guy thats a virgin and he was only had sex one time and he doesnt even call that sex cause the girl started crying and screaming and he had to stop after like a minute... wat should i do???
Thanx
sexually fustrated girl
As much fun as it would be for him to cheat on her with you...what goes around comes around and when you do something with dishonest intentions it always comes back to bite you in the ass. Experts say that it's better to have sex with someone who's more experienced that way at least one of you knows what you're doing. This girl may be aweful..but whatever aweful she has done will definitely be returned to her somehow. If you want to have sex with him you can, I'm not going to try to stop you I'm just telling you what I think is right. Just be safe and use protection no matter WHAT guy you have sex with. I remember that feeling..just wanting to lose it so bad just because. And I did..and I picked the totally wrong guy and ended up getting hurt. You have to pick someone that's close to you because virginity for a girl is a very special thing. Just be careful whatever you choose to do..and I wish you luck
Becca*
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I have some questions about mostly everyhting that has to do with pleasuring your partner. I'm a virgin and unexperienced. Okay here goes...
Once you get on birth control or take the pill or whatever, is it possible for your parents to find out eventually?
Can your gyno tell if you're on the pill or birth control?
What are whipped cream & strawberries used for; like where do you place them and stuff?
How can you get rid of the odor down there? Are guys actually enjoying the smell of it? And if possible, is there anything you can eat/drink to make the smell/taste better?
What are the best type of condomns? Most effective?
Thanks in advance.
1. Yes..they can find out if you leave your pill dispenser laying around...but if you don't tell them and ask your doctor or planned parenthood not to..then they won't..
2. Um..I'm not sure but even if they could..there's a thing called doctor/patient priveledge..anything you don't want your parents to know..the doctors or gyno's are legally NOT allowed to tell them
3. Um..you can eat them? Whipped cream you can lick it off of anywhere you want to..there's no set way to do it but for losing your virginity..I wouldn't suggest kinky sex
4. That IS the feminine odor and guys know that..and actually yeah they obviously enjoy smelling it or 99% of them wouldn't lick it. Wash daily..and it'll smell normal..everyone has their own taste..it won't change. If you taste good you taste good, if you don't..well then just don't let a guy eat you
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Hey, I totally am totally spazing out!! There is a raper in the district and I really want to meet him so that I can tell him that what he did to me last summer was wrong!! I said no and he just kept on pushing!!!I just wanted attention from a man but I REALLY REALLY want to sue him once he had done it! Does anyone know what's wrong with me?? Am I possesed??
I rate SUPER high!!
Love... Conner
P.S. Im a girl!! and I wanna meet Oprah so that I can tell her what that mad man did to me. Am I crazy??
You're not crazy and it's normal for people to react that way and want to get back at someone who hurt you like that. He knows what he's doing is wrong..he doesn't care and telling him that will only give him the benefit of knowing that he won. Let him know that he DIDN'T take over your life and thoughts..that you are still you and that you're strong enough to deal with it. You're not possessed..but I think you need counceling because molestation and rape does a lot of damage..good luck
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whats tantric sex ? when you finally get an orgasm it'd be nice to keep it , how would u ride it out for like an hr. or so, so u have multiple orgasms?
wow...well, it has been said that an orgasm can last for up to an hour but its not real likely to happen. Here's what I found for tantric sex :
What Is Tantra?
Tantra is the total surrender, or letting go of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy may flow through you like a river without any effort. It is a letting go to a universal oneness...to love. When fear is removed, Tantra remains. The word "Tantra" has many definitions, and perhaps its real meaning has been lost to antiquity.
Some say it comes from the Sanskrit or Hindi word for fabric or tapestry, meaning that it is woven into one's life. Others say that it comes from two Sanskrit words, Tanoti and Trayati Tanoti means to expand consciousness, and Trayati means to liberate consciousness. One might then say that Tantra expands and liberates consciousness.
The highest possible synthesis between love and meditation, Tantra is also the connection between the third dimension and other planes of existence beyond mere materiality. While not a religious philosophy, Tantra embraces a deep spiritual understanding of life, and an ancient art of living in harmony with existence. It is treating sexual energy as a friend, rather than something to be suppressed or talked about in low tones. It does not deny sex, or consider sex a hindrance to enlightenment or Heavenly Grace. To the contrary, Tantra is the only spiritual path which says that sex is sacred and not a sin. Tantrikas are God-loving rather than God-fearing.
There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama which means sex/love together, undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th Century Tantric scripture. Kama is also the name for the Hindu Goddess of love... and love is what Tantra encourages -- total love, including the mind, the spirit, and the body.
Let It All Go!
Tantra doesn't tell you to control your sexual urges to reach God, but rather the opposite. It supports the development of this vital energy to achieve union with Divinity. The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence... a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from. It is the ultimate yoga which is Sanskrit for union. In Tantra, sexual energy is used as ignition for firing the Kundalini energy, the body's biological energy system, merging it/you with universal energy.
Unlike Taoism (which actually stemmed from ancient Tantra), that says bring your energy inside, Tantra says let it go...let it all go. There is no reason to hang on to anything if eternity and infinity exist.
In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe...the totality of All. We dance with the electromagnetic force field of our partner, and the dance leads to God/Cosmic Oneness.
