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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life.



I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.



I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.



I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
The end..

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Do Not Hesitate In Asking Me Anything. I Am Here To Help. You Can Always IM Me On AIM At xAskkMechaBeccax For Privet And Convenient Help.

advice

im 16 and my girlfriend and i went to have sex
and i couldnt hold an erection that long its happened twice not sure why its really embarrassing what can i do?

I really dont think thid is something to worry about. Some guys get erections easier than others. Just make sure you're in the mood and enjoying it. Get your girlfriend to give you a handjob or blowjob first, or get her to wear something sexy for you.

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16\f
me and my bf make out and do stuff alot... and usually when I give him a handjob, he has a boner. But once I went down there on him and he didnt really have a boner.. How does he get one if he doesnt have one?!?
HELP> :)
thanks. lol

there are a lot of things that can turn guys on, it just depends on how far you plan on going with him. showing some skin never hurts hun, ;D. Teasing is also never a bad thing. It keeps a guy interested. also, start by giving him a handjob, then move on to giving him head.

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My boyfriend's spending the night for the first time saturday, and i was wondering if there is anything special i could do for him? I'm already giving him our first bj (tips for this as well would be very much appreciated), but is there anything else i coudl do to make it more pleasurable or comfortable?

as for blow job tips, here are mine. my boyfriend loves this. it makes him go crazy.

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

as for the night in general, one of the best feelings in the world is waking up next to th person you love. cuddle together and just be together. i love spending the night with my boyfriend. i love it when he sings me to sleep.

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do guys like sex better if the girl is 'tighter' down there? i mean i know they wont care as long as theyre getting some lol... but if they had to choose... would they prefer it?

guys are guys and they just like pussy, lol. but like, there's the whole "tight like asian pussy" expression implying that guys like tighter better. for the most part in the kind of sex you should be having, and i love, guys like the pussy of the girl he likes, doesn't matter what she's like down there.

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how big is ian penis!?

8 1/3 inches

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Tips?
Uh..
How do you give a good one?


Yup..


Cool.

this is my advice, and from how my boyfriend reacts, i would advise trying it. it'll drive your man wild.

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

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Is sex really as enjoyable as people say it is? Could it still be enjoyable if the girl cannot receive an orgasm from penetration? For a girl's first time, does it hurt really bad? Is there anything to lessen the pain or make it slightly comfortable? Does the girl bleed once her hymen is broken? Should there be a towel right under the girl? If the guy stretches you out by using 2-3 fingers, would it have any effect on how much pain there will be?
Sorry for so many questions. I'm really curious :]

basically, every girl is different. some girls feel pain, other don't. my personal experience: i was stretched out my first time, but it really didn't make a difference. it hurt for me, pretty bad. sex wasn't enjoyable for me until like, the 3rd time i had it. and sex can still be enjoyable for a girl, even if she cannot recieve an orgasm through penetration, though for me, i can't orgasm through masturbation. tell your partner what you like, don't be afraid to talk about sex, and remember the clit is an amazing thing.

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14/f what are some good items that i can use around the house to masturbate with? I cannot buy anything. Oh and where are some good places to practice it? I need it to feel really good. Not just a little bit. Thank you very much

go to www.mymasturbation.com

that site has a lot of stuff you can use without actually to buy stuff.

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Is it normal to queef right after having sex doggy style?

it's a common thing, after or during ANY position really.

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Does any one have any little hits or ideas or any little things or big things that can help me make it more enjoyable for him. anything to make him like it more, he doesn't come very easily like i still haven't made him so does any one have any helpful hints thanks o by the way I'm almost 16 f

I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for him and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

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whats sex like

i'm not answering this nick

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I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks.

sweetie, i know what you're going through and i'm sorry that you're going through all of this. i was sexually assulted by a guy who i thought was my friend and was the boyfriend of my boyfriend's co-worker/friend.

the best thing to do in this situation is to tell your mother so she can call the police to investigate and dump your boyfriend's ass. you need people supporting you through this and not people that do no believe you.

you should tell your parents so that they can tell the authorities so that they can either get in trouble or know that what they did was wrong. just imagion what would happen if you don't tell someone? they would think that they can get away with it and will put some other innocent girl through what you're going through. let them be punished.

sweetie, if you need a friend through all of this, don't hesitate to IM me at xAskkMechaBeccax on AIM or message me on myspace at www.myspace.com/mecha_becca_tm. you are a brave girl for even telling us this much. hope i helped.

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hey, i wuz just wondering if there are any sites for different masturbation tequnices. thx

www.mymasturbation.com

that place is GREAT!
has stuff for guys and girls, using different objects or things to do. it's awesome. lol

:D

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ok so this is the girl who needs those masturbation tips. feel free to give me any websites. thanks for your help =].

mymasturbation.com

it's a wonderful thing.
haha.
:D

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i'm plannin to give my bf a bj sometime very very soon and i was just wandering, what do girls do when they give you a bj that drives you crazy...in a good way! what do you love for them to do in other words, during an hj too!

I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.

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i started masturbating about 3 months ago, and its not as exciting anymore, and it even feels kind of weird afterwards. so how can i make my orgasms more intense?

there are alot of things you can do to spice up your pleasuring time. different objects you can use, differnt positions to be in. private message me if you want a link to a websit with a lot of ideas. i dont want to put it on here just incase of little kids and stuff

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every time my boyfriend and i see each other we have sex like 3-4 times in one day, we see each other either everyday or every other day.. is there any risks in having sex to much like health wise?

no, having sex alot is not unhealthy for you. on the contrary, it is a good workout. :D

Sex three times a week burns lots of calories, and if maintained throughout the year, is equivalent to jogging 75 miles.

Sex increases the supply of oxygen to the cells and stimulates the activity of various organs and systems within the body.

Sex balances out the good cholesterol to bad cholesterol ratio, and at the same time reduces the overall cholesterol count in the body.

The satisfaction and the relaxation after sex are beneficial for the mind and the circulatory system.

Sex has an advantage, especially for women. Regular sex increases the level of female hormone, which reduces the risk of heart disease and softens the vaginal tract.

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are there different ways to give head that are more pleasurable to guys? like different techniques or ideas? i want my boyfriend to really like it haha. thanks =)

I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:

1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.

2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.

3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.

4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you. Another is him fingering you while you do it. Anything that can make you and him sexually aroused can change the experience completely.

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i usually have sex with my bf to like ballads and stuff..but our 1 month aniversery is comming up and i wanna give him a special treat...so got any faster angry but still sexy music?

honestly, find some music he really likes and play that to set a special mood. it'll be sexy because of the music and special to him because you remember what he likes.

my boyfriend likes really fasted pased stuff sometimes like fear factory, disturbed, children of bodom, and rammstein.

but for a good break from slamming (lol =]), he likes sonata arctica, danzig, or some misfits.

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Is a 13-14 year olds sperm as effective as a 18+ sperm?
Or is one weaker than the other?

Yes it is the same, but 18 is their sexual high where they produce more and you can most likely get pregnant.

Wear a condom.

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