The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that Tantra declares "the kingdom of God is within your heart." In Sanskrit, it is called Punde So Brahmande, "the physical body is the temple of God, and the body is the replica or representation of the entire Cosmos."
Tantra says we can celebrate life when the idea of separation, or otherness, disappears from the body and mind, allowing people to meet on all levels of consciousness -- physical, vital, mental, intellectual, and spiritual. Sex becomes sacred and divine when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than from your mind. When that energy comes from a space deep within you -- your essential self -- it connects you to God/Goddess/All That Is... moving you into the realm of spirit!
I hope that helped you out.
Good luck,
Becca
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y is it a greater chance 4 a girl to get an orgasm from bein fingered than from havin sex?
I'm not real sure. It's fingering and oral..but I'm not sure why. Go to www.talksexwithsue.com The answer will prolly be on there.
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I just want to start out saying i am 14 years old. okay now to my question. My best friend and her boyfriend broke up in August. She is totally obsessive over the poor guy. Me and him just started to talk again.. and we kind of fooled around a little bit.He is still a virgin, but im not and we have been talking about having sex. I know if i tell my best friend we have been fooling around and we have a thing for each other she will kill us both. She said * if anyone is with him im killing them both* and i believe her because her mom speeded up on him one day when he walked by her car. I wanna have sex with him. We just have this connection. I think its going to be awkward because of him being a virgin and all.. I am afraid of my friend finding out what we have done in the past.. please help and give me advice :)
Well, if you feel that its a real danger to tell your friend that you're fooling around with her ex boyfriend then I wouldn't tell her. But, I don't think she'd really kill you. If you want to tell her, then just be like look, I'm sorry it didn't work out between you and him, but we really like eachother. Something like that. I would never go out with any of my friend's exs just for that reason. Maybe you should stop seeing him?
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... What do i do when my boyfriend gives me permission to have sex with one of his friends while he is in the same house as us when i didnt even mention ANYTHING about it?
If your boyfriend says something like that, he obviously doesn't care what happens to your relationship. Or maybe he thought you were flirting with him and was being sarcastic. If not, then that's pretty fucked up that he would give you permission. I think you should ask him what he meant by it and if he really cares about you.
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im the same girl the asked about the "slut" question a lil bit ago...but anyway...today he told me he loved me and it was kinda weird cause it felt like he meant it but i just couldn't be sure and i told him i loved him 2...how do i know if he was telling the truth or does he only like me because i do stuff with only him...
thanks
You can't really tell if he's telling the truth. Don't do stuff with him for a while and see if he still hangs around.
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i had this guy over this weekend and things got pretty hot and heavy...he fingered me and stuff and after that it was kinda awkward and im not sure it should have happened it but it was great fun at the time...i don't want him to think im a slut but he is the only one i trust to do anything with...how do i keep him from thinking im a slut???
thanx
He's not going to think you're a slut just because you did stuff with him. Don't do stuff with him every time you're together or else just tell him if you like him or something.
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is it wrong to mess around with a guy if your not goin out....but ya gotta thing for each other....bc I do and ppl call me a slut and a whore and stuff...I dont see what the big deal is
No its not wrong. It's completely normal. The people that call you a slut and whore are just jealous. Tell them to get over themselves.
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i am really self-consiese about being touched "down there" and well i want this guy so bad but im afraid he will like laugh or something...wat should i do!?!?!?
Just let your fear go...don't worry about it he's not gonna laugh at you. No guy is gonna do that. They aren't that ignorant. We're all self conscious sometimes but that's normal.
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i need sum help...recenlty it came up and my parents wan to get me checked to see if i am a virgin or not *im not* and i want to know is it true that the docort cant tell them ? or what .. ?
Well...actually no they can't. It's called "doctor-patient priveledge" The doctors cannot tell your parents what went on in the doctors office, or what is going on with you unless it's a serious health problem. The doctors should not and im pretty sure are not ALLOWED to tell your parents if you are a virgin or not.
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i had my guy friend over at my house and he was touching me through my pants and stuff and after i bit it started feeling really damn good and then i stood up and i was all light-headed and my muscles just wouldn't work so i had to sit bak down and he started doing it again and my muscles started gettin really tense and then he stopped and i was still really weak and light-headed...wat does that mean...was i about to orgasm?
Yes you probably were. Girls get more orgasms by fingering and such than they do during intercourse. Either that or you were just REALLY turned on.
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Can Sex keep you in shape?
It is clinically shown that having sex is the best way to burn calories.
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I was readin sumone elses advice thing and sumone asked sumthin bout losin their virginity and the person said that ya can lose it by horseback riding.....is that true? bc Im a horseback rider.....thanx
No..you can't lose it by horseback riding. Maybe if she was riding something else of the horse's. But no that is not true. The thing about horseback riding is that girls can get orgasms by riding bareback.
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What does it mean when a girl's cherry pops?
It means the girl is no longer a virgin.
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how does sex feel?
Sex is undescribable. You have to experience it to know what it feels like. I know what it feels like but i can't put it into words. But I asked a few friends and they said they can't describe it either but a guy friend of mine said that for a guy it feels warm and really good. That's about all I can tell you. Hope I helped some :)
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wat does sex feel like?
Sex can't really be described, you'll know after you have it. Sorry if that doesnt help much but I cant really put into words how it feels.
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